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re: Having other single friends in your 30s
Posted on 2/8/17 at 8:48 am to jvilletiger25
Posted on 2/8/17 at 8:48 am to jvilletiger25
I enjoy being in my 30's and being single.
What I don't understand is people who have a kid, but somehow neither parent can ever go anywhere because "We have to stay at home with the baby".
Can one parent not watch the child while the other one spends a few hours with their friend(s)?
What I don't understand is people who have a kid, but somehow neither parent can ever go anywhere because "We have to stay at home with the baby".
Can one parent not watch the child while the other one spends a few hours with their friend(s)?
Posted on 2/8/17 at 8:49 am to Ryan3232
The key is finding friends with actual backbones that have the ability to tell their wife 'hey I'm gonna grab dinner and beers with my friends' from time to time. Often times, guys seem to marry and you'll never see them again. Sad.
Posted on 2/8/17 at 8:49 am to jvilletiger25
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Plus their old ladies don't want them hanging out with you
It's not that their 'old ladies' don't want them hanging out with you, it's that they, as family men, have other priorities than hanging out with the bros
Time to grow up man
Posted on 2/8/17 at 8:49 am to jvilletiger25
find a hobby
get involved with said hobby
meet other people that like said hobby
get involved with said hobby
meet other people that like said hobby
Posted on 2/8/17 at 8:51 am to Mr. Hangover
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it's that they, as family men, have other priorities than hanging out with the bros
Ok
Posted on 2/8/17 at 8:51 am to Mr. Hangover
You can still be a good "family man" and find time to maintain friendships though.
I'm sure the OP understands family obligations and isn't expecting those guys to hang out every week with him.
I'm sure the OP understands family obligations and isn't expecting those guys to hang out every week with him.
Posted on 2/8/17 at 8:52 am to dcrews
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What I don't understand is people who have a kid, but somehow neither parent can ever go anywhere because "We have to stay at home with the baby".
Can one parent not watch the child while the other one spends a few hours with their friend(s)?
The wife and I have 3 kids under the age of 4 and it has never slowed us down. It's not easy, but it's doable and we enjoy the hell out of the time with them.
Posted on 2/8/17 at 8:53 am to lsunurse
I understand that completely, but I'm sure we all have that one friend who gets all pissy and emotional when I can't go to a bar Friday night because I'm going to do something with my family
What I'm saying is that Mrs. Hangover has never said 'I don't want you hanging out with so and so'... that's just stupid
Priorities change, just enjoy the time that you do get to spend with your friends
What I'm saying is that Mrs. Hangover has never said 'I don't want you hanging out with so and so'... that's just stupid
Priorities change, just enjoy the time that you do get to spend with your friends
This post was edited on 2/8/17 at 8:54 am
Posted on 2/8/17 at 8:54 am to jvilletiger25
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I was married right out of college and missed out on my 20s.
YUGE mistake.
And why the divorce rates were so high for so long.
People need to co-habitate as working adults for a while before even thinking about marriage.
Posted on 2/8/17 at 8:55 am to TheCaterpillar
Yea, I'll never understand why people think it's a good idea to get married at such a young age
I'd never try to talk anyone out of it, but it's just foolish IMO
I'd never try to talk anyone out of it, but it's just foolish IMO
Posted on 2/8/17 at 8:56 am to Nado Jenkins83
People get married too quickly. I think if more people would date 2-3 years more marriages would last. I married at 28, had a blast in college before that, married my wife after 6 years of dating and never looked back. I miss those days sometimes, but I have a job and a family I love. Life is pretty good. Sorry not sorry that some married bitches
Posted on 2/8/17 at 8:57 am to lsunurse
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You can still be a good "family man" and find time to maintain friendships though. I'm sure the OP understands family obligations and isn't expecting those guys to hang out every week with him.
Exactly. I have 2 little boys. When they are with me, I'm spending time doing things with them. The times that they are not with me, I like to unwind. I think I earned it. I raised them alone for about 3 years, so I never did anything.
Posted on 2/8/17 at 8:59 am to GeauxGoose
Im 33 never married. bought a ring at 29 but never gave it to the gf at the time. thank god she changed when we tried to live together.
Posted on 2/8/17 at 9:03 am to jvilletiger25
Newly single here and I don't know what you're talking about.
Between friends, family, Tinder and Bumble you really never have to be alone, although I like to be alone alot.
Between friends, family, Tinder and Bumble you really never have to be alone, although I like to be alone alot.
Posted on 2/8/17 at 9:04 am to jvilletiger25
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Having other single friends in your 30s
Most of my friends are single as are now the majority of people in their 30s. I only have a couple friends that are married.
Posted on 2/8/17 at 9:05 am to lsunurse
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Some just for adults to be social (weekly trivia nights, happy hours,etc).
Sounds interesting at face value. Not sure if I'd want my wife to go out drinking with people she's never met in person, but to each their own I guess.
Posted on 2/8/17 at 9:06 am to Cole Beer
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By the way, I would suggest taking a solo trip to somewhere you've always wanted to visit. I did it last year and it was cool. Hit up bars alone and meet strangers, etc.
this is what I do
Posted on 2/8/17 at 9:06 am to jvilletiger25
Two words, baw: sex tourism
Posted on 2/8/17 at 9:08 am to jvilletiger25
Well I'm in my 30's, never married, no kids, and no debt.
I hang around married and single folks. Most of the girls I hang around are between 26-30.
Having a great time for sure, but I know soon I don't want to be the old creepy dude still going to bars, so I am ready to settle down.
I hang around married and single folks. Most of the girls I hang around are between 26-30.
Having a great time for sure, but I know soon I don't want to be the old creepy dude still going to bars, so I am ready to settle down.
Posted on 2/8/17 at 9:08 am to goldennugget
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Meanwhile i can do whatever the frick i want, when i want. Accountable to no one but myself. Its great.
Nugget able to get all the strange cock he wants.
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