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re: Girl Scouts: Your Daughter Doesn’t Owe Anyone a Hug. Not Even at the Holidays.
Posted on 11/13/18 at 12:50 pm to TH03
Posted on 11/13/18 at 12:50 pm to TH03
quote:A common technique for human traffickers to train young girls to be effective prostitutes is to have them sell chiclets to strangers in public. At a certain age, a child’s brain is just goo that absorbs things like this in weird ways.
this dumbass is saying girls are so mentally fragile that they will frick a guy after dinner because she hugged her aunt as a child
The point is that commanding a young child to allow someone else to touch her against her wishes can lead to an adult being passive about these things. In a world where wolves are in the forest, this can be bad and cause issues.
Prayers for your melt.
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Posted on 11/13/18 at 12:50 pm to lsucoonass
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What is this bullshite
Progressive feminism taking over an institution with the sole intent of indoctrinating our young women.
Posted on 11/13/18 at 12:52 pm to WoWyHi
quote:“Hug who you want, and don’t hug who you don’t want.” - Indoctrination
Progressive feminism taking over an institution with the sole intent of indoctrinating our young women.
“Hug whoever I tell you to hug.” - Not indoctrination
No holes in that logic at all.
Posted on 11/13/18 at 12:52 pm to WoWyHi
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So progressive feminism took over the Girl Scouts?
And the Boy Scouts, who are now just Scouts and let boys and girls join. However, the Girl Scouts are now suing the Scouts for letting girls join.
Probably has something to do with Common Core Science.
Posted on 11/13/18 at 12:54 pm to blueboy
Everybody is going to want a hug from the left this holiday season
Posted on 11/13/18 at 12:55 pm to blueboy
quote:Of ForfrickingChristSake
Holidays and family get-togethers are a time for yummy food, sweet traditions, funny stories, and lots and lots of love. But they could, without you even realizing it, also be a time when your daughter gets the wrong idea about consent and physical affection.
Posted on 11/13/18 at 12:56 pm to blueboy
Being asked to hug your uncle is a slippery slope to fricking your uncle. Just ask Alabama.
Posted on 11/13/18 at 12:56 pm to xiv
We should also let kids eat whatever they want, choose their own bedtime, and basically decide whatever they want to do. Anything else is basically rape.
Posted on 11/13/18 at 12:58 pm to fr33manator
melt
Posted on 11/13/18 at 12:58 pm to xiv
I'm with you.
I cringe when I see adults forcing their kids to go hug someone. I think it's also a very southern thing.
If my kid doesn't want a hug or doesn't want to go hug someone - I have to respect that.
This idea that if your child doesn't physically show their appreciation is dumb. Why isn't "thank you Uncle/Aunt" verbally good enough?
I am all about teaching little ones that their body is THEIRS and only they can decide who touches them or who they touch. I don't see the issue in thinking this way - it is definitely NOT raising "frigid lesbians" but, lol to that.
I cringe when I see adults forcing their kids to go hug someone. I think it's also a very southern thing.
If my kid doesn't want a hug or doesn't want to go hug someone - I have to respect that.
This idea that if your child doesn't physically show their appreciation is dumb. Why isn't "thank you Uncle/Aunt" verbally good enough?
I am all about teaching little ones that their body is THEIRS and only they can decide who touches them or who they touch. I don't see the issue in thinking this way - it is definitely NOT raising "frigid lesbians" but, lol to that.
This post was edited on 11/13/18 at 1:10 pm
Posted on 11/13/18 at 12:58 pm to fr33manator
Kids always know what's best. Hell, even at 2 years old, they know they want to be transgender pterodactyl with laser beam eyes.
Posted on 11/13/18 at 1:00 pm to WoWyHi
Hell, my uncle used to grab me by the ears and frick me right up the butthole at the holidays. And I turned out just fine. What's with this victim attitude that's taken over society?
