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re: How do you feel about tactile mementos of your past?

Posted on 11/10/17 at 12:30 pm to
Posted by LSUgirl4
Member since Sep 2009
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Posted on 11/10/17 at 12:30 pm to
i'm very nostalgic. i don't like throwing away memorable items that remind me of people i've had in my life.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
299716 posts
Posted on 11/10/17 at 12:31 pm to
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i'm very nostalgic. i don't like throwing away memorable items that remind me of people i've had in my life.


Same here. Really regret tossing some stuff years ago
Posted by PearlJam
NotBeardEaves
Member since Aug 2014
13908 posts
Posted on 11/10/17 at 12:36 pm to
quote:

they were blown away that i was going to throw out things like my yearbook, tball team pics, etc. i don't get it. i don't look at this stuff and haven't in years
If you ever have kids, you or they will be interested in this stuff down the road. Also, if anything were to happen to you, these are things your family will look through to grieve and remember you.

I would keep them if I were you.
This post was edited on 11/10/17 at 12:38 pm
Posted by Knight of Old
New Hampshire
Member since Jul 2007
13207 posts
Posted on 11/10/17 at 12:37 pm to
I'm not one to horde - prolly because I've moved a lot in my life and you get used to traveling light.

On the other hand, I've tossed momentos I wish I had now. As others have said, a lot of it would have been for my kids' benefit.

At the end of the day, my rationalization is this: if I get alzheimer's, I wouldn't recognize half that shite anyway...

Posted by The Mick
Member since Oct 2010
45200 posts
Posted on 11/10/17 at 12:39 pm to
I'm sentimental about that kind of stuff. There is a line between momentos and hoarding tho...
Posted by MorbidTheClown
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2015
76783 posts
Posted on 11/10/17 at 12:48 pm to
there's no right or wrong answer to this. But, i definitely wish i still had some of that stuff.
Posted by theOG
Member since Feb 2010
10861 posts
Posted on 11/10/17 at 12:48 pm to
quote:


i'm talking about a full, extra long banker's box + 2 more regular banker's box full of shite per person


So you are talking about THREE boxes? That's it? You made it seem like you were cleaning out a hoarder's nest worth of shite.

Keep that stuff man, your kids will definitely enjoy it. At a minimum, try to store it digitally.
Posted by Coon
La 56 Southbound
Member since Feb 2005
18579 posts
Posted on 11/10/17 at 12:50 pm to
"Everybody look at me, I'm sfp, I don't have any feelings and I'm just an objective machine....."
Posted by ElderTiger
Planet Earth
Member since Dec 2010
7882 posts
Posted on 11/10/17 at 1:02 pm to
I’m on the fence about things like this. Over the years ‘ve thrown away most of my stuff so I don’t have a lot. Most of what I do have is actually things from past generations. My kids were shocked to learn that I threw away my HS and college diplomas. I feel they represented more of unnecessary necessities than academic achievements.
My suggestion would be to offer stuff to siblings, cousins, etc. If they don’t want it, let it go.
Posted by terd ferguson
Darren Wilson Fan Club President
Member since Aug 2007
114938 posts
Posted on 11/10/17 at 1:03 pm to
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emo band, circa 2003



That pretty much describes SFP's entire existence...
Posted by RedPop4
Santiago de Compostela
Member since Jan 2005
15342 posts
Posted on 11/10/17 at 1:26 pm to
This. I'm already forgetting lots of stuff that's happened, even in my adult life. I'm scanning photos, but not throwing them away, I need this stuff to reconnect with my life.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
135044 posts
Posted on 11/10/17 at 1:29 pm to
Are you talking about the panties of past girlfriends?


I mean, not to smell them or anything. That would be weird.
Posted by Godfather1
What WAS St George, Louisiana
Member since Oct 2006
89848 posts
Posted on 11/10/17 at 1:31 pm to
My philosophy: If I haven't used it in a year or more, I don't need it.

If at some time in the future I SHOULD need it (unlikely, yet vaguely possible), I can just get another one.
Posted by Cosmo
glassman's guest house
Member since Oct 2003
132688 posts
Posted on 11/10/17 at 1:50 pm to
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currently my gf



Posted by makinskrilla
Lafayette, LA
Member since Jun 2009
9754 posts
Posted on 11/10/17 at 2:08 pm to
Your mom didn’t want to hold on to it?
Posted by DirtyMikeandtheBoys
Member since May 2011
19467 posts
Posted on 11/10/17 at 2:11 pm to
If there's any foods that you like, I suggest you put your name on it. Or else it'll be thrown out. by me
Posted by Havoc
Member since Nov 2015
39572 posts
Posted on 11/10/17 at 2:15 pm to
I don't care for your use of the word tactile. It sounds gross.
Posted by Chuker
St George, Louisiana
Member since Nov 2015
7544 posts
Posted on 11/10/17 at 2:29 pm to
Throw that shite away. I'm not living in clutter just so some great grand kid can look at my picture for 5 seconds 100 years from now.
Posted by OWLFAN86
Erotic Novelist
Member since Jun 2004
198117 posts
Posted on 11/10/17 at 2:35 pm to
quote:

i'm very nostalgic. i don't like throwing away memorable items that remind me of people i've had in my life.



Posted by efrad
Member since Nov 2007
18704 posts
Posted on 11/10/17 at 2:47 pm to
quote:

the memories still exist

these are just tactile mementos representing them. it's stuff that i literally never look at


The human mind is not a simple storage device. You can't just store and retrieve memories willy-nilly.

Photographs are important because seeing these things will jog your memory and give you the ability to recall more details than just thinking about it alone will.

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