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re: Has marriage counseling ever worked?
Posted on 2/17/23 at 6:13 pm to OKBoomerSooner
Posted on 2/17/23 at 6:13 pm to OKBoomerSooner
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this is overwhelmingly not what happens, but thanks for your input
Posted on 2/17/23 at 6:15 pm to geauxtigers87
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Has marriage counseling ever worked?
We're going to be witness to a 10yr/100M experiment with this very thing. Let's see how it goes, and how long it takes.
I hope it works out. Before anyone says anything, these people have already thrust themselves into the public eye.
Posted on 2/17/23 at 6:20 pm to geauxtigers87
My pastor is a licensed marriage and family therapist. Most of his clients stay married and say that their relationship is stronger after counseling.
Posted on 2/17/23 at 6:23 pm to geauxtigers87
With my X. I already knew and was on the way out. Went twice and all it did was expose all her BS. She thought it was me or both of us. After that 2nd time she didn't want to hear the truth anymore
Also wasn't married thank God.
Also wasn't married thank God.
Posted on 2/17/23 at 6:25 pm to el Gaucho
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The only counselor a real man uses is named Jack Daniels
Not quite true, Johnnie Walker offers sage advice as well.
Posted on 2/17/23 at 6:42 pm to LRB1967
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My pastor is a licensed marriage and family therapist. Most of his clients stay married and say that their relationship is stronger after counseling.
This makes sense. One of the hardest parts of marriage counseling is not the actual couples counseling. It's getting people to actually go on their own accord. And being patient enough, while in counseling, to not view everything as an attack and developing the ability to listen to understand, and not listen to reply.
Posted on 2/17/23 at 6:45 pm to Will Cover
I was hoping this ended in an orgy
Posted on 2/17/23 at 6:53 pm to geauxtigers87
See you in the gym bro
Posted on 2/17/23 at 7:16 pm to geauxtigers87
Question to any women on this thread. In your opinion do most women struggle with apologizing when they are wrong?
Posted on 2/17/23 at 7:25 pm to LRB1967
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My pastor is a licensed marriage and family therapist. Most of his clients stay married and say that their relationship is stronger after counseling.
I have to assume that genuine belief of the need for obedience to God to save their marriage certainly helps
Posted on 2/17/23 at 7:27 pm to geauxtigers87
Coworker went. Convinced couple to have sex 3 set days of the week. Tuesday, Thursday and Saturdays. Seems to have worked for them for about 3 or 4 years now. I asked them for their counselors name lol.
Posted on 2/17/23 at 7:36 pm to Btrtigerfan
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We're going to be witness to a 10yr/100M experiment with this very thing. Let's see how it goes, and how long it takes.
Gottmans have been doing it for far longer than 10 years and their research is pretty interesting on the subject.
It really depends on the couple and the quality of the counselor, there are a lot of bad therapists out there.
This post was edited on 2/17/23 at 7:38 pm
Posted on 2/17/23 at 7:38 pm to geauxtigers87
It’s works for counselors! The trouble is by the time 90% of people start it’s too late
Posted on 2/17/23 at 7:56 pm to WhiteRussianDude
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nobody can try to “change” their partner
This is true. It's also when you realize it's probably over.
Whatever drives a couple to go to counseling, it's at that moment when the counselor let's you know she/he isn't going to change, you need to either accept, or plan a way out.
Posted on 2/17/23 at 8:13 pm to hellsu
quote:the women in my very small circle of women friends and I probably apologize too much. But we are not representative of most women - I think
Question to any women on this thread. In your opinion do most women struggle with apologizing when they are wrong?
Posted on 2/17/23 at 8:19 pm to geauxtigers87
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Has marriage counseling ever worked?
When from a pastor? Sure.
When from a person making money off of you? No.
Posted on 2/17/23 at 8:28 pm to geauxtigers87
It didn’t work for us. Two different counselors both asked to see my ex separately to discuss her anger issues.
But the counselors worked for her. She was able to put money away and plan her exit strategy without feeling like I’d serve her papers first.
But the counselors worked for her. She was able to put money away and plan her exit strategy without feeling like I’d serve her papers first.
Posted on 2/17/23 at 8:29 pm to pwejr88
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When from a pastor? Sure. When from a person making money off of you? No.
Tithing lol
Also inaccurate.
This post was edited on 2/17/23 at 8:30 pm
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