Have you ever successfully ‘changed’ someone?

Lead someone to Christ.

Didn’t know it until they told me years later.

I turned my last girlfriend into a lesbian

Nah, ain't worth the effort. If you aren't happy with how they are just move on.



I need to take my own advice.

You can’t change someone. All you can do is change your behavior and hope that your influence and behavior can change their perception and then change themselves.

At the end of the day, it’s their choice and their decision. If you don’t agree with it, you can put boundaries in place and make sure they have consequences to protect yourself.

The problem is when you give your opinion, you’re telling that person that what you have to say is more important than what they have to say ... and they’ll usually rebel, do the opposite of what you would like for them to do or shut down, depending upon their personality traits.

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cucks

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I'm willing to bet people who use this word are familiar with that lifestyle.

My wife has

I used to be awesome

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date the bad girl, slutty girl, or whatever in an attempt to help her change.

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that's not the reason I date those girls