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re: Hardest day of my life

Posted on 1/9/25 at 11:55 pm to
Posted by RummelTiger
Texas
Member since Aug 2004
92037 posts
Posted on 1/9/25 at 11:55 pm to
Jim, I’m so sorry for your loss. I can’t imagine what you are going through.
Posted by DeltaTigerDelta
Member since Jan 2017
12812 posts
Posted on 1/10/25 at 12:12 am to
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You usually get about a week of sympathy from people before they get bored of it and think you should move on, so I have about three more days I guess.

You have as much time as you need. No one is getting bored with this. Continue to honor her memory as you are doing. Continue to vent and check in here.
Posted by Havoc
Member since Nov 2015
34398 posts
Posted on 1/10/25 at 6:02 am to
Day by day for a while friend. It gets better. The sorrow doesn’t really go away it, it hopefully and with prayer turns into something different and peaceful.
Posted by Lithium
Member since Dec 2004
63660 posts
Posted on 1/10/25 at 6:08 am to
So sorry for your loss
Posted by Gris Gris
OTIS!NO RULES FOR SAUCES ON STEAK!!
Member since Feb 2008
49148 posts
Posted on 1/12/25 at 12:11 pm to
quote:

You usually get about a week of sympathy from people before they get bored of it and think you should move on, so I have about three more days I guess.



I don't believe that to be true. If posting your feelings here helps you in any way, then keep doing it. It may also help someone else suffering a loss. Grief is a journey and it's an individual journey. Do what you need to do for you.
Posted by marcnbc
Bossier City, LA
Member since May 2004
4308 posts
Posted on 1/12/25 at 2:26 pm to
My deepest condolences and prayers for you and her family and friends. Hope you find peace and comfort in time….God bless.
Posted by DemonKA3268
Parts Unknown
Member since Oct 2015
20593 posts
Posted on 1/12/25 at 3:33 pm to
Damn, sorry brother
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
117954 posts
Posted on 1/12/25 at 3:44 pm to
Sorry for your loss.
Posted by siliconvalleytiger
Bay Area, CA
Member since Apr 2004
31267 posts
Posted on 1/12/25 at 4:37 pm to
Very sorry for your loss
Posted by FortyYardSlice
Member since Oct 2024
86 posts
Posted on 1/12/25 at 6:20 pm to
Wow, so sorry for your loss. Based on your words, there’s no doubt that she was as thankful for you as you were for her. Push on and commit to carrying on the way that she would want you to. God bless you and all of her loved ones.
Posted by RedPop4
Santiago de Compostela
Member since Jan 2005
14770 posts
Posted on 1/12/25 at 6:23 pm to
I am so sorry JR.
Posted by TBoy
Kalamazoo
Member since Dec 2007
26173 posts
Posted on 1/12/25 at 6:40 pm to
Damn, Jim. I’m so sorry. I don’t have any advice for but I am saying a prayer for you both.
Posted by dukke v
PLUTO
Member since Jul 2006
213830 posts
Posted on 1/12/25 at 6:46 pm to
Jim. You may know that I just went through this. It’s raw at first. It’s sucks bad and is a brutal feeling of loneliness. It’s been just over three months and it’s still a hard grind. I talk to her all the time. I’ve been Lonely even while being with a group of people. I’m not sure what faith you have but I have leaned on mine a ton… best wishes my friend. Stay strong as you can. DO NOT GIVE UP.. I’m praying for you brother.
Posted by Thracken13
Aft Cargo Hold of Serenity
Member since Feb 2010
18185 posts
Posted on 1/12/25 at 7:16 pm to
you stay strong also Dukke v - we're here for you both.
Posted by Polycarp
Texas
Member since Feb 2009
5672 posts
Posted on 1/12/25 at 7:22 pm to
Sorry dude, I don’t have the words..
Posted by dukke v
PLUTO
Member since Jul 2006
213830 posts
Posted on 1/12/25 at 7:46 pm to
Thanks man….
Posted by fly2fish
OB
Member since Nov 2008
256 posts
Posted on 1/12/25 at 8:19 pm to
I can’t even begin to fathom how that must feel. I am very sorry for your loss.
Posted by KCRoyalBlue
Member since Nov 2020
1518 posts
Posted on 1/12/25 at 8:28 pm to
Take a moment to sit and write down things while they are fresh in your memory. Good times. Maybe not-so-good times, but perhaps something you learned in those moments that made you a better man. Your feelings in the moment.

There will be things in time that you will forget, so it will be refreshing to go back and read thru these treasures.

Sounds strange, but fwiw, I always smile when I see you post simply because "The Rockford Files" is one of my all-time favorites TV shows. I don't watch it nearly enough and have yet to finish the series, for whatever reason.

Godspeed to her and best wishes to you, "Jim".
Posted by High Life
Member since Dec 2014
3103 posts
Posted on 1/12/25 at 8:39 pm to
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Well she kept me going too and I don't know how I'm going to make it.


You’ll keep going for her. Stay strong brother
Posted by 62Tigerfan
Member since Sep 2015
5107 posts
Posted on 1/12/25 at 8:43 pm to
So sorry to hear this. Lots of prayers coming y'all's way.
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