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re: Gf's Dad died a while back and she'll start crying spontaneously that she misses him

Posted on 5/11/17 at 11:51 am to
Posted by atxfan
Member since Jul 2004
4232 posts
Posted on 5/11/17 at 11:51 am to
Sounds like she had a good relationship with her dad, that's a good thing overall. Show some patience and give her a hug or get a new girlfriend if you're not into the emotional types. Not sure that you're going to change anything with tough love.
Posted by MorbidTheClown
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2015
76780 posts
Posted on 5/11/17 at 11:51 am to
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You are equating a daughter losing their dad to a spouse losing their husband? You're a moron
Posted by 50_Tiger
Arlington TX
Member since Jan 2016
43534 posts
Posted on 5/11/17 at 11:51 am to
quote:

Move with her to Texas.

That is the solution to everything, apparently.


Posted by The Great McGinty
Member since Jan 2017
1384 posts
Posted on 5/11/17 at 11:51 am to
Crying cause her dad died!?..... what a dumb Cuunt!
Posted by Darth_Vader
A galaxy far, far away
Member since Dec 2011
74614 posts
Posted on 5/11/17 at 11:52 am to
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When it first happened I was compassionate...but when I found out the dude died 12 years ago, I'm all like get over it. Yeah it may be sad, but her mom's been porking another dude for the last 9 years...she's not all boo hooing when she sees a Klondike bar and says "those were his favorite...wahhhhh...wahhhh" How do you "help" someone move on emotionally after 12 f'ing years?


Couple of questions.

1. How old are both of you?
2. Have you lost a parent yet?
Posted by Boudreaux35
BR
Member since Sep 2007
22281 posts
Posted on 5/11/17 at 11:52 am to
quote:

How do you "help" someone move on emotionally after 12 f'ing years?


Obviously, first step is posting pics of her on the OT.
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
93541 posts
Posted on 5/11/17 at 11:52 am to
quote:

My Dad is dead.

same here, and there's not a day that goes by that I don't think of him, and sometimes get a little sad, but I keep that to myself, don't make a play for attention with it
Posted by northshorebamaman
Mackinac Island
Member since Jul 2009
38575 posts
Posted on 5/11/17 at 11:53 am to
I was getting ready to give you shite, but yeah, 12 years is too much time to have frequent breakdowns.
Posted by LordoftheManor
Member since Jul 2006
8371 posts
Posted on 5/11/17 at 11:55 am to
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This post was edited on 6/9/17 at 12:23 pm
Posted by cadillac7563
Birmingham, AL
Member since Aug 2014
2013 posts
Posted on 5/11/17 at 11:55 am to
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Grief is nature's most powerful aphrodisiac. Congrats on the sex.


Posted by el Gaucho
He/They
Member since Dec 2010
60138 posts
Posted on 5/11/17 at 11:55 am to
Crying is healthy... Get over it
Posted by Tyga Woods
South Central Jupiter Island, FL
Member since Sep 2016
42908 posts
Posted on 5/11/17 at 11:55 am to
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...she's not all boo hooing when she sees a Klondike bar and says "those were his favorite...wahhhhh...wahhhh"


She's an attention whore sociopath. This is what they do. I imagine she also asks for prayers for every little thing on Facebook "my allergies are soooo bad. Prayers please". DO NOT MARRY!!! Unless you want to spend the rest of your life dealing with an attention whoring drama queen that will always hold your mistakes against you.
This post was edited on 5/11/17 at 11:57 am
Posted by northshorebamaman
Mackinac Island
Member since Jul 2009
38575 posts
Posted on 5/11/17 at 11:57 am to
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She's an attention whore. This is what they do. I imagine she also asks for prayers for every little thing on Facebook "my allergies are soooo bad. Prayers please". DO NOT MARRY!!! Unless you want to spend the rest of your life dealing with an attention whoring drama queen that will always hold your mistakes against you.

This guy is 100% correct.
Posted by AwesomeSauce
Das Boot
Member since May 2015
11631 posts
Posted on 5/11/17 at 11:57 am to
quote:

1. How old are both of you?


This. My grandad was my best friend and confidant growing up. With the nature and travel of my dad's work and my grandparents proximity he was in a lot of ways a father figure to me. He passed away 14 years ago when I was a Sr in HS. There are still times when I hear a song from his funeral or something reminds me of him where I will bite the inside of my cheek as my eyes get warm remembering that man.

OP, hopefully one day you have a child or someone that thinks of you when you have been gone for a decade or more.
Posted by bayourougebengal
Member since Mar 2008
7236 posts
Posted on 5/11/17 at 11:58 am to
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I'm all like get over it


He's her fricking dad.

Also, am I the only one that regularly hits the bookmark button when trying to downvote?
Posted by northshorebamaman
Mackinac Island
Member since Jul 2009
38575 posts
Posted on 5/11/17 at 11:58 am to
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This. My grandad was my best friend and confidant growing up. With the nature and travel of my dad's work and my grandparents proximity he was in a lot of ways a father figure to me. He passed away 14 years ago when I was a Sr in HS. There are still times when I hear a song from his funeral or something reminds me of him where I will bite the inside of my cheek as my eyes get warm remembering that man.

That's normal. I don't think that's what he's talking about.
Posted by Iron Lion
Romulus
Member since Nov 2014
14166 posts
Posted on 5/11/17 at 12:00 pm to
Find out what cologne her dad wore
Posted by Crimson1st
Birmingham, AL
Member since Nov 2010
21152 posts
Posted on 5/11/17 at 12:00 pm to
Amen...there is nothing like the bond between a daddy, and I mean an active in their life daddy, and their daughter...there will hopefully always be a soft spot for him in her future. If the OP can't handle that then yes it is time to set the GF free. If/when the OP has a daughter then maybe he will be more understanding of that void the GF feels.
Posted by NoHoTiger
So many to kill, so little time
Member since Nov 2006
46209 posts
Posted on 5/11/17 at 12:00 pm to
quote:

after 12 f'ing years?

My dad died 45 years ago. I was 3 and have no memories of him. I often cry when I think about things that I missed out on with him and things I never got to experience with him.

My mom died in August. I cry when I think of her sometimes, too.

You're a fricking dick.
Posted by kciDAtaE
Member since Apr 2017
17792 posts
Posted on 5/11/17 at 12:02 pm to
What a bitch
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