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Going to a wedding tonight of a girl I used to mess around with....
Posted on 10/30/15 at 9:54 am
Posted on 10/30/15 at 9:54 am
....and my fiance doesnt know that.
The bride use to date an old acquaintance about 10 years ago, we were all 18-21yrs old. Well they broke up and we started messing around. Fast forward to today and this girl and my fiance are now co-workers randomly. My fiance knows we use to know each other but has never asked if we ever messed around or not and I haven't volunteered it. Now I'm only invited to the wedding because the bride and my fiance work together, none of our other friends from back in the day are invited, the bride doesn't even talk to any of them anymore. Think i'm going to keep this little secret under wraps since they are co-workers lol.
This is the 2nd wedding I've been to with my fiance of a girl I use to mess around with. The first chick she didn't know so it really wasn't weird.
Any of you all did this?
*Sorry but no pics, not taking any chances. The groom might be on here for all I know lol*
The bride use to date an old acquaintance about 10 years ago, we were all 18-21yrs old. Well they broke up and we started messing around. Fast forward to today and this girl and my fiance are now co-workers randomly. My fiance knows we use to know each other but has never asked if we ever messed around or not and I haven't volunteered it. Now I'm only invited to the wedding because the bride and my fiance work together, none of our other friends from back in the day are invited, the bride doesn't even talk to any of them anymore. Think i'm going to keep this little secret under wraps since they are co-workers lol.
This is the 2nd wedding I've been to with my fiance of a girl I use to mess around with. The first chick she didn't know so it really wasn't weird.
Any of you all did this?
*Sorry but no pics, not taking any chances. The groom might be on here for all I know lol*
This post was edited on 10/30/15 at 9:55 am
Posted on 10/30/15 at 9:54 am to Nola3265
Just keep your mouth shut and everything will be okay.
Posted on 10/30/15 at 9:55 am to Radiojones
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Just keep your mouth shut and everything will be okay.
Posted on 10/30/15 at 9:55 am to Nola3265
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Think i'm going to keep this little secret under wraps since they are co-workers lol.
You did pretty good job of keeping your mouth shut
Posted on 10/30/15 at 9:56 am to Nola3265
subtle brag
congrats on the sex
congrats on the sex
Posted on 10/30/15 at 9:56 am to Nola3265
Dated a girl for several years in college. Fast forward a decade...she introduced me to my wife and her husband is one of my best friends. Just be an adult about it.
Posted on 10/30/15 at 9:56 am to Nola3265
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Any of you all did this?
No because I don't hang out with trashy whores.
Posted on 10/30/15 at 9:56 am to Salmon
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ok...whats the issue?
Didn't say their was an issue really. Just seeing if anyone else has been to a wedding of an ex or someone they messed around with.
Posted on 10/30/15 at 9:56 am to Nola3265
Uh oh...sounds like trouble! Now how are you gonna manage to get yourself out of this one?
Posted on 10/30/15 at 9:56 am to Nola3265
Does mess around mean frick? It's really not that weird especially 10 years ago. I would tell my wife. She'll probably find out anyway. It's not like you're wife would be upset.
Posted on 10/30/15 at 9:56 am to Nola3265
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This is the 2nd wedding I've been to with my fiance of a girl I use to mess around with. The first chick she didn't know so it really wasn't weird.
Then what are you worried about and why are you posting it?
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Any of you all did this?
No. Doesn't seem like as big of a deal that you're making it.
Posted on 10/30/15 at 9:57 am to patnuh
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Just be an adult about it.
Posted on 10/30/15 at 9:57 am to LucasP
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No because I don't hang out with trashy whores.
The OT really is my new favorite place on the internet!
Posted on 10/30/15 at 9:59 am to Nola3265
Despite the rather questionable advice you will get on the OT regarding this...
I have seen it play out in real life so here are some words of wisdom.
DO NOT say shite about her and you. Be polite to the bride, don't act like you don't remember her but under no circumstances be overly friendly or try to approach her first. DO NOT bring up her old boyfriend.
fricking up a wedding is an unforgivable sin in almost everyone's eyes. You will receive the beating of a lifetime, lose your current girlfriend and be ostracized by friends and family if you screw this up.
But, hey, go with the OT way and PIIHB at the wedding for all I really care.
I have seen it play out in real life so here are some words of wisdom.
DO NOT say shite about her and you. Be polite to the bride, don't act like you don't remember her but under no circumstances be overly friendly or try to approach her first. DO NOT bring up her old boyfriend.
fricking up a wedding is an unforgivable sin in almost everyone's eyes. You will receive the beating of a lifetime, lose your current girlfriend and be ostracized by friends and family if you screw this up.
But, hey, go with the OT way and PIIHB at the wedding for all I really care.
This post was edited on 10/30/15 at 10:00 am
Posted on 10/30/15 at 9:59 am to Nola3265
Your fiance doesn't care. I asked her 
Posted on 10/30/15 at 9:59 am to Nola3265
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my fiance
This is the second thread in two days with men talking about their future husbands.
Posted on 10/30/15 at 10:00 am to Nola3265
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Didn't say their was an issue really. Just seeing if anyone else has been to a wedding of an ex or someone they messed around with.
I'm thinking you are probably the first.
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