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re: Has anyone here ever had an affair?

Posted on 10/2/14 at 11:42 am to
Posted by Robin Masters
Birmingham
Member since Jul 2010
29669 posts
Posted on 10/2/14 at 11:42 am to
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A couple of months ago I posted about a buddy who was having an affair and he's still knee deep in her. What's the psychology behind that? What causes married people to actively engage in a whole new relationship? I'm not just talking about the one night stand on a business trip in Minneapolis, but a fully blown relationship with the other party that involves planning on meetups etc. How did it end?


I'm sure there are some dbags out there who would probably do it regardless but my hunch is that it happens when one spouse starts getting lazy and takes the other for granted.
The only thing that ticks me off about women who get cheated on is if they let them selves become unattractive (fat and unkempt/unfashionable), withhold the pussy and then act like they are outraged and surprised when their husband strays for someone who appreciates them and shows some affection. What the frick did you think was going to happen???
We should all fear for being replaced, in work and in marriage. Will make us strive harder to succeed.
This post was edited on 10/2/14 at 11:43 am
Posted by RedRifle
Austin/NO
Member since Dec 2013
8328 posts
Posted on 10/2/14 at 11:47 am to
It's going to end badly for all involved. She's also married.
Posted by Hammond Tiger Fan
Hammond
Member since Oct 2007
16210 posts
Posted on 10/2/14 at 11:48 am to
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I haven't yet, but I can't imagine staying faithful to a future wife forever - especially if I continue traveling so much for work through my career.


It's not that damn hard to be faithful. If you have any inclination you won't be faithful, you shouldn't get married.

What works for me is that I don't put myself in compromising situations. I'm also open and honest with my wife about my friends of the opposite sex. If I feel like a conversation or a female is leading me to a position where it will compromise my relationship with my wife, I'm very quick to recongnize that and remove myself from the situation.

Some of y'all need to exhibit some damn self control
This post was edited on 10/2/14 at 11:54 am
Posted by JETigER
LSU 2011 National Champions
Member since Dec 2003
7081 posts
Posted on 10/2/14 at 11:49 am to
tiger woods dad had a permanent mistress, and their is nothing wrong with that if you do marry.

tiger woods dad told him not to marry because society is too mobile today and it is not needed.

so it is okay to have a tiger woods dad mistress, it is not okay to have 13 different side pieces.
This post was edited on 10/2/14 at 11:50 am
Posted by windmill
Prairieville, La
Member since Dec 2005
7007 posts
Posted on 10/2/14 at 11:52 am to
horseshite
Posted by LaBR4
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2005
50739 posts
Posted on 10/2/14 at 11:53 am to
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buddy who was having an affair and he's still balls deep in her.
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
73856 posts
Posted on 10/2/14 at 11:55 am to
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so it is okay to have a tiger woods dad mistress, it is not okay to have 13 different side pieces.



pretty common in a lot of countries outside the US
Posted by The Cool No 9
70816
Member since Jan 2014
9947 posts
Posted on 10/2/14 at 11:59 am to
Nah when I get married I wouldn't want to do that it's just greasy
Posted by NorthTiger
Upper 40
Member since Jan 2004
3839 posts
Posted on 10/2/14 at 12:00 pm to
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Having an affair is a mortal sin


See that's the problem.......saying one sin is worse than another. That leads to false pride "yeah I have sinned, but at least I haven't
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Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
259985 posts
Posted on 10/2/14 at 12:02 pm to
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I'm sure there are some dbags out there who would probably do it regardless but my hunch is that it happens when one spouse starts getting lazy and takes the other for granted.


This is what most people tell themselves, at least. It's not always the case though.
Posted by Count Chocula
Tier 5 and proud
Member since Feb 2009
63908 posts
Posted on 10/2/14 at 12:04 pm to
Im going with whatever MikelBR says.

Dude is the authority on all things perverse!
Posted by dukke v
PLUTO
Member since Jul 2006
202693 posts
Posted on 10/2/14 at 12:08 pm to
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Affair sex is about the hottest sex you can have, which is why people do it.



:kige:
Posted by Buck Magnum
Springdale
Member since Dec 2003
11612 posts
Posted on 10/2/14 at 12:08 pm to
Is your buddy a sorry POS or is his wife the cobwebs below the waste naggy bitch type?
Posted by NoHoTiger
So many to kill, so little time
Member since Nov 2006
45724 posts
Posted on 10/2/14 at 12:11 pm to
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Is your buddy a sorry POS or is his wife the cobwebs below the waste naggy bitch type?

Doesn't matter. If he can't handle things in his marriage, then he should get a divorce.

I've been cheated on and I will never be that to someone else. I will never again stay with someone who cheats on me. Not worth it.
Posted by Buck Magnum
Springdale
Member since Dec 2003
11612 posts
Posted on 10/2/14 at 12:13 pm to
I agree with you. I have known a guy that is a serial cheater. He always came off as a dick.
This post was edited on 10/2/14 at 12:13 pm
Posted by SabiDojo
Open to any suggestions.
Member since Nov 2010
83927 posts
Posted on 10/2/14 at 12:13 pm to
Baby, I told you.......nothing happened. I was drunk, threw up on myself, and she took my clothes off.
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
73856 posts
Posted on 10/2/14 at 12:14 pm to
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. I will never again stay with someone who cheats on me. Not worth it.



got to agree with this, if they do it once, stats say they'll continue, and you'd always be worrying/wondering, kick them to the curb
Posted by Buck Magnum
Springdale
Member since Dec 2003
11612 posts
Posted on 10/2/14 at 12:15 pm to
I would ask her this question. "What makes you horny? The mini van or the car seat and booster seat in it?"
Posted by Spaceman Spiff
Savannah
Member since Sep 2012
17463 posts
Posted on 10/2/14 at 12:18 pm to
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if they do it once, stats say they'll continue


A leopard NEVER changes its spots. NEVER.

And, some skeletons are best left in the closet.
Posted by RedRifle
Austin/NO
Member since Dec 2013
8328 posts
Posted on 10/2/14 at 12:19 pm to
Both. They're Georgetown alums.
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