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Had a surprising turn of events with a "tweaker" today...

Posted on 3/23/19 at 11:03 pm
Posted by GammaPro
Lake Charles
Member since Jan 2008
724 posts
Posted on 3/23/19 at 11:03 pm
I work for a local NDE company and needed to hire an assistant radiographer (industrial x-ray). Well, a former employee got word and contacted our office. Now, when he worked for us before, he was a hard worker. But, he had some addiction issues.

That's not even why we let him go, though, to be honest. Work just died down at the time. So, based on his old work practices and the fact that he told us he had been to rehab and was in recovery, we decided to give him another shot. He was supposed to come in on Monday to start the hire-in process. But, he called me today to tell me he wouldn't be taking the job after all.

My immediate thought was "Well, you just blew this bridge up " I was aggravated, to say the least. Been in contact with him for 3 weeks (allowing him to give notice to his other job) and now he's going to bail 2 days before?

But, then he started telling me why. He's been in a sober-living facility in Baton Rouge. He's joined a church and has family there. A support system. A strong one.

Here, he'd be on his own. He's young and impulsive. He'd be making a good amount of money. With no one to answer to. No one to guide him. No one to tell him when he's making a bad decision. And, he's smart enough to know he's not ready for that yet.

He apologized profusely. I couldn't be mad at him. Hell,I was kind of proud of him and told him so. Also told him that, when he thinks he is ready, and IF we have the work, call us back and we'll see if we can help him out then.

Posted by TOSOV
Member since Jan 2016
8922 posts
Posted on 3/23/19 at 11:05 pm to
DNR. Did he touch your wee-wee TSA Agent style??
Posted by castorinho
13623 posts
Member since Nov 2010
82033 posts
Posted on 3/23/19 at 11:07 pm to
Good for the young man
Posted by jlntiger
Member since Feb 2011
1441 posts
Posted on 3/23/19 at 11:08 pm to
That’s a good story . Hopefully kid stays clean and when the time comes you have an opportunity for him
Posted by LSUGUMBO
Shreveport, LA
Member since Sep 2005
8526 posts
Posted on 3/23/19 at 11:14 pm to
Good on you for giving him another shot- people CAN change, whether it’s growing up (25 vs 35) or different circumstances like addiction, people can change over time, and sometimes, it’s for the better
Posted by Topwater Trout
Red Stick
Member since Oct 2010
67590 posts
Posted on 3/23/19 at 11:14 pm to
What’s his addiction? If pain pills he probably will just more and more messed up...sad but true
Posted by RockyMtnTigerWDE
War Damn Eagle Dad!
Member since Oct 2010
105415 posts
Posted on 3/23/19 at 11:14 pm to
We all would most likely make the same assessment, but a good story on listening and allowing the young man to get his story out.

That had to take a lot of courage to make that choice not only decline the offer, but tell you why.
Posted by Sanfordhog
Tennessee
Member since Jan 2016
479 posts
Posted on 3/23/19 at 11:17 pm to
So in other words he is regular poster on the poli board. Don’t hire him.
Posted by Yat27
Austin
Member since Nov 2010
8108 posts
Posted on 3/23/19 at 11:22 pm to
quote:

He apologized profusely. I couldn't be mad at him. Hell,I was kind of proud of him and told him so.

You handled the situation well, IMHO. The young man realized that despite the job being a tremendous opportunity, his sobriety, and ultimately his life, are more important. And you recognized that he made the right choice despite it being an inconvenience to you.

Posted by shutterspeed
MS Gulf Coast
Member since May 2007
63382 posts
Posted on 3/23/19 at 11:23 pm to
Translation: He knew he’d inevtiably knife you as well as pawn you and your company’s shite.
Posted by boosiebadazz
Member since Feb 2008
80272 posts
Posted on 3/23/19 at 11:24 pm to
Ok cool but you totally could have gotten your dick sucked
Posted by northshorebamaman
Cochise County AZ
Member since Jul 2009
35500 posts
Posted on 3/23/19 at 11:26 pm to
quote:

What’s his addiction?
quote:

"tweaker"
meth
Posted by Yat27
Austin
Member since Nov 2010
8108 posts
Posted on 3/23/19 at 11:27 pm to
quote:

Ok cool but you totally could have gotten your dick sucked

Not everyone is down with getting blowjobs from male drug addicts. Some of us draw the line at fat chicks.

ETA- Draw the line AFTER fat chicks I mean... Will accept.
This post was edited on 3/23/19 at 11:29 pm
Posted by pjab
Member since Mar 2016
5647 posts
Posted on 3/23/19 at 11:31 pm to
But, I asked myself, why, does this guy use so many damn commas.
Posted by Tiger Prawn
Member since Dec 2016
21909 posts
Posted on 3/23/19 at 11:37 pm to
quote:

Some of us draw the line at fat chicks.
Not Sampson
Posted by TigerstuckinMS
Member since Nov 2005
33687 posts
Posted on 3/24/19 at 12:24 am to
quote:


I work for a local NDE company
quote:

GammaPro

Name checks out.

You the guys that lost a radiation source off their truck on the side of I-10 a couple of years ago?

ETA: Not I-10, Airline.
This post was edited on 3/24/19 at 12:27 am
Posted by Mr Clean
New Iberia
Member since Aug 2006
49312 posts
Posted on 3/24/19 at 12:26 am to
Posted by GammaPro
Lake Charles
Member since Jan 2008
724 posts
Posted on 3/24/19 at 12:38 am to
quote:


You the guys that lost a radiation source off their truck on the side of I-10 a couple of years ago? 


No. But, I do remember that. The memes that incident spawned on the X-ray Hands Facebook page were gold. Sucked for that company, though. Major fines and violations.
Posted by Sid in Lakeshore
Member since Oct 2008
41956 posts
Posted on 3/24/19 at 12:50 am to
quote:

I couldn't be mad at him. Hell,I was kind of proud of him and told him so. Also told him that, when he thinks he is ready, and IF we have the work, call us back and we'll see if we can help him out then.


Good job. People need help digging themselves out of holes.
Posted by OysterPoBoy
City of St. George
Member since Jul 2013
35191 posts
Posted on 3/24/19 at 1:37 am to
You should have just hired him a life coach.
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