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re: How many kids did you plan to have vs how many are you actually having?

Posted on 10/17/20 at 5:26 pm to
Posted by LSUalum2000
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2005
3643 posts
Posted on 10/17/20 at 5:26 pm to
I wanted 2... wife wanted 3... we ended up with 4
Posted by MrBiriwa
Biriwa,OH
Member since Nov 2010
7116 posts
Posted on 10/17/20 at 5:30 pm to
Planned 3

Had 2
Posted by AbitaFan08
Boston, MA
Member since Apr 2008
26563 posts
Posted on 10/17/20 at 5:33 pm to
Planned 2. Have 0.
Posted by PillPusher
Gulf Coast
Member since Oct 2009
5710 posts
Posted on 10/17/20 at 5:37 pm to
Want 3. Have 2 so far. If you’d asked a month after the first one we’d have both said that’s it only one. But as she got older can’t imagine not having a few kids.
Posted by BeachDude022
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Member since Dec 2006
34812 posts
Posted on 10/17/20 at 5:59 pm to
I have 0. I plan to have 0.
Posted by Hamma1122
Member since Sep 2016
19820 posts
Posted on 10/17/20 at 6:00 pm to
I’m one and done
Posted by MDB
Baton Rouge
Member since Nov 2019
3078 posts
Posted on 10/17/20 at 6:42 pm to
Wanted kids, never set number. But took 8 years to have first one, second came the next year. Doc said probably couldn’t have any more. Surprise, surprise ... 9 years later my youngest of three daughters came to us. I was 40. Wasn’t easy but love those three gals so much.

PS: Pretty sure my oldest daughter was conceived during halftime of a Saints-Cowboys game. And she is a mega-Saints fan now.
Posted by GardenDistrictTiger
Fort Worth
Member since Sep 2020
2480 posts
Posted on 10/17/20 at 6:43 pm to
Never wanted to marry or have kids. I married and had four.

I was right about marriage and children.
Posted by X82ndTiger
USA
Member since Sep 2004
2464 posts
Posted on 10/17/20 at 7:15 pm to
Planned for two have two. One girl one boy, couldn’t be happier. Both are adults now and I am proud of what they have become.
Posted by dewster
Chicago
Member since Aug 2006
25354 posts
Posted on 10/17/20 at 7:16 pm to
quote:

How many kids did you plan to have vs how many are you actually having


Wanted 3.

We just had our first. I think we’ll stop at 2.
This post was edited on 10/17/20 at 7:17 pm
Posted by Bullfrog
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Member since Jul 2010
56242 posts
Posted on 10/17/20 at 7:27 pm to
2/4
Posted by Evil Little Thing
Member since Jul 2013
11226 posts
Posted on 10/17/20 at 7:34 pm to
quote:

If you’d asked a month after the first one we’d have both said that’s it only one. But as she got older can’t imagine not having a few kids.


It’s amazing how quickly the exhausting newborn phase is forgotten. Mine is only 2 months old, and already I can barely recall the way it felt.
Posted by kywildcatfanone
Wildcat Country!
Member since Oct 2012
119140 posts
Posted on 10/17/20 at 7:34 pm to
I have 0.
Posted by tigafan4life
Member since Dec 2006
48923 posts
Posted on 10/17/20 at 7:37 pm to
1. Had 3. Two girls 1 boy.
Posted by Evil Little Thing
Member since Jul 2013
11226 posts
Posted on 10/17/20 at 7:37 pm to
quote:

Take advantage of the built-in babysitter while you can. It'll get more difficult when she's in HS and has a social life.


For sure! To say she wasn’t excited about getting a sibling is an understatement. But now she’s obsessed with him & practically holds him more than I do. I was worried. It makes me so happy.
Posted by SuperSaint
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Member since Sep 2007
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Posted on 10/17/20 at 7:37 pm to
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Evil Little Thing



quote:

Mine is only 2 months old, a
damn time flies



This Wednesday it’s going down in Berkeley, have a feeling the COVID-19 shite at the hospital will be a clusterfrick


Posted by Evil Little Thing
Member since Jul 2013
11226 posts
Posted on 10/17/20 at 7:40 pm to
Ahhh!! I was just wondering if your baby was here yet! Sending all my good thoughts super excited for y’all!
This post was edited on 10/17/20 at 7:41 pm
Posted by tigafan4life
Member since Dec 2006
48923 posts
Posted on 10/17/20 at 7:41 pm to
I have a 17 year old and 13 year old and then the baby. They both are obsessed with him. It’s clutch with them being able to just watch him if I need to run to the store. Take advantage of that.
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
48523 posts
Posted on 10/17/20 at 7:46 pm to
quote:

For sure! To say she wasn’t excited about getting a sibling is an understatement. But now she’s obsessed with him & practically holds him more than I do. I was worried. It makes me so happy.

My advice to you, as someone who has been in a similar situation, just 13-14 years ago, is to make sure that y'all pay the older one as much attention as possible. She'll feel neglected because she's used to being the only kid and it's difficult for the baby not to dominate your attention.

Get her dad to go to something with her, just the two of them. I'd encourage y'all to do the same. I think we could have done a better job of that. Just my 2 cents.
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
140462 posts
Posted on 10/17/20 at 7:48 pm to
Pics? of oldest daughter with daddy issues?
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