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re: How long should two people be in a relationship before saying "I Love you"?

Posted on 2/17/15 at 7:59 pm to
Posted by xLxSxUxFxAxNx
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2003
58633 posts
Posted on 2/17/15 at 7:59 pm to
441 days.
Posted by freeagent
Member since Oct 2014
922 posts
Posted on 2/17/15 at 8:02 pm to
Say it when you feel it man.. I've ruined a relationship by waiting too long. Especially since she already said it (where enough time hadnt elapsed yet for me to be comfortsble). Not to say just say it. But if you're feeling those feels, let it go.
Posted by LaBR4
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2005
53471 posts
Posted on 2/17/15 at 8:04 pm to
LINK

quote:

day 67 


Posted by Tiger Ryno
#WoF
Member since Feb 2007
107529 posts
Posted on 2/17/15 at 8:21 pm to
Three days
Posted by ksayetiger
Centenary Gents
Member since Jul 2007
70168 posts
Posted on 2/17/15 at 9:01 pm to
quote:

I saw a Turkey Creek exit off of I-49 just above Lafayette & thought about you



I ate Chinese food yesterday and thought about you 


I think yall are ready to tell each other I love you
Posted by FLBooGoTigs1
Nocatee, FL.
Member since Jan 2008
58655 posts
Posted on 2/17/15 at 9:08 pm to
I was thinking it you said it.

Posted by chinese58
NELA. after 30 years in Dallas.
Member since Jun 2004
33286 posts
Posted on 2/17/15 at 9:10 pm to
quote:

I think yall are ready to tell each other I love you


I don't believe him, but I really did think about him when I saw the sign. He's the only Turkey Creek I've ever heard of.

I don't do TD's enough for him to remember me. The only folks who remember me on TD's were probably regulars on the LSU Recruiting board four or five years ago.
Posted by lsuwontonwrap
Member since Aug 2012
34147 posts
Posted on 2/17/15 at 9:10 pm to
Whoever says it first loses.
Posted by Carson123987
Middle Court at the Rec
Member since Jul 2011
67797 posts
Posted on 2/17/15 at 9:34 pm to
quote:

As a rule, i wait for them to say it first


absolutely this. ideally this takes ~a year

one of my high school gfs said it and i started laughing and she started crying
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129146 posts
Posted on 2/17/15 at 9:37 pm to
quote:

Whenever it feels comfortable and it's not within the first month of dating.


Everyone is different though. You hear of people falling in love quickly and marrying within months of their first date....and it actually lasts. Granted that isn't the norm, but it does happen.


My husband and I said it to each other 3 weeks in.....our relationship took off at warp speed it seemed like.
Posted by AbitaFan08
Boston, MA
Member since Apr 2008
27902 posts
Posted on 2/17/15 at 9:39 pm to
I once told a girl I loved her on our first date. It was awkward and she got really freaked out.

But then I stole a blue french horn for her and she was all "awwww"
Posted by jonboy
Member since Sep 2003
7439 posts
Posted on 2/17/15 at 9:39 pm to
About an hour in. Get the crazy out in front early.
Posted by Carson123987
Middle Court at the Rec
Member since Jul 2011
67797 posts
Posted on 2/17/15 at 9:40 pm to
quote:

My husband and I said it to each other 3 weeks in.....


good lord. typically = crash and burn
Posted by Nativebullet
Plano, TX
Member since Feb 2011
5169 posts
Posted on 2/17/15 at 9:40 pm to
i've said it from night 1 to night 600. It all ended up the same.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129146 posts
Posted on 2/17/15 at 9:43 pm to
Yeah I know, I know...but hey, we both were feeling it towards each other that soon. Obviously it worked out...that was a lil over 7 years ago.
Posted by Dr. Shultz
Baton Rouge, La
Member since Jun 2013
6391 posts
Posted on 2/17/15 at 9:46 pm to
and that's how I met your aunt robin
Posted by LongueCarabine
Pointe Aux Pins, LA
Member since Jan 2011
8205 posts
Posted on 2/18/15 at 5:42 am to
quote:

saw a Turkey Creek exit off of I-49 just above Lafayette & thought about you.


You were about 60 miles north of Lafayette when you saw that sign.

I use that exit every workday.

LC
Posted by Tigerstudent08
Lakeview
Member since Apr 2007
5776 posts
Posted on 2/18/15 at 6:18 am to
First date!?! I've heard of guys saying it early to seal the deal but this will just do the opposite.

I was in love with my wife very early on but waited about 2 months after the first date to actually say it. I think it would be kinda creepy and not very genuine to say the first time the thought pops into your head.
Posted by Patrick_Bateman
Member since Jan 2012
17823 posts
Posted on 2/18/15 at 6:36 am to
quote:

yes, during sex for the first time
That got me.
Posted by LucasP
Member since Apr 2012
21618 posts
Posted on 2/18/15 at 6:42 am to
Always be drunk the first time you say it, if it doesn't go well you can blame the booze.

This rule also applies to marriage proposals.
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