- My Forums
- Tiger Rant
- LSU Recruiting
- SEC Rant
- Saints Talk
- Pelicans Talk
- More Sports Board
- Fantasy Sports
- Golf Board
- Soccer Board
- O-T Lounge
- Tech Board
- Home/Garden Board
- Outdoor Board
- Health/Fitness Board
- Movie/TV Board
- Book Board
- Music Board
- Political Talk
- Money Talk
- Fark Board
- Gaming Board
- Travel Board
- Food/Drink Board
- Ticket Exchange
- TD Help Board
Customize My Forums- View All Forums
- Show Left Links
- Topic Sort Options
- Trending Topics
- Recent Topics
- Active Topics
Started By
Message

How hard is it to not be an a-hole
Posted on 6/10/20 at 11:28 am
Posted on 6/10/20 at 11:28 am
Because people sure do make it look real hard.
It’s entirely possible to live a calm life where you treat everyone with dignity (whether they deserve it or not) and still live within your world view.
Instead, we have a bunch of adult children running around like headless chickens trying to sqwak and bring everyone down to their level of maturity. And they have by and large succeeded. It’s tiresome.
It’s entirely possible to live a calm life where you treat everyone with dignity (whether they deserve it or not) and still live within your world view.
Instead, we have a bunch of adult children running around like headless chickens trying to sqwak and bring everyone down to their level of maturity. And they have by and large succeeded. It’s tiresome.
Posted on 6/10/20 at 11:29 am to athenslife101
is this about the OT, secrant, or poliboard?
Posted on 6/10/20 at 11:29 am to athenslife101
Being an a-hole became a virtue in this country about 15 years ago.
Posted on 6/10/20 at 11:31 am to The Spleen
quote:
Being an a-hole became a virtue in this country about 15 years ago
well, that's one take.
Posted on 6/10/20 at 11:31 am to athenslife101
All because of ONE shitty cop.
Posted on 6/10/20 at 11:32 am to dukke v
It has been like this for a long time.
Posted on 6/10/20 at 11:32 am to athenslife101
I live by he golden rule and the general assumption that I should be ethical.
The 10 core values needed to be ethical are the following:
Honesty
Integrity
Promise keeping
Fidelity
Fairness
Caring for others
Respect for others
Responsible citizenship
Pursuit of excellence
Accountability
I haven't seen Americans offer many of these ten core values for quite some time. Made worse by our media dividing people into two distinct groups and people eating it up like it's candy
ETA: it needs to go back to the days where it was ok to have a difference of opinion from people.
The 10 core values needed to be ethical are the following:
Honesty
Integrity
Promise keeping
Fidelity
Fairness
Caring for others
Respect for others
Responsible citizenship
Pursuit of excellence
Accountability
I haven't seen Americans offer many of these ten core values for quite some time. Made worse by our media dividing people into two distinct groups and people eating it up like it's candy
ETA: it needs to go back to the days where it was ok to have a difference of opinion from people.
This post was edited on 6/10/20 at 11:34 am
Posted on 6/10/20 at 11:33 am to athenslife101
It's the result of the pampered, sense of entitlement, participation trophy, coddled generation growing older. They weren't spanked as a kid when throwing temper tantrums and always got what they wanted.
Posted on 6/10/20 at 11:34 am to athenslife101
life is too broad to discuss in such a simple context. 99% have to be aholes at least half the time. if you are referencing the big picture "protest", then that is not a top of aholes. that's a topic of a class of people trying to destroy our nation and capitalism. it is an attempt at a communist revolution.
Posted on 6/10/20 at 11:35 am to DandA
I see a lot of older people who are the same assholes.
Posted on 6/10/20 at 11:36 am to athenslife101
Pretty damn hard judging by what people say on a daily basis here.
Posted on 6/10/20 at 11:37 am to DandA
quote:
It's the result of the pampered, sense of entitlement, participation trophy, coddled generation growing older. They weren't spanked as a kid when throwing temper tantrums and always got what they wanted.
The biggest assholes I encounter on a day to day basis are all boomers. Pretty sure boomers were spanked as kids.
Posted on 6/10/20 at 11:37 am to athenslife101
quote:
It’s entirely possible to live a calm life where you treat everyone with dignity (whether they deserve it or not)
Christianity and Jesus for the win!
Posted on 6/10/20 at 11:38 am to athenslife101
quote:
It’s tiresome.
I can't even turn on the TV anymore. Forget about any social media platforms.
Posted on 6/10/20 at 11:40 am to pwejr88
quote:
Christianity and Jesus for the win!
I am not religious even a little bit but living ethically and following the golden rule is pretty fricking easy to abide by.
Posted on 6/10/20 at 11:41 am to pwejr88
Yeah, most people aren’t very Christian (including many people who claim to be).
I think it’s very interesting that for millennia, our religions have been based around not giving into desires and now not indulging is a bad thing.
I like to read about Buddhist principles and stoic principles about living an unemotional life because I find them very comforting.
I think it’s very interesting that for millennia, our religions have been based around not giving into desires and now not indulging is a bad thing.
I like to read about Buddhist principles and stoic principles about living an unemotional life because I find them very comforting.
This post was edited on 6/10/20 at 11:48 am
Posted on 6/10/20 at 11:44 am to athenslife101
quote:
adult children
Exactly. Of all Karen's failures, her worst is raising her kids to be perpetual adolescents rather than adults.
Posted on 6/10/20 at 11:45 am to athenslife101
Incredibly difficult because people expect me to answer their questions instead of Google. I have to learn people everyday.
Posted on 6/10/20 at 11:46 am to rondo
I think most persons are great. On an individual level, the overwhelming majority of folks want to do the right thing.
But people as a group are selfish, ignorant, emotional and petty.
It’s always been that way and probably always will.
What changes is the dominant culture which influences the group. That’s the problem right now
But people as a group are selfish, ignorant, emotional and petty.
It’s always been that way and probably always will.
What changes is the dominant culture which influences the group. That’s the problem right now
Posted on 6/10/20 at 11:46 am to arcalades
“ that's a topic of a class of people trying to destroy our nation and capitalism. it is an attempt at a communist revolution.”
Please don’t turn us into an us vs them thing. I’ve lost respect for many people on both “sides” and gained respect for some people on both “sides”.
Please don’t turn us into an us vs them thing. I’ve lost respect for many people on both “sides” and gained respect for some people on both “sides”.
Popular
Back to top

23








