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How hard is it to not be an a-hole

Posted on 6/10/20 at 11:28 am
Posted by athenslife101
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Posted on 6/10/20 at 11:28 am
Because people sure do make it look real hard.

It’s entirely possible to live a calm life where you treat everyone with dignity (whether they deserve it or not) and still live within your world view.

Instead, we have a bunch of adult children running around like headless chickens trying to sqwak and bring everyone down to their level of maturity. And they have by and large succeeded. It’s tiresome.
Posted by ksayetiger
Centenary Gents
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Posted on 6/10/20 at 11:29 am to
is this about the OT, secrant, or poliboard?
Posted by The Spleen
Member since Dec 2010
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Posted on 6/10/20 at 11:29 am to
Being an a-hole became a virtue in this country about 15 years ago.
Posted by Klark Kent
Houston via BR
Member since Jan 2008
75980 posts
Posted on 6/10/20 at 11:31 am to
quote:

Being an a-hole became a virtue in this country about 15 years ago


well, that's one take.
Posted by dukke v
PLUTO
Member since Jul 2006
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Posted on 6/10/20 at 11:31 am to
All because of ONE shitty cop.
Posted by athenslife101
Member since Feb 2013
20656 posts
Posted on 6/10/20 at 11:32 am to
It has been like this for a long time.
Posted by rondo
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Posted on 6/10/20 at 11:32 am to
I live by he golden rule and the general assumption that I should be ethical.

The 10 core values needed to be ethical are the following:

Honesty
Integrity
Promise keeping
Fidelity
Fairness
Caring for others
Respect for others
Responsible citizenship
Pursuit of excellence
Accountability



I haven't seen Americans offer many of these ten core values for quite some time. Made worse by our media dividing people into two distinct groups and people eating it up like it's candy


ETA: it needs to go back to the days where it was ok to have a difference of opinion from people.

This post was edited on 6/10/20 at 11:34 am
Posted by DandA
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Member since Jun 2018
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Posted on 6/10/20 at 11:33 am to
It's the result of the pampered, sense of entitlement, participation trophy, coddled generation growing older. They weren't spanked as a kid when throwing temper tantrums and always got what they wanted.
Posted by arcalades
USA
Member since Feb 2014
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Posted on 6/10/20 at 11:34 am to
life is too broad to discuss in such a simple context. 99% have to be aholes at least half the time. if you are referencing the big picture "protest", then that is not a top of aholes. that's a topic of a class of people trying to destroy our nation and capitalism. it is an attempt at a communist revolution.
Posted by athenslife101
Member since Feb 2013
20656 posts
Posted on 6/10/20 at 11:35 am to
I see a lot of older people who are the same assholes.
Posted by Goldrush25
San Diego, CA
Member since Oct 2012
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Posted on 6/10/20 at 11:36 am to
Pretty damn hard judging by what people say on a daily basis here.
Posted by The Spleen
Member since Dec 2010
38865 posts
Posted on 6/10/20 at 11:37 am to
quote:

It's the result of the pampered, sense of entitlement, participation trophy, coddled generation growing older. They weren't spanked as a kid when throwing temper tantrums and always got what they wanted.



The biggest assholes I encounter on a day to day basis are all boomers. Pretty sure boomers were spanked as kids.
Posted by pwejr88
Red Stick
Member since Apr 2007
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Posted on 6/10/20 at 11:37 am to
quote:


It’s entirely possible to live a calm life where you treat everyone with dignity (whether they deserve it or not)


Christianity and Jesus for the win!

Posted by Aubie Spr96
lolwut?
Member since Dec 2009
44848 posts
Posted on 6/10/20 at 11:38 am to
quote:

It’s tiresome.



I can't even turn on the TV anymore. Forget about any social media platforms.
Posted by rondo
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Posted on 6/10/20 at 11:40 am to
quote:

Christianity and Jesus for the win!



I am not religious even a little bit but living ethically and following the golden rule is pretty fricking easy to abide by.
Posted by athenslife101
Member since Feb 2013
20656 posts
Posted on 6/10/20 at 11:41 am to
Yeah, most people aren’t very Christian (including many people who claim to be).

I think it’s very interesting that for millennia, our religions have been based around not giving into desires and now not indulging is a bad thing.

I like to read about Buddhist principles and stoic principles about living an unemotional life because I find them very comforting.
This post was edited on 6/10/20 at 11:48 am
Posted by Uptowner
The OP
Member since Oct 2019
2030 posts
Posted on 6/10/20 at 11:44 am to
quote:

adult children


Exactly. Of all Karen's failures, her worst is raising her kids to be perpetual adolescents rather than adults.
Posted by yatesdog38
in your head rent free
Member since Sep 2013
12737 posts
Posted on 6/10/20 at 11:45 am to
Incredibly difficult because people expect me to answer their questions instead of Google. I have to learn people everyday.
Posted by escatawpabuckeye
Member since Jan 2013
1057 posts
Posted on 6/10/20 at 11:46 am to
I think most persons are great. On an individual level, the overwhelming majority of folks want to do the right thing.

But people as a group are selfish, ignorant, emotional and petty.

It’s always been that way and probably always will.

What changes is the dominant culture which influences the group. That’s the problem right now
Posted by athenslife101
Member since Feb 2013
20656 posts
Posted on 6/10/20 at 11:46 am to
“ that's a topic of a class of people trying to destroy our nation and capitalism. it is an attempt at a communist revolution.”

Please don’t turn us into an us vs them thing. I’ve lost respect for many people on both “sides” and gained respect for some people on both “sides”.
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