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How can I enjoy life more?

Posted on 1/21/19 at 9:10 am
Posted by Bossbailey34
South carolina
Member since Aug 2018
1700 posts
Posted on 1/21/19 at 9:10 am
I really really hate people. Never had a best friend growing up. I'm always on guard in crowds and aware of my surroundings. Even think someone said something to me in crowds, its not the case at all. I have a few select friends. What is wrong with me?? How can I enjoy life more?
Posted by SDTiger15
lost in Cali
Member since Jan 2005
11692 posts
Posted on 1/21/19 at 9:11 am to
Don’t be a dick?
Posted by HoustonChick86
Catalina Wine Mixer
Member since Dec 2009
59320 posts
Posted on 1/21/19 at 9:11 am to
Hooker and blow.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
135024 posts
Posted on 1/21/19 at 9:11 am to
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
93541 posts
Posted on 1/21/19 at 9:12 am to
quote:

What is wrong with me??

stop being a douche, un-douche yourself
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
49099 posts
Posted on 1/21/19 at 9:12 am to
quote:


I really really hate people. Never had a best friend growing up. I'm always on guard in crowds and aware of my surroundings. Even think someone said something to me in crowds, its not the case at all. I have a few select friends. What is wrong with me?? How can I enjoy life more?



You need to start doing the Pot. That'll make you happy.
Posted by p&g
Dixie
Member since Jun 2005
12995 posts
Posted on 1/21/19 at 9:13 am to
Log off
Never come back
Posted by cykablyat
Member since Jan 2019
116 posts
Posted on 1/21/19 at 9:13 am to
get laid more. pay for it if you have to at first, then once you mellow out you will be able to find someone who doesn't make you pay...
















...at least upfront, anyway.
Posted by helluvaday
Member since Jun 2018
443 posts
Posted on 1/21/19 at 9:14 am to
Nothing is wrong with you - you're just more of an introvert. The fact that you have select friends and are able to form those relationships shows you're capable of maintaining a social life.

The older I have gotten, the less tolerant I have become of big groups and crowds. I have always had a lot of friends but as I've grown up, I don't have the time or energy to maintain relationships with people who are negative or have a negative influence on my life..

If you want to be more social, then I suggest starting with the friends you have and doing more with them.
Posted by GreyWhiskers
St. Tammany
Member since Nov 2018
913 posts
Posted on 1/21/19 at 9:14 am to
Play better video games...
Posted by Jon Ham
Member since Jun 2011
29734 posts
Posted on 1/21/19 at 9:15 am to
Pursue your interests, if you don’t have any interests find one or two. Don’t take anything too seriously. Appreciate the small things.
Posted by Lsupimp
Ersatz Amerika-97.6% phony & fake
Member since Nov 2003
86481 posts
Posted on 1/21/19 at 9:15 am to
Sounds like you have a bit of social anxiety . What do you wish you were doing ? What’s something you can do that would give you a sense of accomplishment and meaning?

For instance, I discovered recently that I enjoy pummeling and pounding roadside transients with the gusto of a hound dog. Maybe you have a passion you haven’t discovered.
Posted by Cdawg
TigerFred's Living Room
Member since Sep 2003
62212 posts
Posted on 1/21/19 at 9:17 am to
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What is wrong with me?? How can I enjoy life more?

My honest opinion is maybe you should go talk to a mental health specialist.
Posted by Tiger Roux
Houston
Member since Mar 2009
5027 posts
Posted on 1/21/19 at 9:18 am to
The bible says something like if you want friends be friendly.
Posted by helluvaday
Member since Jun 2018
443 posts
Posted on 1/21/19 at 9:19 am to
This is never a bad thing. I've never been but have friends who have and have seen improvements in almost all of them.
Posted by georgia
445
Member since Jan 2007
9228 posts
Posted on 1/21/19 at 9:19 am to
you might be an introvert, or you might be a bit of a narcissist. since you hate people, it's probably the latter. try therapy.
Posted by Beessnax
Member since Nov 2015
11432 posts
Posted on 1/21/19 at 9:22 am to
I don't think there's anything wrong with you. I'm alot like you. I don't hate people though,

I like being introverted.
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
138832 posts
Posted on 1/21/19 at 9:22 am to
quote:

really really hate people


You need to take a look at yourself and ask why. My guess is that you have a rough time growing up. shite parents or got touched by creepy uncle.

quote:

always on guard in crowds and aware of my surroundings
see above

quote:

What is wrong with me??
nothing is necessarily wrong. You just need to be honest with yourself.
Posted by philly444
stuck in contraflow
Member since Nov 2008
12405 posts
Posted on 1/21/19 at 9:23 am to
LSD
Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
120445 posts
Posted on 1/21/19 at 9:24 am to
Not being a Saints fan.
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