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re: How much was your wedding and who paid for it?
Posted on 10/10/22 at 11:49 am to fareplay
Posted on 10/10/22 at 11:49 am to fareplay
We were both in college and in student teaching working 40 hours a week as a teacher without the pay so money was tight. Our wedding and week in the mountains was $2500 that we paid for by ourselves. My wife handmade all of the decorations, flowers etc using the 50% coupon hobby lobby used to give. Her dress she got an amazing deal on and family cooked all of the food. I also had a family who was
DJ so that worked out as well. We did have to pay for the cake but that was it. Our wedding was much nicer than most that I have gone to who spent thousands.
DJ so that worked out as well. We did have to pay for the cake but that was it. Our wedding was much nicer than most that I have gone to who spent thousands.
Posted on 10/10/22 at 11:49 am to fareplay
If you aren’t getting uncle Earnie to have your wedding in his barn at a total cost of $475 including the DJ and keg, the OT doesn’t approve
Posted on 10/10/22 at 11:49 am to fareplay
I say give her an option, say we can blow a large amount of money on a wedding or use that money as a down payment on a new home. That way it's actually going towards something that will help to build your future rather than some decadent party.
Posted on 10/10/22 at 11:49 am to fareplay
I was not involved with any of the financials. Her parents paid for all of it. Probably $35k or so if I had to guess.
It was a great night. No regrets.
It was a great night. No regrets.
Posted on 10/10/22 at 11:50 am to The Third Leg
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Too much.
Her parents
Posted on 10/10/22 at 11:54 am to fareplay
All in, end of covid lockdowns, under 10k. Me.
The only thing that was free was the DJ. We really made a priority list. We spent good money on the catering and venue. We made most of our own decor or used what the venue had. We set a budget on clothing and dresses.
It's just a fricking wedding.
The only thing that was free was the DJ. We really made a priority list. We spent good money on the catering and venue. We made most of our own decor or used what the venue had. We set a budget on clothing and dresses.
It's just a fricking wedding.
Posted on 10/10/22 at 11:54 am to WHS
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Our wedding was $2500 that we paid for by ourselves
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My wife handmade all of the decorations, flowers etc using the 50% coupon hobby lobby used to give
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family cooked all of the food
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DJ
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Our wedding was much nicer than most that I have gone to who spent thousands.
Skeptical hippo
Posted on 10/10/22 at 11:54 am to fareplay
Got married in 2021. Total cost was about 30k. My now wife and I paid 20k of our own money. My dad gave us 5k for it and her mom gave us 5k as well.
Posted on 10/10/22 at 11:55 am to fareplay
about 8 grand - paid for it myself
Posted on 10/10/22 at 11:57 am to fareplay
$25k and we paid for every damn cent ourselves. Biggest waste of money ever and I am still bitter about it. We could have gotten married on 1/5 the budget and had a nice wedding.
Posted on 10/10/22 at 12:00 pm to fareplay
Married 5 years.
Got married in Jackson square, in front of St. Louis cathedral. Friend on TD got ordained to do ceremony.
We had a second line band and marched through quarter afterwards.
Red Fish Grill for reception, where everyone paid their own way.
Bar hopped afterwards.
Paid for rehearsal at Katie’s.
$5k (we/I paid ourselves).
Wife’s mother paid for honeymoon.
Got married in Jackson square, in front of St. Louis cathedral. Friend on TD got ordained to do ceremony.
We had a second line band and marched through quarter afterwards.
Red Fish Grill for reception, where everyone paid their own way.
Bar hopped afterwards.
Paid for rehearsal at Katie’s.
$5k (we/I paid ourselves).
Wife’s mother paid for honeymoon.
Posted on 10/10/22 at 12:01 pm to fareplay
The wedding was pretty cheap, the divorce...not so much.
Posted on 10/10/22 at 12:03 pm to fareplay
About $5k, got married on a cruise ship.
It cost 10K for the divorce, but worth it.

It cost 10K for the divorce, but worth it.
Posted on 10/10/22 at 12:04 pm to fareplay
It didn't cost anything other than the drinks and food for the reception, which our parents paid for (roughly $2,000.) We chose to have as little burden on our family and friends as possible. No bridesmaids or groomsmen. Had a nice little shindig in our barn. Can't stand people that let their wedding put them or their parents in debt. It makes no sense.
Posted on 10/10/22 at 12:04 pm to PhiTiger1764
The couple needs to see the wedding funds as their money so they don't treat it as a blank check.
Posted on 10/10/22 at 12:04 pm to fareplay
So long ago I don’t remember, I did
Posted on 10/10/22 at 12:06 pm to fareplay
About 20,000 11 years ago
Posted on 10/10/22 at 12:07 pm to fareplay
Her dad told us... "I am giving you $10,000. If you spend only $8,000 then you will have $2,000 in your pocket."
We spent $12,000

We spent $12,000
Posted on 10/10/22 at 12:08 pm to fareplay
Had a very small wedding with only family. Took the extra money her dad was gonna pay for it and used it for other stuff we needed.
Frick a big wedding. I would take that money instead of a wedding everyday
Frick a big wedding. I would take that money instead of a wedding everyday
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