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I lost my dad today. I am beyond thankful for all of yall!

Posted on 11/20/16 at 6:44 pm
Posted by Bottom9
Arsenal Til I Die
Member since Jul 2010
25542 posts
Posted on 11/20/16 at 6:44 pm
Tl;dr - my dad died today. I'm thankful for a place like this to take my mind off of such a difficult day. Love your close ones even during awful times. You won't regret it!!


Today has been the hardest day of my entire life. My dad died this morning. He was 93 and just 2 months shy of 94. He was battling Alzheimers for 9 years now but it only progressed to a bad state the past few years. All you folks out there who have dealt with Alzheimer's and other issues with family or friends, don't lose hope. My dad had an incredible sense of humor up until the end and I'm extremely grateful for that. Love your close ones and make memories with them. They may or may not remember but you sure as hell will. It has made me a better person.

My dad and mom had me in Honduras when he was 70 in 1993. The man was a stallion.

he was married 3 times and raised 12 kids total. (6 biological. 6 stepkids). He was a damn good man and I'm forever thankful.

He was a former merchant marine, teacher, and an accountant in the US (he did it the good ol hard working legal way) before he retired in the 80s went back home to Honduras and met my mom. They had my brother when he was 66 and me (his youngest) at 70. He moved our family to New Orleans when he was 75 so my brothers and I could get the best possible education.

In 3rd grade (8 years old) I used to pray and hope that he would make it to my HS graduation. Well I'll be damned because my daddy got to see me graduate from LSU in May 2015. Even if he didn't remember, you damn well better believe I'll always remember that moment and him being there. I love LSU directly as a result of my dad moving us here and prioritizing our educations.

Thank you all for entertaining me with great threads, shite posts, and everything else that I love about this place not only today but everyday that this awful disease lived inside of my dad. It's brought alot of relief at different times. It's like a big ol good disfunctional family in here. I do not regret signing up for this board in 10th grade. I'm thankful for you all.

Posted by SEClint
New Orleans, LA/Portland, OR
Member since Nov 2006
49487 posts
Posted on 11/20/16 at 6:45 pm to
I know how that is. Sorry for your loss and hope you and your family will be alright.
Posted by GeorgeTheGreek
Sparta, Greece
Member since Mar 2008
69557 posts
Posted on 11/20/16 at 6:45 pm to
Sorry for your loss.
Posted by HubbaBubba
North of DFW, TX
Member since Oct 2010
52613 posts
Posted on 11/20/16 at 6:45 pm to
Oh man, so, so, so sorry for your loss.
Posted by OWLFAN86
Erotic Novelist
Member since Jun 2004
197881 posts
Posted on 11/20/16 at 6:46 pm to
quote:

he was married 3 times and raised 12 kids total. (6 biological. 6 stepkids). He was a damn good man and I'm forever thankful.


sorry for your loss
Posted by mikeboss550
Member since Apr 2013
10997 posts
Posted on 11/20/16 at 6:46 pm to
Sorry bout your loss brother, prayers to you and your's.
Posted by cfa626
Member since Apr 2016
561 posts
Posted on 11/20/16 at 6:48 pm to
Praying for you and your family. I'm so glad your dad got to see you graduate and that you have those special memories. He sounds like a wonderful father.
Posted by Cajunate
Louisiana
Member since Aug 2012
3570 posts
Posted on 11/20/16 at 6:49 pm to
It's always difficult when you lose a loved one especially around the holiday season. He sounds like he lived a long happy life.
Posted by lsuwontonwrap
Member since Aug 2012
34147 posts
Posted on 11/20/16 at 6:49 pm to
quote:

My dad and mom had me in Honduras when he was 70 in 1993




He sounds like a great guy and he certainly did more in his life than a lot of us do.
Posted by FLBooGoTigs1
Nocatee, FL.
Member since Jan 2008
59570 posts
Posted on 11/20/16 at 6:49 pm to
Sorry for your lost. He sounded like a great dad Bout time he can get some rest after 12 kids. That was a joke in a good way. You sounded like from your post he lived alot longer than most thought so I threw that in.
Posted by Hangover Haven
Metry
Member since Oct 2013
34713 posts
Posted on 11/20/16 at 6:50 pm to
Oh man my condolences...

Just remember, he's back to his normal self, in a better place...
Posted by p0845330
Member since Aug 2013
6161 posts
Posted on 11/20/16 at 6:51 pm to
It was a blessing to have him that long. I wish it could have been longer.
Posted by zsav77
Member since Oct 2011
6288 posts
Posted on 11/20/16 at 6:52 pm to
Sorry for your loss.
Posted by Capital Cajun
Over Yonder
Member since Aug 2007
5632 posts
Posted on 11/20/16 at 6:52 pm to
Sorry for your loss. Sounds like he had a long full life. I lost my dad a few years ago, he was 68.

I think about him every day and I hope to be half the man he was.
Posted by geauxbrown
Louisiana
Member since Oct 2006
27966 posts
Posted on 11/20/16 at 6:53 pm to
Sorry for your loss.
Posted by GCTiger11
Ocean Springs, MS
Member since Jan 2012
46171 posts
Posted on 11/20/16 at 6:53 pm to
I'm sorry, man. In 10 days, it'll be 3 years since I lost mine. Thoughts and prayers your way.
Posted by Radiojones
The Twilight Zone
Member since Feb 2007
10728 posts
Posted on 11/20/16 at 6:55 pm to
God bless you and your family.
Posted by Kafka
I am the moral conscience of TD
Member since Jul 2007
158988 posts
Posted on 11/20/16 at 6:55 pm to
quote:

Thank you all for entertaining me with great threads
Well I did have some help















But seriously...


My condolences on the loss of your father. It sounds like he lived a long and interesting life. Treasure the memories.

Posted by Kajungee
South ,Section 6 Row N
Member since Mar 2004
17033 posts
Posted on 11/20/16 at 6:56 pm to
Sorry for your loss. God Bless
Posted by tigerinthebueche
Member since Oct 2010
38222 posts
Posted on 11/20/16 at 6:58 pm to
He Sounds like quite a character. Condolences and sorry for your loss. I'll raise a glass to him and his memory in just a moment.
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