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Going to a wedding tonight of a girl I used to mess around with....

Posted on 10/30/15 at 9:54 am
Posted by Nola3265
Metairie
Member since Sep 2015
122 posts
Posted on 10/30/15 at 9:54 am
....and my fiance doesnt know that.

The bride use to date an old acquaintance about 10 years ago, we were all 18-21yrs old. Well they broke up and we started messing around. Fast forward to today and this girl and my fiance are now co-workers randomly. My fiance knows we use to know each other but has never asked if we ever messed around or not and I haven't volunteered it. Now I'm only invited to the wedding because the bride and my fiance work together, none of our other friends from back in the day are invited, the bride doesn't even talk to any of them anymore. Think i'm going to keep this little secret under wraps since they are co-workers lol.

This is the 2nd wedding I've been to with my fiance of a girl I use to mess around with. The first chick she didn't know so it really wasn't weird.

Any of you all did this?

*Sorry but no pics, not taking any chances. The groom might be on here for all I know lol*
This post was edited on 10/30/15 at 9:55 am
Posted by Radiojones
The Twilight Zone
Member since Feb 2007
10728 posts
Posted on 10/30/15 at 9:54 am to
Just keep your mouth shut and everything will be okay.
Posted by Salmon
I helped draft the email
Member since Feb 2008
86738 posts
Posted on 10/30/15 at 9:55 am to
ok...whats the issue?
Posted by MSTiger33
Member since Oct 2007
21756 posts
Posted on 10/30/15 at 9:55 am to
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Just keep your mouth shut and everything will be okay.
Posted by BRgetthenet
Member since Oct 2011
118271 posts
Posted on 10/30/15 at 9:55 am to
Bang her one last time.
Posted by Fonzarelli
Dallas
Member since Jan 2015
4103 posts
Posted on 10/30/15 at 9:55 am to
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Think i'm going to keep this little secret under wraps since they are co-workers lol.


You did pretty good job of keeping your mouth shut
Posted by Fun Bunch
New Orleans
Member since May 2008
131809 posts
Posted on 10/30/15 at 9:56 am to
subtle brag

congrats on the sex
Posted by patnuh
South LA
Member since Sep 2005
7442 posts
Posted on 10/30/15 at 9:56 am to
Dated a girl for several years in college. Fast forward a decade...she introduced me to my wife and her husband is one of my best friends. Just be an adult about it.
Posted by LucasP
Member since Apr 2012
21618 posts
Posted on 10/30/15 at 9:56 am to
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Any of you all did this?


No because I don't hang out with trashy whores.
Posted by Nola3265
Metairie
Member since Sep 2015
122 posts
Posted on 10/30/15 at 9:56 am to
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ok...whats the issue?

Didn't say their was an issue really. Just seeing if anyone else has been to a wedding of an ex or someone they messed around with.
Posted by zacata88
Member since Mar 2014
1682 posts
Posted on 10/30/15 at 9:56 am to
Uh oh...sounds like trouble! Now how are you gonna manage to get yourself out of this one?
Posted by BoxmanTiger
Ohio
Member since Dec 2013
666 posts
Posted on 10/30/15 at 9:56 am to
Does mess around mean frick? It's really not that weird especially 10 years ago. I would tell my wife. She'll probably find out anyway. It's not like you're wife would be upset.
Posted by Prominentwon
LSU, McNeese St. Fan
Member since Jan 2005
95096 posts
Posted on 10/30/15 at 9:56 am to
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This is the 2nd wedding I've been to with my fiance of a girl I use to mess around with. The first chick she didn't know so it really wasn't weird.


Then what are you worried about and why are you posting it?

quote:

Any of you all did this?



No. Doesn't seem like as big of a deal that you're making it.
Posted by BluegrassBelle
RIP Hefty Lefty - 1981-2019
Member since Nov 2010
109008 posts
Posted on 10/30/15 at 9:57 am to
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Just be an adult about it.


Posted by Nola3265
Metairie
Member since Sep 2015
122 posts
Posted on 10/30/15 at 9:57 am to
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No because I don't hang out with trashy whores.

The OT really is my new favorite place on the internet!
Posted by Artie Rome
Hwy 1
Member since Jul 2014
8757 posts
Posted on 10/30/15 at 9:58 am to
Grow the frick up.
Posted by jbgleason
Bailed out of BTR to God's Country
Member since Mar 2012
20411 posts
Posted on 10/30/15 at 9:59 am to
Despite the rather questionable advice you will get on the OT regarding this...

I have seen it play out in real life so here are some words of wisdom.

DO NOT say shite about her and you. Be polite to the bride, don't act like you don't remember her but under no circumstances be overly friendly or try to approach her first. DO NOT bring up her old boyfriend.

fricking up a wedding is an unforgivable sin in almost everyone's eyes. You will receive the beating of a lifetime, lose your current girlfriend and be ostracized by friends and family if you screw this up.

But, hey, go with the OT way and PIIHB at the wedding for all I really care.
This post was edited on 10/30/15 at 10:00 am
Posted by Mr.Perfect
Louisiana
Member since Mar 2013
17615 posts
Posted on 10/30/15 at 9:59 am to
Your fiance doesn't care. I asked her
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129146 posts
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my fiance



This is the second thread in two days with men talking about their future husbands.


Posted by bbap
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Feb 2006
97278 posts
Posted on 10/30/15 at 10:00 am to
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Didn't say their was an issue really. Just seeing if anyone else has been to a wedding of an ex or someone they messed around with.



I'm thinking you are probably the first.
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