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re: Getting F u’ed by your sig other

Posted on 8/27/25 at 3:43 am to
Posted by gizmothepug
Louisiana
Member since Apr 2015
8472 posts
Posted on 8/27/25 at 3:43 am to
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You learned to normalize it, and it’s your fault for not setting boundaries. I just learned that men are allowed to set them too. The 1st time your wife ever MF’d you, you should have said, “frick no. You are not going to disrespect me like that. Ever. fricking ever. That’s 1. I “may” give you 2. The 3rd time and you better start looking for a new place to live, because it will not be with me.” She’ll either learn or she’s not worth having in your life:” And every time you take it, the less respect she’ll have for you. And the less respect you’ll have for yourself, which will make your respect you less. Nip that shite in the bud immediately. And not with the “when you MF me, it makes me feel like….” It makes you look like a bitch. Just tell her no. That is acceptable. If she wants a man she can MF, she best get to looking, cause you ain’t it. If she’s worth a shite, she’ll not only stop, but become more attracted to you. If she’s not, she can kick fricking rocks.


The kind of soft shite is one of the reasons divorce rates are so high in America. God forbid someone faces a real problem in a marriage, and calling someone a mother fricker ain’t it.
Posted by Saunson69
Stephen the Pirate
Member since May 2023
8230 posts
Posted on 8/27/25 at 3:50 am to
quote:

• I'm sorry
• It's my fault
• You're right
• Please forgive me
• I love you
• Breathe


Maybe responding like this though will teach her that it's okay for her to continue calling you a MF. If you really did bad, like spent your entire life savings at the casino or cheated after a 21 year mairrage, then yeah. Depends on what he did, but it's probably not that bad or he wouldn't be making this post.
This post was edited on 8/27/25 at 3:51 am
Posted by Bama and Beer
Baldwin Co, AL
Member since Oct 2010
84410 posts
Posted on 8/27/25 at 4:16 am to
quote:

Got into it last night over something stupid and was called a MF
This was us Sunday. Still not talking but that's perfectly fine with me

Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
132919 posts
Posted on 8/27/25 at 5:08 am to
quote:

Got into it last night over something stupid and was called a MF



Do you have kids?

If so, it's an apt moniker.
Posted by RibsandWhiskey
Metry
Member since Aug 2011
783 posts
Posted on 8/27/25 at 6:00 am to
quote:

I start gaslighting my children to take my side


I like how you work.
This post was edited on 8/27/25 at 6:04 am
Posted by RibsandWhiskey
Metry
Member since Aug 2011
783 posts
Posted on 8/27/25 at 6:04 am to
Sometimes those motherfrickers change. And not for the best. That's just how they are.

We are wired to get very good at what we do and dislike change, they on the other hand, are completely opposite
This post was edited on 8/27/25 at 6:08 am
Posted by Lexis Dad
Member since Apr 2025
4344 posts
Posted on 8/27/25 at 6:43 am to
I've been married the same amount of time as you(21 years in October), and I've never been called an MF'er but I have been called an a-hole and a shithead a few times. We don't fight that often and have only had one big fight.

Glad to see she apologized.
Posted by wareaglepete
Lumon Industries
Member since Dec 2012
17093 posts
Posted on 8/27/25 at 6:51 am to
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She apologized; I accepted


You know it’s not over, right? In her eyes you did something bad to cause her to call you a mfer. She’s waiting on an apology.
Posted by Locoguan0
St. George, LA
Member since Nov 2017
6844 posts
Posted on 8/27/25 at 6:59 am to
Worst I've gotten is "a-hole". I'm a God damn gentleman. If I'm being called an a-hole by my wife, it is because I got tired of her shite and called her on it. Then I am the one who is a "mean a-hole".
Posted by TDTOM
Member since Jan 2021
24202 posts
Posted on 8/27/25 at 7:08 am to
Some trashy arse people in this place.
Posted by LSUTANGERINE
Baton Rouge and Northshore LA
Member since Sep 2006
37640 posts
Posted on 8/27/25 at 7:46 am to
Beta
Posted by SludgeFactory
Middle of Nowhere
Member since Jun 2025
2083 posts
Posted on 8/27/25 at 7:49 am to
This OP is fake.

How do I know?

He later claims she apologized.

Women today never apologize for shite, even when you have them on video doing it. They will gaslight you to death.
Posted by RaginRampage
Detroit Lions Fan
Member since Feb 2018
270 posts
Posted on 8/27/25 at 8:06 am to
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Getting F u’ed by your sig


Thought this was a P320 thread...
Posted by Yewkindewit
Near Birmingham, Alabama
Member since Apr 2012
21551 posts
Posted on 8/27/25 at 8:52 am to
My wife stopped at SOB. I respected that since I deserved it at the times that popped up. It was her favorite phrase learned at an early age. LOL
Posted by LSUfanNkaty
LC, Louisiana
Member since Jan 2015
11926 posts
Posted on 8/27/25 at 9:55 am to
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She apologized; I accepted



Then move on... Jeez
Posted by goofball
Member since Mar 2015
17324 posts
Posted on 8/27/25 at 10:06 am to
Don't let it get too crazy in front of the kids; and if you bicker in front of them....make sure they see the resolution of both of you apologizing.

Kids should know that it's okay to disagree with someone you love and care for. This is honestly a message a lot of us need to remember - even adults.

Kids shouldn't panic if their parents have a disagreement, so more angry/loud outburst may need to be "discussed later".

And unfortunately these days with teachers, coaches, etc. doing inappropriate things....it's probably good for kids to understand that just because a person is an adult doesn't mean they can't be wrong. Although that has to be a carefully crafted message.
This post was edited on 8/27/25 at 10:10 am
Posted by udtiger
Over your left shoulder
Member since Nov 2006
111852 posts
Posted on 8/27/25 at 10:07 am to
Do birds count?

Mrs. udtiger and I throw those at each other fairly regularly.
Posted by Corriente Kid
Central Texas
Member since Aug 2021
661 posts
Posted on 8/27/25 at 11:28 am to
Sticks and stones
Posted by BillysIsland
Member since Aug 2025
896 posts
Posted on 8/29/25 at 10:04 am to
Check the fantasy chat coot
Posted by oleheat
Sportsman's Paradise
Member since Mar 2007
14470 posts
Posted on 8/29/25 at 10:10 am to
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sig other



Get rid of the P320 immediately.
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