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Posted on 2/15/25 at 7:30 am to
Posted by TDsngumbo
Member since Oct 2011
45537 posts
Posted on 2/15/25 at 7:30 am to
quote:

If time is a river

Nah, baw. Time is an ocean.


Hope is an anchor and love is a ship
Time is the ocean and life is a trip
You don't know where you're going
'Til you know where you're at
And if you can't read the stars
Well, you'd better have a map,
A compass, and a conscience
So you don't get lost at sea
Or on some old lonely island
Where no one wants to be
Posted by Sus-Scrofa
Member since Feb 2013
9781 posts
Posted on 2/15/25 at 7:31 am to
OP trying to be deep, but he’s just paraphrasing Garth Brooks.
Posted by 87PurpleandGold
Arkansas
Member since Sep 2016
735 posts
Posted on 2/15/25 at 7:31 am to
The book is outstanding. Written by Norm Maclean.

"At sunrise everything is luminous but not clear. It is those we live with and love and should know who elude us. You can love completely without complete understanding."
Posted by Macfly
BR & DS
Member since Jan 2016
9515 posts
Posted on 2/15/25 at 7:58 am to
I think Kamala can enlighten us on this topic.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
281895 posts
Posted on 2/15/25 at 8:11 am to
“Empty your mind. Be formless. Shapeless. Like water. You put water into a cup, it becomes the cup. You put water into a bottle, it becomes the bottle. You put it in a teapot, it becomes the teapot. Water can flow, or it can crash. Be water, my friend.”

Bruce Lee.
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
70219 posts
Posted on 2/15/25 at 8:18 am to
“Jimmy, you need to get your head out of your arse and join the rest of us.”

-Your Dad

Posted by A Menace to Sobriety
Member since Jun 2018
31821 posts
Posted on 2/15/25 at 8:46 am to
quote:

Jim Rockford


Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
117602 posts
Posted on 2/15/25 at 8:47 am to
With if its a river filled with tequilla?
Posted by Michael T. Tiger
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2004
8635 posts
Posted on 2/15/25 at 8:52 am to
What if c-a-t really spelled “dog?”
Posted by Stonehenge
Wakulla Springs
Member since Dec 2014
1778 posts
Posted on 2/15/25 at 9:23 am to
Alan Parsons Project!!!
Posted by RummelTiger
Texas
Member since Aug 2004
92017 posts
Posted on 2/15/25 at 9:25 am to
There's the head of the river, the mouth, and points in between.

Those represent birth, life, and death.

Posted by DomincDecoco
of no fixed abode
Member since Oct 2018
11477 posts
Posted on 2/15/25 at 9:53 am to
Deep thought, by Jim Rockford



Seriously though brotha, hope you’re doing good after your loss.
Posted by DefCon1
Member since Dec 2017
769 posts
Posted on 2/15/25 at 11:59 am to
We are livung un a simulation so time is just an illusion.
Posted by Bullfrog
Running Through the Wet Grass
Member since Jul 2010
59027 posts
Posted on 2/15/25 at 12:12 pm to
Time just keeps on slipping, slipping into the future.
Posted by hometownhero89
Center of the Earth
Member since Aug 2007
1802 posts
Posted on 2/15/25 at 12:13 pm to
Spirit-wise, yes.
Posted by LSUtoBOOT
Member since Aug 2012
16521 posts
Posted on 2/15/25 at 12:20 pm to
Time keeps flowing like river.

Alan Parsons
Posted by Pandy Fackler
Member since Jun 2018
19203 posts
Posted on 2/15/25 at 12:21 pm to
Nice arse on that gal in the cartoon.
Posted by UptownJoeBrown
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2024
2451 posts
Posted on 2/15/25 at 1:02 pm to
You should have married her.
Posted by Tigris
Cloud Cuckoo Land
Member since Jul 2005
12833 posts
Posted on 2/15/25 at 5:29 pm to
quote:

This past week has been really hard. It seems to be getting worse. I read somewhere that grief typically peaks around month three or four so I have a ways to go. The thing I miss most is just talking to her.


I was in your shoes 10 years ago. For me the worst was about 3 months in. For her two last weeks in the hospital I was tough as nails, because I had to be. It slowly fell apart after that, though I was doing my best to hold together. 3 months later I was working a project on the road and it started to rain while I was driving. When I couldn't figure out how to use the windshield wipers in a car I'd driven for 10 years I knew it was time to pack up and head home. I wish I had good news for you. It will gradually get better after you bottom, whenever that is. Everybody is different. I just white knuckled it, though I know people who did therapy and/or went on drugs. To me the worst part was not having her there to talk to, and the loss of all those shared memories. I guess the idea I clung on to was that the worst thing that would ever happen to me was in my rear view mirror and moving away.

I've had zero desire to date in the last 10 years. Not after what I had. But I do enjoy life. To me this is the inconsequential bonus round of life where I'm free to do anything and everything. I guess that is my advice, think about the things you've always wanted to do, and then go out and do them, especially the stupid ones. And say frick you to the universe while you do it, with a grin on your face. Actually, I had the foresight to plan a Costa Rica trip from the hospital for 6 months down the road, because I knew I'd need it. Travel became my release and escape. I've always had 2 or 3 booked trips to look forward to.
Posted by UptownJoeBrown
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2024
2451 posts
Posted on 2/15/25 at 5:50 pm to
I agree. Travel is good for the soul. If you’re retired, just pack up a few things, pick a direction and go! Even better would be a used RV. Not a $200,000 one. You can get good used ones for 10K. Take back roads too. Interstates are too sterile and you go through areas too fast. Go the road less traveled so to speak.

And if you do the RV thing, get a dog if you don’t have one. You can foster one if you don’t want to make the full commitment.

You don’t know what’s out there unless you go look for yourself.
This post was edited on 2/15/25 at 5:55 pm
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