Posted on 11/13/18 at 1:00 pm to lsucoonass
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Yeah
No way in hell am I going to upbring my daughter like this
What is this bullshite
There is a middle ground. I have a 7 year old boy and 3 year old girl and I do think it is important to teach them about physical boundaries, consent and making choices about physical contact that they are comfortable with pretty early - obviously in children's terms.
As kids get older in particular this part of the article isn't bad actually:
quote:
Give your girl the space to decide when and how she wants to show affection. Of course, many children may naturally want to hug and kiss family members, friends, and neighbors, and that’s lovely—but if your daughter is reticent, consider letting her choose what to do. Of course, this doesn’t give her license to be rude! There are many other ways to show appreciation, thankfulness, and love that don’t require physical contact. Saying how much she’s missed someone or thank you with a smile, a high-five, or even an air kiss are all ways she can express herself, and it’s important that she knows she gets to choose which feels most comfortable to her.
Posted on 11/13/18 at 1:01 pm to blueboy
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MessageblueboyGirl Scouts: Your Daughter Doesn’t Owe Anyone a Hug. Not Even at the Holidays. by blueboyTuning them up to be frigid lesbians. I knew exactly what their angle was going to be even before I clicked. The picture really says it all. >quote:Holidays and family get-togethers are a time for yummy food, sweet traditions, funny stories, and lots and lots of love. But they could, without you even realizing it, also be a time when your daughter gets the wrong idea about consent and physical affection. Have you ever insisted, “Uncle just got here—go give him a big hug!” or “Auntie gave you that nice toy, go give her a kiss,” when you were worried your child might not offer affection on her own? If yes, you might want to reconsider the urge to do that in the future. Think of it this way, telling your child that she owes someone a hug either just because she hasn’t seen this person in a while or because they gave her a gift can set the stage for her questioning whether she “owes” another person any type of physical affection when they’ve bought
Not being able to see this pendulum swing is just ignorant. I hope I live to see it too. 40 years from now the Feminists of America are going to be victims bc "No one will give us cock" and I'll be there...
Posted on 11/13/18 at 1:01 pm to PrettyBird
quote:This ironically bolsters the point in the article
I am all about teaching little ones that their body is THEIRS and only they can decide who touches them or who they touch. I don't see the issue in thinking this way - it is definitely raising "frigid lesbians" but, lol to that.
“Come give your Uncle Cory a hug!”
“(whiny) no...”
“What are you, some sort of frigid lesbian?”
That’s pretty much exactly why she doesn’t want to hug Uncle Cory.
Posted on 11/13/18 at 1:02 pm to blueboy
So youre gonna be raising an uptight antisocial child that no one will want around. I make my children go hug every relative when we get there and when we leave because you never know if that aunt or uncle or grandma will be there next holiday season.
Posted on 11/13/18 at 1:03 pm to WoWyHi
I don’t understand how parents can require anythjng from their kids. I mean, that gives the wrong ideas about consent. And not just consent, but AFFIRMATIVE consent.
They not only have to agree to eat their broccoli, but unless they enthusiastically want to devour their broccoli and are constantly reaffirming that fact, and don’t regret it later...well that’s basically vegetable rape.
They not only have to agree to eat their broccoli, but unless they enthusiastically want to devour their broccoli and are constantly reaffirming that fact, and don’t regret it later...well that’s basically vegetable rape.
This post was edited on 11/13/18 at 1:04 pm
Posted on 11/13/18 at 1:03 pm to blueboy
Translation: you better make sure your daughter grows up as cold, miserable, and friendless as I am. If I cant be happy noone can
Posted on 11/13/18 at 1:03 pm to sabanisarustedspoke
quote:You sure do understand women.
40 years from now the Feminists of America are going to be victims bc "No one will give us cock" and I'll be there...
Posted on 11/13/18 at 1:10 pm to xiv
Crap I missed the word NOT - it is not raising frigid lesbians.
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