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re: Has the death of someone close ever changed you?
Posted on 4/18/18 at 8:14 pm to PortHudsonPlaya
Posted on 4/18/18 at 8:14 pm to PortHudsonPlaya
No. I’m dead inside and secretly wish for the death of everyone I “love.”
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Posted on 4/18/18 at 8:15 pm to JudgeHolden
Preeshate it baw!
Posted on 4/18/18 at 8:37 pm to PortHudsonPlaya
Yes, the death of my dad at 61 from a massive heart attack, I was 31. He was my best friend....I was devastated. My wife then cheats on me and divorced me, taking half of everything that I paid for.
Not really a success story...and I don’t trust a GD female any farther than I can throw one.
Not really a success story...and I don’t trust a GD female any farther than I can throw one.
Posted on 4/18/18 at 8:51 pm to JamesLang
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No. I’m dead inside and secretly wish for the death of everyone I “love.”
Tell me you aren’t serious.
Posted on 4/18/18 at 8:56 pm to PortHudsonPlaya
I definitely am not the same since my dad died unexpectedly in 2013. I’m very withdrawn and very passive. I basically care about nothing and just go through the motions to get by. It totally sucks.
Posted on 4/18/18 at 8:58 pm to JamesLang
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JamesLang
Thank you.
Posted on 4/18/18 at 9:28 pm to fleurdelis
I’m sorry to hear that. If you enjoy traveling, fly into Vegas rent a Jeep and map a trip to Zion national park, Bryce Canyon np and the north rim of the Grand Canyon. It will rejuvenate your soul.
Posted on 4/18/18 at 9:31 pm to PortHudsonPlaya
I lost my best friend 15 years ago. I changed drastically after that overall.
Posted on 4/18/18 at 9:37 pm to PortHudsonPlaya
After my mom died of cancer I death spiraled. She raised me and I guess I wasn't well equipped to accept the finality of it. Ruined my marriage from trying to drink my thoughts away and just not caring about anyone else's feelings. It's been a rough couple of years. I've made some improvements and then regressed a few times.
Posted on 4/18/18 at 9:38 pm to Clark W Griswold
Yes. Drastically. For the worse, and hopefully ultimately for the better. It’s a terrible experience and I wouldn’t wish it on anybody.
Posted on 4/18/18 at 9:44 pm to WaltTeevens
Hang in there buddy, it’s a rough road but it’ll get better.
Posted on 4/18/18 at 9:46 pm to latech15
It sucks. You don’t ever heal. It’s like having a bandaid on a wound for life. You learn to live with it but you never heal. And if that person is extremely close you lose a piece of yourself that can’t be fixed.
Posted on 4/18/18 at 9:48 pm to latech15
Lost an unborn child, not sure if that counts. But not a day goes by that I dont think what might have been. And I hope And believe I will meet my child in the hereafter.
cant say it changed me because my life hadn't changed yet
cant say it changed me because my life hadn't changed yet
Posted on 4/18/18 at 9:52 pm to Geauxtiga
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My life is not the same after losing my dad
Its a very life changing moment for most people. Not just the memories, but you realize there's no "catcher in the rye" for you anymore and that you're the patriarch. All the older men people turned to, and now that's become you
Posted on 4/18/18 at 9:55 pm to 99BLKBRD
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Hang in there buddy, it’s a rough road but it’ll get better
Thanks, man. I appreciate that. I hope things keep getting better for you as well.
Posted on 4/18/18 at 9:59 pm to PortHudsonPlaya
I should have but I don't.
My girlfriend of over 2 years in college broke up with me and shattered my heart. Soon after, my Uncle/idol died unexpectedly. That should have ruined me but think the pain of my break up shielded me from that instead of piling on top of it. Don't understand it.
My girlfriend of over 2 years in college broke up with me and shattered my heart. Soon after, my Uncle/idol died unexpectedly. That should have ruined me but think the pain of my break up shielded me from that instead of piling on top of it. Don't understand it.
Posted on 4/18/18 at 10:08 pm to Clark W Griswold
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It sucks. You don’t ever heal. It’s like having a bandaid on a wound for life. You learn to live with it but you never heal. And if that person is extremely close you lose a piece of yourself that can’t be fixed.
This is the most accurate description that I’ve heard. I definitely identify with this.
Posted on 4/18/18 at 10:18 pm to PortHudsonPlaya
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This post was edited on 4/19/18 at 10:27 am
Posted on 4/18/18 at 10:21 pm to fleurdelis
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It sucks. You don’t ever heal. It’s like having a bandaid on a wound for life. You learn to live with it but you never heal. And if that person is extremely close you lose a piece of yourself that can’t be fixed.
This is the most accurate description that I’ve heard. I definitely identify with this.
Very true. I've lost many, but 3 still make me sad everytime I think of them. Dad, included. It's tough. I just try to stay as strong as I can for my Mom to help give her comfort. I take her pain, and mine, and just be there
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