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How long should a senior be missing before calling police?

Posted on 6/27/26 at 2:15 am
Posted by Napoleon
Kenna
Member since Dec 2007
74863 posts
Posted on 6/27/26 at 2:15 am
Trying to decide if to call 911. Dad has been out since 7pm. He's starting to get confused and o rant him to not drive. He had no phone on him.
Have tracking on car but it's tied to phone. So isn't updating enough to pinpoint him.
Posted by Napoleon
Kenna
Member since Dec 2007
74863 posts
Posted on 6/27/26 at 2:23 am to
Got a hit on his air tag and located him.
Will likely pull l the start relay on his car in the morning.
Posted by JayVegas702
Las Vegas
Member since Oct 2025
403 posts
Posted on 6/27/26 at 2:39 am to
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Got a hit on his air tag and located him.


Glad you located...assuming he's safe? Sorry you're going through that man that's rough
Posted by BigAppleTiger
New York City
Member since Dec 2008
11113 posts
Posted on 6/27/26 at 2:40 am to
I went through this with my father. Get him to wear an Apple watch and you can track him. Best thing we did. That and alert the local police that he is starting to wander and provide a picture with his name and address and your contact number. It's very hard. Stay strong.
Posted by CalcuttaTigah
Member since Jul 2009
1029 posts
Posted on 6/27/26 at 2:51 am to
Right idea but Apple Watches have to be charged every 24 hours. I’d say just put an AirTag on keychain and be done with it.
Posted by andouille
A table near a waiter.
Member since Dec 2004
11712 posts
Posted on 6/27/26 at 3:40 am to
Recommend a tracker that plugs into the OBD-II jack under the dash, you can track constantly. We saved a young man's life, he got into drugs and was going into extreme danger. 2 decades later, he's a great dad.

My wife is showing sighs of dementia, I geo fence her, so I'm always aware.
Posted by Havoc
Member since Nov 2015
39527 posts
Posted on 6/27/26 at 4:19 am to
I suppose this is the life of the Gen Xer for a while. I haven’t experienced it yet but wife has. God bless.
Posted by TooFyeToFly
Athens, GA
Member since Nov 2012
2370 posts
Posted on 6/27/26 at 8:09 am to
Sorry you and your family are going through this.

In these situations I probably wouldn't wait to call the police. If it's too soon to file a report, they will tell you. No harm in calling and explaining the situation to them.
Posted by greenbean
USAF Retired - 31 years
Member since Feb 2019
6581 posts
Posted on 6/27/26 at 8:28 am to
my mom is 91, in great health and still drives. I need to track her and her vehicles, she lives alone in a very rural area. I will probably AirTag her car, but she still has a flip phone, so an apple watch wouldn't track her as well, plus she wouldn't charge it. She still works in the yard all day in the heat, so I need to know if she falls out there.
Posted by real turf fan
East Tennessee
Member since Dec 2016
12175 posts
Posted on 6/27/26 at 8:44 am to
Do all states have "Silver alerts"?

Just like Amber alerts used to be, but for citizens Senior and otherwise who
(The wording is something like) have a medical condition that may make it difficult for them to return home.

If not, it's something to work for for your state.
Posted by Napoleon
Kenna
Member since Dec 2007
74863 posts
Posted on 6/27/26 at 10:01 am to
So I asked him about it. He don't know what day it is. Durant know where he went. Says he went to meet someone about a percentage of money or something.

So I told him he needs to see a doctor. He had some impairment. He turned violent and started throwing stuff at me to leave i stood my ground and he punched me. He's 6'3" 250 bigger than me and always been angry and violent.
So I left. May be time to get police and force him to a hospital for evaluation.
Posted by PurpleandGold Motown
Waltzing Between the Raindrops
Member since Oct 2007
24827 posts
Posted on 6/27/26 at 10:05 am to
I think that is California and out west.

Cali also has the "Feather Alert" for missing natives.

Racist much?
Posted by Tyga Woods
South Central Jupiter Island, FL
Member since Sep 2016
42875 posts
Posted on 6/27/26 at 10:10 am to
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So I told him he needs to see a doctor. He had some impairment. He turned violent and started throwing stuff at me to leave i stood my ground and he punched me. He's 6'3" 250 bigger than me and always been angry and violent.
So I left. May be time to get police and force him to a hospital for evaluation.


If he is a danger to himself or others, call the coroner. They can have him evaluated. He's gonna be pissed as shite at you but it's better than waiting until something bad happens.
Posted by OysterPoBoy
City of St. George
Member since Jul 2013
45489 posts
Posted on 6/27/26 at 10:14 am to
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He turned violent and started throwing stuff at me to leave i stood my ground and he punched me. He's 6'3" 250 bigger than me and always been angry and violent.


That sucks man. Very sorry.
Posted by Kcrad
Diamondhead
Member since Nov 2010
68297 posts
Posted on 6/27/26 at 10:17 am to
quote:

If he is a danger to himself or others, call the coroner.
I hope he doesn't have to call the coroner anytime soon.
Posted by Vandyrone
Nashville, TN
Member since Dec 2012
8044 posts
Posted on 6/27/26 at 10:18 am to
quote:

So I asked him about it. He don't know what day it is. Durant know where he went. Says he went to meet someone about a percentage of money or something. So I told him he needs to see a doctor. He had some impairment. He turned violent and started throwing stuff at me to leave i stood my ground and he punched me. He's 6'3" 250 bigger than me and always been angry and violent. So I left. May be time to get police and force him to a hospital for evaluation.


We just went through this with my dad. Doctor evaluated him as unfit to drive and submitted paperwork to the DMV. Took away his keys. He found an old skeleton key to his car and drove. We tracked the car via AirTag. Took away the car. It’s at my sister’s house. He hasn’t left the house in 2 months and is fine just always being at home now.
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
138818 posts
Posted on 6/27/26 at 10:20 am to
12 daylight hours or 8 night time hours

Gone since 7:00pm. Calling the police by 3:00am.
Posted by LSUBFA83
Member since May 2012
4341 posts
Posted on 6/27/26 at 10:26 am to
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hope he doesn't have to call the coroner anytime soon.


As weird as it sounds, the parish coroner office is actually the ones that can briefly commit the person for mental health evaluation. We had to do that once for an elderly neighbor who was acting dangerously erratic and all relatives were out of state. Once the evaluation was done his family agreed to have him put in a nursing home.
Posted by Kcrad
Diamondhead
Member since Nov 2010
68297 posts
Posted on 6/27/26 at 10:47 am to
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the parish coroner office is actually the ones that can briefly commit the person for mental health evaluation
I did not know that.
Posted by lepdagod
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2015
6268 posts
Posted on 6/27/26 at 11:37 am to
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May be time to get police and force him to a hospital for evaluation.


Police can’t force him… but it’s a good idea to get them involved now to at least have a report of recent info in case he every goes missing again

Situations like your father’s would benefit from the local police or sheriff department having a program tied to a couple of nursing homes or home health nurses in the area… who could every now and then drop in on your father just to check how he doing… just a few minutes of conversation a week… more if it’s needed… the “defund the police” thing got a bad rap… the sensible people weren’t talking about getting rid of police officers… it was about funneling some of the money away from 80k$ SUVs and other over equipped bullshite… into community programs that really would serve a purpose
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