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re: I think schools confiscating a phone from a child is strange.

Posted on 12/6/23 at 10:44 am to
Posted by peaster68
Mississippi
Member since Dec 2011
6162 posts
Posted on 12/6/23 at 10:44 am to
quote:

confiscating a phone


Posted by caro81
Member since Jul 2017
5597 posts
Posted on 12/6/23 at 11:01 am to
Jesus Christ teach your son some discipline. so many parenting fails in this short write up.
Posted by Ribbed
Baton Rouge
Member since Jun 2023
2745 posts
Posted on 12/6/23 at 11:09 am to
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my wife was a wreck until he got home at 9:30

What is wrong with your wife?

Tell your kid to stop being an arse and he can keep his phone. Problem solved.
Posted by LaLadyinTx
Cypress, TX
Member since Nov 2018
6804 posts
Posted on 12/6/23 at 11:12 am to
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I bought him a new sports car, so she likes to make sure he’s keeping it safe.




Oh wow. You do realize that with teens it's never a question of will then have a wreck...it's WHEN will they have a wreck. They pretty much all do.
Posted by DivotBreath
On the course
Member since Oct 2007
3628 posts
Posted on 12/6/23 at 11:14 am to
Take the phone, enter the wrong password 5 times, hand the phone back to the kid.

Problem solved.
Posted by yaherrdme
The Place to Be
Member since Feb 2004
5653 posts
Posted on 12/6/23 at 11:18 am to
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Oh they have for sure…and they spelled out how the punishment would graduate with repeated violations…there is zero pushback from us. He knew what the punishment would be for sure.


Then how and why did you start the thread with this line ?

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IDK how a school can keep a kid’s phone for a week.


It is a policy AND the school WARNED EVERYONE involved, but your son continued to defy all authority at school. They were giving the parents a chance to handle it themselves, but the school had to essentially step in and dish out the punishment due to the parents inability to straighten out the situation.
Posted by IndianMoundFireworks
Member since Oct 2021
576 posts
Posted on 12/6/23 at 11:18 am to
Kids can cheat, be distracted, look at porn, and do all kinds of things on a phone. It wouldn’t help them in school at all and can only harm their learning and the school environment as a whole.
Posted by MFn GIMP
Member since Feb 2011
22351 posts
Posted on 12/6/23 at 11:19 am to
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He went to work out after ACT class night and my wife was a wreck until he got home at 9:30

Drama queen.
Posted by Quatrepot
Member since Jun 2023
4154 posts
Posted on 12/6/23 at 11:19 am to
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I bought him a new sports car, so she likes to make sure he’s keeping it safe.
Lemme guess, and you drive a clunker.
Posted by Miketheseventh
Member since Dec 2017
6509 posts
Posted on 12/6/23 at 11:20 am to
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but it’s odd to take something we pay for and utilize for ‘safety’ purposes

So I guess it’s okay that your child is not paying attention in class just so you and your wife can feel better knowing they are really in school when they are supposed to be. Sounds to me like you and your wife do not trust your child and need to know where they are at all times so y’all are okay. If you raised your kids right they will normally do the right thing and the times that they don’t are life lessons that can’t be taught by parents.
Posted by Supermoto Tiger
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2010
10337 posts
Posted on 12/6/23 at 11:22 am to
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guess they’re supposed to turn in their phone to the office each morning…and my son has not and does not
I bet he follows the rules next time
Posted by Pitt Road
Floriduh
Member since Aug 2017
972 posts
Posted on 12/6/23 at 11:23 am to
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I only get mad at him when he picks up door dings in parking lots…gotta park that shite far away:


You got him a nice new car and he's already got dings on it?

It sounds like your son is going to have to learn a lot of rules the hard way.
This post was edited on 12/6/23 at 11:28 am
Posted by LazloHollyfeld
Steam Tunnel at UNC-G
Member since Apr 2009
1877 posts
Posted on 12/6/23 at 11:50 am to
I don’t think AirTags track speed - but it will let your wife know where your kids is. Just tell your kid it can track his speed.
Posted by Rabby
Member since Mar 2021
938 posts
Posted on 12/6/23 at 12:09 pm to
Here is a sample discussion:

Son, your use of this vehicle was tied to the accountability which your phone provided. Since your failure to follow the school rules lost the phone, it also lost your ability to drive this vehicle. Chains work in a manner which the weakest link breaks the chain. Learn this lesson!

Lapses result in consequences.

The school bus arrives at __:__ o'clock.

Be on it.

Or if there is no bus option one of you needs to drive him and retrieve him.

Or he needs to spend his allowance to Uber to school.

Inconvenient, yes, but this is a discipline issue, so no compromises are appropriate - at any level.

Start raising this kid correctly.
Posted by Nutriaitch
Montegut
Member since Apr 2008
9688 posts
Posted on 12/6/23 at 12:10 pm to
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Because he agreed and signed a policy saying the school can keep the phone.


wait, is this a thing now?

if so, he left that part out.
Posted by TCO
Member since Jul 2022
3261 posts
Posted on 12/6/23 at 12:15 pm to
You should probably accept the fact that you and your wife are helicopter parents.
Posted by CSATiger
The Battlefield
Member since Aug 2010
6576 posts
Posted on 12/6/23 at 12:53 pm to
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use to track him.


put air pod tracker on him, for safety
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
51552 posts
Posted on 12/6/23 at 12:57 pm to
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I’m really glad I did not grow up in the cell phone era.

Same. My parents had no idea where I was in high school
Posted by TC Kidd
Member since Nov 2023
776 posts
Posted on 12/6/23 at 1:25 pm to
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it’s just odd to take a possession we pay for and use to track him.

I’ve got some Garmin tracking collars, do you want to borrow one?
Posted by Earnest_P
Member since Aug 2021
4445 posts
Posted on 12/6/23 at 1:28 pm to
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Jesus Christ teach your son some discipline. so many parenting fails in this short write up.


This has nothing to do with whether the government has a right to confiscate your property in the absence of a crime or legal issue.
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