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re: How often do you turn down sex from your SO?
Posted on 7/19/18 at 1:12 pm to PortHudsonPlaya
Posted on 7/19/18 at 1:12 pm to PortHudsonPlaya
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My SO has several friends who tell her their husband never wants to have sex or that it’s been several months.
I can almost guarantee that her friends are not actively seeking sex from their husbands and getting turned down. Its probably like they are throwing off "subtle hints" that they want sex and not making it obvious. Then they turn around when the guy doesn't get the hint and complain to their friends that he doesn't want sex.
Posted on 7/19/18 at 1:13 pm to BestBanker
That's part of the reason.
Posted on 7/19/18 at 1:14 pm to PortHudsonPlaya
I’ll take NEVER for $200, Alex!
Posted on 7/19/18 at 1:16 pm to PortHudsonPlaya
All the time.
Me: Wanna have sex?
SO: IDK, I have a headache
Me: Good, I didn't want to bang you anyway
In all seriousness, neither party has ever turned down the other for sex. We had to press pause due to the baby a few times though
Me: Wanna have sex?
SO: IDK, I have a headache
Me: Good, I didn't want to bang you anyway
In all seriousness, neither party has ever turned down the other for sex. We had to press pause due to the baby a few times though
Posted on 7/19/18 at 1:19 pm to PortHudsonPlaya
It’s a complex problem and both sexes are at fault
Low testosterone levels
Increased stress with work
Age of children and their sleeping habits
Attractiveness of their so
I sure as heck don’t want my so to wake me up at 2 or 3am wanting to bang bc she can’t sleep
Low testosterone levels
Increased stress with work
Age of children and their sleeping habits
Attractiveness of their so
I sure as heck don’t want my so to wake me up at 2 or 3am wanting to bang bc she can’t sleep
Posted on 7/19/18 at 1:20 pm to PortHudsonPlaya
Wife's friend got divorced because of this issue... Never understood it because she was smoking hot with a beautiful body as well...
I guess like the old saying goes, No matter how hot she is, someone is tired of fricking her...
I guess like the old saying goes, No matter how hot she is, someone is tired of fricking her...
This post was edited on 7/19/18 at 1:20 pm
Posted on 7/19/18 at 1:21 pm to celltech1981
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at least once a week. i always play that game of chicken where i don't jerk off before she gets home and she ends not wanting it or i jerk it and she comes home horny af.
Happens all the time. Need to get off, spend the evening trying to gauge the dynamic, then about 9:00 I say frick it and let the poison out. Try to go to bed and then she comes in and wants to play. Usually I just rally and give it to her. Rarely, and I mean rarely, do I decline. If I do, I always use the headache excuse out of spite.
Posted on 7/19/18 at 1:21 pm to lsucoonass
Yeah I’m calling bs on this. I want her to Wake me up anytime of night to bang if she can’t sleep. I’m probably having a good dream anyway and could use a hand
Posted on 7/19/18 at 1:22 pm to BRbornandraised
This
Or they don’t want to do any oral and handjobs
Or they don’t want to do any oral and handjobs
Posted on 7/19/18 at 1:33 pm to PortHudsonPlaya
its not because they dont want sex, its because she has, like so many women, come to not give a frick about her looks and has turned very unattractive 
Posted on 7/19/18 at 1:37 pm to PortHudsonPlaya
Been married 21 years tomorrow and I can honestly say never once have I turned her down.
Posted on 7/19/18 at 1:41 pm to PortHudsonPlaya
My wife and I have been married 17 years and I’ve turned her down once. We just had a really bad fight and I was pissed.
20 minutes later we had sex. I’m not letting anger get in the way of getting some.
And yes, the majority of dudes turning their wives down are either cheating or they’ve let porn/masturbation completely crater their sex drive. Either way, something is seriously wrong in a situation like that.
20 minutes later we had sex. I’m not letting anger get in the way of getting some.
And yes, the majority of dudes turning their wives down are either cheating or they’ve let porn/masturbation completely crater their sex drive. Either way, something is seriously wrong in a situation like that.
This post was edited on 7/19/18 at 1:43 pm
Posted on 7/19/18 at 1:42 pm to Darth_Vader
In 12 years of marriage, I have never turned it down. There were a few instances where I woke up the next morning and got the ole "what was wrong last night? I was horny and you fell asleep." Like, seriously woman, how the frick was I supposed to know this? You should have just grabbed my dick if you wanted it, I promise I would have woke up.
Posted on 7/19/18 at 1:44 pm to StupidBinder
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And yes, the majority of dudes turning their wives down are either cheating or they’ve let porn/masturbation completely crater their sex drive. Either way, something is seriously wrong in a situation like that.
Or we get sex often enough that we don't have to take it every single time it's offered...
Posted on 7/19/18 at 1:46 pm to BestBanker
Why does the Swedish girl look fatter than the German?
Posted on 7/19/18 at 1:47 pm to LNCHBOX
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Or we get sex often enough that we don't have to take it every single time it's offered...
Well that’s why I said “the majority of dudes”. Some wives have stronger sex drives than their husbands but that’s not the norm.
Posted on 7/19/18 at 1:47 pm to StupidBinder
The other possibility is that these guys are getting to the age that their testosterone levels are plummeting. I know a few guys my age who say "meh, I can take it or leave it - frankly rather have a good nights sleep".
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