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re: How often do you turn down sex from your SO?

Posted on 7/19/18 at 1:12 pm to
Posted by BRbornandraised
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Jun 2013
585 posts
Posted on 7/19/18 at 1:12 pm to
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My SO has several friends who tell her their husband never wants to have sex or that it’s been several months.


I can almost guarantee that her friends are not actively seeking sex from their husbands and getting turned down. Its probably like they are throwing off "subtle hints" that they want sex and not making it obvious. Then they turn around when the guy doesn't get the hint and complain to their friends that he doesn't want sex.
Posted by LSUSkip
Central, LA
Member since Jul 2012
24717 posts
Posted on 7/19/18 at 1:13 pm to
That's part of the reason.
Posted by makinskrilla
Lafayette, LA
Member since Jun 2009
9754 posts
Posted on 7/19/18 at 1:13 pm to
It’s a damn lie
Posted by go ta hell ole miss
Member since Jan 2007
14794 posts
Posted on 7/19/18 at 1:14 pm to
I’ll take NEVER for $200, Alex!
Posted by Packer
IE, California
Member since May 2017
8699 posts
Posted on 7/19/18 at 1:16 pm to
All the time.

Me: Wanna have sex?
SO: IDK, I have a headache
Me: Good, I didn't want to bang you anyway

In all seriousness, neither party has ever turned down the other for sex. We had to press pause due to the baby a few times though
Posted by lsucoonass
shreveport and east texas
Member since Nov 2003
70130 posts
Posted on 7/19/18 at 1:19 pm to
It’s a complex problem and both sexes are at fault

Low testosterone levels
Increased stress with work
Age of children and their sleeping habits
Attractiveness of their so

I sure as heck don’t want my so to wake me up at 2 or 3am wanting to bang bc she can’t sleep

Posted by Hangover Haven
Metry
Member since Oct 2013
34770 posts
Posted on 7/19/18 at 1:20 pm to
Wife's friend got divorced because of this issue... Never understood it because she was smoking hot with a beautiful body as well...

I guess like the old saying goes, No matter how hot she is, someone is tired of fricking her...
This post was edited on 7/19/18 at 1:20 pm
Posted by Presidio
Member since Nov 2017
3060 posts
Posted on 7/19/18 at 1:21 pm to
Posted by DevilDagNS
Member since Dec 2017
3017 posts
Posted on 7/19/18 at 1:21 pm to
quote:

at least once a week. i always play that game of chicken where i don't jerk off before she gets home and she ends not wanting it or i jerk it and she comes home horny af.


Happens all the time. Need to get off, spend the evening trying to gauge the dynamic, then about 9:00 I say frick it and let the poison out. Try to go to bed and then she comes in and wants to play. Usually I just rally and give it to her. Rarely, and I mean rarely, do I decline. If I do, I always use the headache excuse out of spite. Only other time I have turned it down is when I'm really hungover or legit sick.
Posted by Oilfieldbiology
Member since Nov 2016
42744 posts
Posted on 7/19/18 at 1:21 pm to
Yeah I’m calling bs on this. I want her to Wake me up anytime of night to bang if she can’t sleep. I’m probably having a good dream anyway and could use a hand
Posted by lsucoonass
shreveport and east texas
Member since Nov 2003
70130 posts
Posted on 7/19/18 at 1:22 pm to
This
Or they don’t want to do any oral and handjobs
Posted by keakar
Member since Jan 2017
30152 posts
Posted on 7/19/18 at 1:33 pm to
its not because they dont want sex, its because she has, like so many women, come to not give a frick about her looks and has turned very unattractive
Posted by Rabbs and QStick
Texas
Member since Apr 2012
3039 posts
Posted on 7/19/18 at 1:36 pm to
Posted by Darth_Vader
A galaxy far, far away
Member since Dec 2011
74604 posts
Posted on 7/19/18 at 1:37 pm to
Been married 21 years tomorrow and I can honestly say never once have I turned her down.
Posted by StupidBinder
Jawja
Member since Oct 2017
6392 posts
Posted on 7/19/18 at 1:41 pm to
My wife and I have been married 17 years and I’ve turned her down once. We just had a really bad fight and I was pissed.

20 minutes later we had sex. I’m not letting anger get in the way of getting some.

And yes, the majority of dudes turning their wives down are either cheating or they’ve let porn/masturbation completely crater their sex drive. Either way, something is seriously wrong in a situation like that.
This post was edited on 7/19/18 at 1:43 pm
Posted by Graton
Member since Jun 2017
373 posts
Posted on 7/19/18 at 1:42 pm to
In 12 years of marriage, I have never turned it down. There were a few instances where I woke up the next morning and got the ole "what was wrong last night? I was horny and you fell asleep." Like, seriously woman, how the frick was I supposed to know this? You should have just grabbed my dick if you wanted it, I promise I would have woke up.
Posted by LNCHBOX
70448
Member since Jun 2009
89388 posts
Posted on 7/19/18 at 1:44 pm to
quote:

And yes, the majority of dudes turning their wives down are either cheating or they’ve let porn/masturbation completely crater their sex drive. Either way, something is seriously wrong in a situation like that.


Or we get sex often enough that we don't have to take it every single time it's offered...
Posted by TheIndulger
Member since Sep 2011
19448 posts
Posted on 7/19/18 at 1:46 pm to
Why does the Swedish girl look fatter than the German?
Posted by StupidBinder
Jawja
Member since Oct 2017
6392 posts
Posted on 7/19/18 at 1:47 pm to
quote:

Or we get sex often enough that we don't have to take it every single time it's offered...


Well that’s why I said “the majority of dudes”. Some wives have stronger sex drives than their husbands but that’s not the norm.
Posted by Presidio
Member since Nov 2017
3060 posts
Posted on 7/19/18 at 1:47 pm to
The other possibility is that these guys are getting to the age that their testosterone levels are plummeting. I know a few guys my age who say "meh, I can take it or leave it - frankly rather have a good nights sleep".

and I'm like

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