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re: Having family "Christmas" several days or even weeks before dec 25... trashy?

Posted on 12/23/17 at 12:15 pm to
Posted by kingbob
Sorrento, LA
Member since Nov 2010
71211 posts
Posted on 12/23/17 at 12:15 pm to
In my family, the extended family gathers a week before to eat, watch football, and hang out (no gifts are exchanged) so that on Christmas day, each family unit can celebrate just with their children. It’s basically an extra thanksgiving minus formal seating. It’s close enough that it’s still in season, but far enough out that it rarely conflicts with anything. It ensures no one has to choose between their immediate or extended family or in-laws.

Posted by danilo
Member since Nov 2008
26348 posts
Posted on 12/23/17 at 12:17 pm to
Bro, some people work out the country on Dec 25th so they celebrate Christmas early
Posted by Tiger Ryno
#WoF
Member since Feb 2007
108752 posts
Posted on 12/23/17 at 12:27 pm to
Sorry we don't have any divorced people in our family.
Posted by Bestbank Tiger
Premium Member
Member since Jan 2005
82475 posts
Posted on 12/23/17 at 12:30 pm to
If you have a large extended family and they're spread out geographically, you can't avoid it. You can only to so much travelling.
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
Member since May 2012
61613 posts
Posted on 12/23/17 at 12:41 pm to
quote:

I also have to split time with my daughter with her mom
yeah... trashy
Posted by jdeval1
Member since Dec 2009
7525 posts
Posted on 12/23/17 at 12:44 pm to
quote:

You just say frick it and only see one family for Christmas because going a week early would be trashy? 

That's what we do.
Posted by TheFonz
Somewhere in Louisiana
Member since Jul 2016
23564 posts
Posted on 12/23/17 at 12:47 pm to
My family is waiting until December 28 to have Christmas because that's when I get out of prison.
Posted by cubsfan5150
NWA
Member since Nov 2007
18965 posts
Posted on 12/23/17 at 12:55 pm to
You worry way too much about everyone else man
Posted by t00f
Not where you think I am
Member since Jul 2016
102382 posts
Posted on 12/23/17 at 12:59 pm to
6 months of celebrating Christmas and 6 months for Easter.
Posted by WicKed WayZ
Louisiana Forever
Member since Sep 2011
34321 posts
Posted on 12/23/17 at 12:59 pm to
Worrying about everyone else and asking if something is trashy is the textbook definition of trashy
Posted by Festus
With Skillet
Member since Nov 2009
86142 posts
Posted on 12/23/17 at 1:18 pm to
I have grown sons, the oldest had moved out of state for a promotion. Either he or a new employee could be off for Christmas weekend. Although he has seniority, he felt bad for the new guy and offered to work so the guy could go home for Christmas.

Mine came home for the weekend only last week. We did our family Christmas with him and his fiancée. I never considered that event trashy, but now I feel dirty.
Posted by gingerkittie
Member since Aug 2013
2675 posts
Posted on 12/23/17 at 1:24 pm to
My late fiance was so "trashy" this way. He'd schedule his Christmas with his kids (teens) and family every year on some other day than Christmas Eve or Christmas Day every year.

Never spent Christmas eve or Christmas day with them, year after year.

He was a Capt with the NOFD who volunteered to work those 2 days straight (48 hour shift) so that his men with young kids could be there with their kids.

That just made me love him all the more.

Posted by Bruco
Charlotte, NC
Member since Aug 2016
3034 posts
Posted on 12/23/17 at 1:25 pm to
My family lives in Chicago, Charlotte, Denver, and Fort Myers, and my significant other’s family is in Milwaukee, with my sisters husbands families being in Iowa and Utah, respectively.

Explain the logistics of not doing Christmas a different weekend and making everyone happy.
Posted by Festus
With Skillet
Member since Nov 2009
86142 posts
Posted on 12/23/17 at 1:32 pm to
You and your family sound like southern trash, Bruco.
Posted by Upperdecker
St. George, LA
Member since Nov 2014
33916 posts
Posted on 12/23/17 at 1:35 pm to
I have 10 different family Christmas parties. I expect I’ll attend 6-8 of them. All of them are direct family members except my best friend’s Christmas thing. God I wish it could be spread out more
Posted by Pecker
Rocky Top
Member since May 2015
16674 posts
Posted on 12/23/17 at 1:35 pm to
Christmas or Christmas Eve.

Everything else is questionable
Posted by Jimbeaux
Member since Sep 2003
21964 posts
Posted on 12/23/17 at 2:15 pm to
Asking the OT if something is trashy, is trashy.
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