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Gift ideas for fellow coworker whose wife recently passed

Posted on 7/28/20 at 11:33 am
Posted by Ron Cheramie
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Posted on 7/28/20 at 11:33 am
Coworker/friend just lost his wife of 20 years to cancer They have one 15 year old daughter who is into books and music. Wondering what to send him/them rather than just flowers
Posted by Bourre
Da Parish
Member since Nov 2012
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Posted on 7/28/20 at 11:34 am to
Hookers and blow
Posted by LSUBoo
Knoxville, TN
Member since Mar 2006
101920 posts
Posted on 7/28/20 at 11:34 am to
Hookers and bl...


eh, nevermind.


Bring him and the daughter some nice dinner.
Posted by UGATiger26
Jacksonville, FL
Member since Dec 2009
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Posted on 7/28/20 at 11:35 am to
I'd go with a thoughtful card or hand-written note.

A gift for the daughter is a nice thought, but from personal experience, a grieving family isn't looking for gifts right now.
This post was edited on 7/28/20 at 11:36 am
Posted by NorthshoreTiger76
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Member since May 2009
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Posted on 7/28/20 at 11:35 am to
a new wife
Posted by go ta hell ole miss
Member since Jan 2007
13631 posts
Posted on 7/28/20 at 11:36 am to
I have never really heard of death gifts, but have heard of donations being made in the person’s honor. You could make a donation to the American Cancer Society in her honor.
Posted by tiger91
In my own little world
Member since Nov 2005
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Posted on 7/28/20 at 11:36 am to
I'd consider a donation to a local organization that may have helped them out -- and maybe a gift card for dinner? It'll alleviate stress of cooking at least one meal and will get them out of the house.

And prayers for them -- as a mom, I can't imagine my husband with a 15 yo. He'd figure it out but this isn't how it's supposed to happen.
Posted by Wtodd
Tampa, FL
Member since Oct 2013
67493 posts
Posted on 7/28/20 at 11:36 am to
$75 gift card to a decent restaurant
Posted by Booyow
Member since Mar 2010
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Posted on 7/28/20 at 11:36 am to
Fleshlight
Posted by NorthshoreTiger76
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Posted on 7/28/20 at 11:36 am to
quote:

I'd consider a donation to a local organization that may have helped them out


Human Fund is always a good one
Posted by ellishughtiger
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Member since Jul 2004
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Posted on 7/28/20 at 11:37 am to
Give your coworker a few bucks to put toward his daughters college fund and a nice Italian dinner
This post was edited on 7/28/20 at 11:38 am
Posted by Upperdecker
St. George, LA
Member since Nov 2014
30590 posts
Posted on 7/28/20 at 11:37 am to
Food
Posted by NoHoTiger
So many to kill, so little time
Member since Nov 2006
45739 posts
Posted on 7/28/20 at 11:38 am to
set up a calendar for friends and family to bring them meals. Also, ask people to volunteer for things like cleaning the house, laundry and shopping for them.
Posted by High C
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Member since Nov 2012
53843 posts
Posted on 7/28/20 at 11:38 am to
I understand your desire to show compassion, but if I just lost my wife of 20 years to cancer, I’m not interested in a gift. I would do my best to be there for my friend on a personal level. Be an ear and shoulder for him as he works through an unimaginable process.
Posted by tigafan4life
Member since Dec 2006
48924 posts
Posted on 7/28/20 at 11:38 am to
A meal, hand written card and get the daughter a gift certificate to Barnes and Noble.
Posted by Costanza
Member since May 2011
3152 posts
Posted on 7/28/20 at 11:38 am to
Send him a card, call him in a couple of weeks and invite them over for steaks.
Posted by HoustonChick86
Catalina Wine Mixer
Member since Dec 2009
57349 posts
Posted on 7/28/20 at 11:39 am to
I think a handwritten card would be a nice gesture, and then maybe a month or two down the road when you can tell its a rough day take him out for drinks. They will get all kinds of food and stuff now, so its nice to do something later on in my opinion.
Posted by jbgleason
Bailed out of BTR to God's Country
Member since Mar 2012
18913 posts
Posted on 7/28/20 at 11:40 am to
Gift card to dinner is the right answer here.

That guy doesn't want a thoughtful note from you talking about how sorry you are for him. A donation to an organization, unless they asked for one, isn't helping him out either. The dinner will mean something.
Posted by dbeck
Member since Nov 2014
29453 posts
Posted on 7/28/20 at 11:40 am to
quote:

Gift ideas for fellow coworker whose wife recently passed

Grandchild
Posted by RT1941
Member since May 2007
30247 posts
Posted on 7/28/20 at 11:41 am to
Make a donation in the wife's memory to The American Cancer Society.
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