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Posted on 9/3/24 at 4:41 pm to WeeWee
Mental illness isn’t real these people just need to exercise and get more sunlight
Posted on 9/3/24 at 4:43 pm to BottomlandBrew
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people with BPD do not live in the same reality as the rest of us. It's kind of a mindfrick to try to see the world through the eyes of someone with BPD
This ^^^. I have a stripper friend with BPD, and the delusional world she lives in is downright fascinating. Sad, but fascinating. For her the key component of her illness is delusion. You can not talk sense with her - she won’t hear it.
Posted on 9/3/24 at 4:45 pm to WeeWee
I don’t think I know anyone with borderline personality disorder. Sounds like some “I identify as a cat” frickery.
Posted on 9/3/24 at 4:48 pm to Jim Rockford
I would have vehemently disagreed with you in the past but I have come to the conclusion that I’m the only one who can help myself and fortunately I’ve taken steps. Getting out of a toxic job was the most important.
I restarted therapy a couple years ago and the therapist gave up on me after three sessions.
I restarted therapy a couple years ago and the therapist gave up on me after three sessions.
Posted on 9/3/24 at 4:53 pm to WeeWee
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I strongly suspect that social media and technology are making it worse.
It's the need for immediate and constant attention and validation to trigger a dopamine response. If they don't get it, they spiral quickly. I'm a SRO and will see some of these girls square off on a teacher for trying to take their phone up. It's like trying to take a junkie's drugs. They'll literally fight you for it.
Posted on 9/3/24 at 5:00 pm to Jim Rockford
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I have less animosity for psychiatry, because they actually do something that occasionally helps. I have little use for therapists/social workers, etc. They have a little script they go by that if you follow it, you're supposed to get better. If you don't, they don't have any answers.
You can reject a psychiatric treatment plan just as easily as you can reject what a therapist is telling you. You’ll fail to get better in both instances.
How many posts have we seen about therapy that go something like, “I went to a couple sessions and it sounded like nonsense so I quit going”. It’s not magic. You actually have to “do the things” (whatever the things are) just like you’d have to take medicine or do the CBT like a physiatrist would have you do.
Posted on 9/3/24 at 5:00 pm to WeeWee
I have a family member who has to deal with this. These women will drive you insane. You sense their fear of abandonment after a week, they make you feel like you are finally understood because they idealize you and stroke your ego so much ,they perceive any concerns you may have as harsh criticism, they give huge importance to normal things like facial expressions or silence They then begin to compile resentments and grievances, they project all their bad behavior onto you, they are COMPLETELY unaccountable, they can quickly be delusional and prone to believe crazy things that conform with their penchant for self delusions etc. They NEVER EVER apologize, , they make you responsible for their emotions, they devalue you and finally they discard you.
Any attempt you make to enforce a boundary is met with “ you are controlling “ or “ you are cruel and mean” . The manipulation is incessant. You can’t get over them quickly because the sex was intense and the idealization phase strokes your ego, especially if you’ve been beaten down by life and relationships a bit etc. They pick men that they can exploit in this way.
All of this stemming from childhood trauma and lack of relationship stability with parents as a child. Some cases very severe some more quiet. Some near insane others kind of more low key. Some with volcanic anger others with sadness . Either way you either get tired of the drama rollercoaster or they discard you. It’s not likely to last long. The problem for men who endure this ( or women) is the highs were amazing so they chase that and normal women almost seem boring.Which means YOU are now sick.
Any attempt you make to enforce a boundary is met with “ you are controlling “ or “ you are cruel and mean” . The manipulation is incessant. You can’t get over them quickly because the sex was intense and the idealization phase strokes your ego, especially if you’ve been beaten down by life and relationships a bit etc. They pick men that they can exploit in this way.
All of this stemming from childhood trauma and lack of relationship stability with parents as a child. Some cases very severe some more quiet. Some near insane others kind of more low key. Some with volcanic anger others with sadness . Either way you either get tired of the drama rollercoaster or they discard you. It’s not likely to last long. The problem for men who endure this ( or women) is the highs were amazing so they chase that and normal women almost seem boring.Which means YOU are now sick.
This post was edited on 9/3/24 at 7:02 pm
Posted on 9/3/24 at 5:02 pm to jcaz
quote:yeah I think it’s lack of self control, it’s easy to just say whatever you think and today it’s celebrated
seems like more people than not have psychiatric disorders. BPD/NPD is like a plague.
Posted on 9/3/24 at 5:22 pm to WeeWee
Posted on 9/3/24 at 5:28 pm to beerJeep
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Yeah…… you know what they say though…. Grippy socks, grippy box.
That’s top shelf
Posted on 9/3/24 at 5:35 pm to WeeWee
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Has anyone here ever noticed that girls with borderline personality disorder
Insert literally any pathology after this and it would be appropriate. They’re absolute fricking train wrecks incapable of accountability. They either refuse to accept their diagnoses or over identify with them as a means to justify their poor behavior. They either refuse treatment or switch providers when one calls them out on their shite. Good luck OP!
Posted on 9/3/24 at 5:44 pm to TheWalrus
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I restarted therapy a couple years ago and the therapist gave up on me after three sessions.
You’re lucky
Therapy is just paying to talk to a liberal until you agree with them
Posted on 9/3/24 at 5:51 pm to el Gaucho
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Therapy is just paying to talk to a liberal until you agree with them
Hahaha I’m a psychiatrist and I agree with this comment. I should form a conservative mental health professional support group.. it would have like 20 people..worldwide
Posted on 9/3/24 at 6:35 pm to WeeWee
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Has anyone here ever noticed that girls with borderline personality disorder are always talking about the nice things that they do for others, but the reason they are doing it is to feel good about themselves. They also can’t manage their time to save their lives
If this is the biggest issue you have with a borderline consider yourself lucky. That’s not even thread worthy. Try being married to a clinically diagnosed borderline for 20 yrs then get back to me
This post was edited on 9/3/24 at 6:48 pm
Posted on 9/3/24 at 6:36 pm to Proximo
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Best sex of my life, she was an athlete. Was it worth the abuse probably
… are we tunnel buddies?
I finally got mine to go to a psych for self-harm and the dx was between bipolar 2 or BPD. I was in my early 20’s; feel like I could have done a better job handling had we met now closer to 30.
Posted on 9/3/24 at 6:38 pm to Lsupimp
Maybe it’s you. First chapter of rambling, no periods. Then the last bit fine? You have bipolar grammaritis.
Posted on 9/3/24 at 6:44 pm to WeeWee
So...all of them?
Posted on 9/3/24 at 6:55 pm to Dadren
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How many posts have we seen about therapy that go something like, “I went to a couple sessions and it sounded like nonsense so I quit going”. It’s not magic. You actually have to “do the things” (whatever the things are) just like you’d have to take medicine or do the CBT like a physiatrist would have you do.
Some people do these things, end up a tranny, kill themselves and or shoot up a school.
Posted on 9/3/24 at 7:03 pm to KAHog
My eyes aren’t working from too much sun so it was sloppy. but I cleaned it up a bit from that stream of consciousness .
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