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re: How many of you baws are on their 2nd marriage and are step parents?
Posted on 8/23/18 at 10:15 am to sweetwaterbilly
Posted on 8/23/18 at 10:15 am to sweetwaterbilly
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I'm 28 and single. Should I just accept the fact that I'm going to be a step parent one day?
not quite, but the odds are not in your favor.
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Posted on 8/23/18 at 10:15 am to mikelbr
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quote: i'd be lying if i said the dynamic of managing the complexities of step parenting has not strained our marriage over the years because it has I was with both ex wives 5 yrs each. I've been with my gf(future ex3) for 7 yrs since. Just last night she called me a "broke dick motherfricker who pays everything the ex-coont wives(her words) ask for and don't leave anything for us". She was mad b/c she wants a big new house and that she spends all her extra $$ on the kids when we have them. The crazy girl started selling R&F FOR extra money to do stuff with the kids. Today she loves me and we're house-hunting this weekend. Women are crazy.
baw this roller coaster will get old...but you already know this
Posted on 8/23/18 at 10:15 am to maxxrajun70
I was busy with three boys of my own. We were four men, living all together, yet we were all alone. There was a lovely lady, who was bringing up three lovely girls. They all had hair of gold, like their their mother. The youngest one was in curls. One day I met the lovely lady, and we knew it was much more than a hunch that our groups must somehow form a family. That's the way we became the Fonz's bunch.
Posted on 8/23/18 at 10:18 am to mikelbr
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we're house-hunting this weekend.
Might want to re-think that decision, baw.
Posted on 8/23/18 at 10:19 am to sweetwaterbilly
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I'm 28 and single. Should I just accept the fact that I'm going to be a step parent one day?
Nah. Even if you find yourself divorced, just don’t re-marry. No stepkids.
This post was edited on 8/23/18 at 10:19 am
Posted on 8/23/18 at 10:20 am to mikelbr
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I was with both ex wives 5 yrs each. I've been with my gf(future ex3) for 7 yrs since. Just last night she called me a "broke dick motherfricker who pays everything the ex-coont wives(her words) ask for and don't leave anything for us". She was mad b/c she wants a big new house and that she spends all her extra $$ on the kids when we have them. The crazy girl started selling R&F FOR extra money to do stuff with the kids. Today she loves me and we're house-hunting this weekend. Women are crazy.
Kick her to the curb and rent poon
Posted on 8/23/18 at 10:23 am to maxxrajun70
Depends on the kids and their situation.
Dealing with a kid you have full time or most of the time is different from one who is a drop in on weekends and holidays.
It’s much easier to correct issues with the child you have because you won’t be overruled by the person who has them the majority of the time.
It also means that any behavioral issues are exacerbated while they are visiting, making it hard to treat them as well as the full time kids without rewarding them for shitty behavior.
It’s been a problem with my wife at times how one step child was treated vs the other but that child having then-undiagnosed issues that couldn’t get dealt with while living primarily with her father was the root of it. Transferring primary custody to us allowed things to progress on a number of levels as far as school, behavior, and getting diagnosed.
Dealing with a kid you have full time or most of the time is different from one who is a drop in on weekends and holidays.
It’s much easier to correct issues with the child you have because you won’t be overruled by the person who has them the majority of the time.
It also means that any behavioral issues are exacerbated while they are visiting, making it hard to treat them as well as the full time kids without rewarding them for shitty behavior.
It’s been a problem with my wife at times how one step child was treated vs the other but that child having then-undiagnosed issues that couldn’t get dealt with while living primarily with her father was the root of it. Transferring primary custody to us allowed things to progress on a number of levels as far as school, behavior, and getting diagnosed.
Posted on 8/23/18 at 10:26 am to mikelbr
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Just last night she called me a "broke dick motherfricker who pays everything the ex-coont wives(her words) ask for and don't leave anything for us". She was mad b/c she wants a big new house and that she spends all her extra $$ on the kids when we have them. The crazy girl started selling R&F FOR extra money to do stuff with the kids.
Sounds like you got a good one.
Posted on 8/23/18 at 10:27 am to maxxrajun70
I am, but my marriage is really good. I treat my step kids like my own, and do my best to give attention equally. It can work, but it did take a little time to adjust when we first got married, but it’s smooth sailing now.
Posted on 8/23/18 at 10:39 am to KLSU
quote:Amen!! It is very hard at times but also very rewarding.
I am and to be honest this is the ONLY thing my wife and I argue about. It's tough merging families together I am here to tell you both parties have to be willing to give a little or it is destined for failure. So anyone looking to re marry and has kids either be prepared for this and understand you will need to compromise or DONT GET MARRIED if you are not able/willing too!!
Posted on 8/23/18 at 10:42 am to maxxrajun70
Your friend has issues when choosing women.
Posted on 8/23/18 at 11:03 am to sweetwaterbilly
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I'm 28 and single. Should I just accept the fact that I'm going to be a step parent one day?
Posted on 8/23/18 at 11:10 am to Ripley
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Sounds like you got a good one.
I know she sounds nuts.
But she is really quite amazing. She's younger and prettier than me and loves my chirrens.
She's already booked our trips and tix to Auburn and Fayetteville with all 4 shitbiscuits. Geaux Tigers.
My ex wives love her as she runs shite very well and takes great care of the kids.
And when she beats me, I usually deserve it for grabbing a titty.
This post was edited on 8/23/18 at 11:13 am
Posted on 8/23/18 at 11:13 am to mikelbr
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And when she beats me, I usually deserve it for grabbing a titty.
Otherwise it's just foreplay?
Posted on 8/23/18 at 11:21 am to Displaced
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Otherwise it's just foreplay?
Yea buddy.
Remember Californication when Hank was boning that teenager and she smacked him in the face?
Posted on 8/23/18 at 11:26 am to mikelbr
Don't get a house together.
Posted on 8/23/18 at 11:32 am to ZappBrannigan
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Don't get a house together.
We're gonna get a house and get married and get us a baby either through stunt cock or adoption.
Posted on 8/23/18 at 11:33 am to maxxrajun70
I have two step daughters, I raised them like were my own. We had three more together, we've never had issues with jealousy.
I would sit her down and tell her straight up how its gonna be, if she don't like it hit the road.
I would sit her down and tell her straight up how its gonna be, if she don't like it hit the road.
Posted on 8/23/18 at 11:33 am to maxxrajun70
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step parenting
Soccer board
Posted on 8/23/18 at 11:35 am to mikelbr
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I was with both ex wives 5 yrs each.
I've been with my gf(future ex3) for 7 yrs since.
I bet it would be one HELL of an interesting time to have a beer with the ex's at the same time.
This post was edited on 8/23/18 at 11:37 am
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