re: How do I get a church girl without going to church?

quote:

---

Chloroform

---

Forget "good" girl/marriage... grow a beard, call yourself bhagwan. Chicks flock to you, you start sex cult & live happily ever after (just don't do anything the feds won't like).

quote:

---

So where then? Target always has hot women doing their shopping, but I don't want to be the creeper hitting on a lady at target though..

---

Here is my advice

Stop looking at it like "I need to go out and find a good woman"

Women can smell desperation a mile away

The best way to do it is just live your life. Become the best version of yourself you can be and the women will come to you, you won't have to go to them.

First lift and lose weight, get a low body fat %. This will do wonders for your body and aesthetics... while losing weight is great for your torso, the best part about losing weight is that it slims your FACE... which is big in terms of facial aesthetics. I am bulking right now and have gained about 18 pounds since the beginning of the year and no longer have the slim face/sharp jawline I had and it makes a huge difference

Learn how to have good posture... so many men these days have shite posture, leaning forward and hunched over which has to repel women. Deadlifting helps correct your posture. Learn how to walk upright

Dress well, I am not saying go spend a shitload on clothes, the best way to dress well is to find colors that suit your skin tone and clothes that fit. Just doing those 2 things will make all the difference

Lastly learn to project confidence with your body language. Slow things down a bit.

I am not saying doing these things will make you a babe magnet and you will have to fend off women left and right. But doing these things will make you more attractive, which means you will get more IOIs(indicators of interest). Indicators of Interest mean that you have a FREE PASS to approach the woman and talk to her. You said you don't want to be the creeper hitting on women at Target. Let me fill you in on a secret here.

CREEPY = 'This man isn't attractive enough to be doing X behavior(in this case he isn't attractive enough to talk to me at Target)

CHARMING = 'This man is attractive enough to where I have a positive reception of him talking to me at a Target even though he is a total stranger'

The only difference between CREEPY and CHARMING is the attraction level. If she is attracted to you or finds you attractive, what you do is CHARMING. If not, what you do is CREEPY. It's why one man can buy flowers for a girl and is called romantic and charming, and why another man can do the same thing and be called a creep. It's why Shawn Mendes can sing a song called "I can treat you better than he can" and get women's panties wet, while Billy Beta can tell a woman "I can treat you better than he can" and be called a creep.

The more attractive you make yourself and the more confident you are, the more likely she will see you as attractive enough to where she will consider your behavior CHARMING instead of CREEPY. Therefore you can approach the hot women at Kroger or Target or wherever you are at who have given you indicators of interest.

So the overall answer to your question. Don't hunt, be hunted. Improve yourself and make your life better and the women will come with that. Too many men put the cart before the horse, and think that they need to find the girl first and then they will have an awesome life. No. Have an awesome life first, then the girl(s) will come.

quote:

---

With them lurking here, they've read posts. Yours included. Probably not.

---

well that's unfortunate

Live and learn.... tell them I'll do better

quote:

---

Yeah if I can find a good girl that's not a slut but still likes anal and lets me eat her arse that would be ideal as well

---

we're like the samsies

quote:

---

goldennugget

---

Damn son, do I owe you any money?

Learn to set goals for yourself... short and long term

My long term goal is to get to 175 pounds at 10% body fat. But right now I am 170 pounds at about 15%. I need to do another cut, then another bulk and cut cycle before getting there. So my short term goal is to finish the bulk I am on(one more week) then cut for 8-12 weeks until I am back to 10% body fat for the summer.

I told myself no women until I achieve my short term goal. So I am roughly 3 months away from allowing myself to get back out there and game women. It helps keep me motivated. Being successful with women can actually be a detriment because it can make you complacent and lazy. "Why should I continue to train hard and eat right and stay lean when I am getting laid on the regular?"

Buy Pomeranian. Get hair cut like this and go to the park, grocery store (not Walmart), where ever. Nice girl will find you. Guaranteed.