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Getting F u’ed by your sig other

Posted on 8/26/25 at 3:31 pm
Posted by FlowMaster
Member since Jan 2009
337 posts
Posted on 8/26/25 at 3:31 pm
Been married 21 years. Got into it last night over something stupid and was called a MF. Finding it tough to move on and get that out of my head. How often, if ever, has that happened to you? How did you get past that or is it just a given that it happens from time to time and you have learned to “normalize” it?
Posted by HeadCall
Member since Feb 2025
5715 posts
Posted on 8/26/25 at 3:31 pm to
What did you do?
Posted by LSUJML
Central
Member since May 2008
51826 posts
Posted on 8/26/25 at 3:32 pm to
Not sure I could normalize name calling
Posted by TigersHuskers
Nebraska
Member since Oct 2014
14400 posts
Posted on 8/26/25 at 3:32 pm to
Jody is in your bed when youre at work, and she has feelings for him.

Sorry bro.
This post was edited on 8/26/25 at 3:34 pm
Posted by Ping Pong
LSU and UVA alum
Member since Aug 2014
5911 posts
Posted on 8/26/25 at 3:32 pm to
quote:

sig other


there are rules here
Posted by lsuguy84
Madisonville
Member since Feb 2009
25734 posts
Posted on 8/26/25 at 3:33 pm to
Posted by Landmass
Premium Member
Member since Jun 2013
23526 posts
Posted on 8/26/25 at 3:33 pm to
quote:

was called a MF


Well, if you have kids, she's technically right.
Posted by kjp811
Denver, CO
Member since Apr 2017
1040 posts
Posted on 8/26/25 at 3:33 pm to


Everybody has a bad day. Roll with it and move on.
Posted by herecomethetigers02
Member since Aug 2025
336 posts
Posted on 8/26/25 at 3:34 pm to
I start gaslighting my children to take my side
Posted by Tyga Woods
South Central Jupiter Island, FL
Member since Sep 2016
41156 posts
Posted on 8/26/25 at 3:34 pm to
How did you make it 21 years before being called a motherfricker??
Posted by tigersownall
Thibodaux
Member since Sep 2011
16602 posts
Posted on 8/26/25 at 3:36 pm to
You would have been traumatized growing up in my parents house.
Posted by REB BEER
Laffy Yet
Member since Dec 2010
17596 posts
Posted on 8/26/25 at 3:36 pm to
Happens to me all the time. It get's easier with time.
Posted by Don Quixote
Member since May 2023
3967 posts
Posted on 8/26/25 at 3:36 pm to
quote:

Well, if you have kids, she's technically right.


you're assuming she's still putting out - I know of some who stopped after kids (not mine, wouldn't be around long if she had)
Posted by SallysHuman
Lady Palmetto Bug
Member since Jan 2025
12225 posts
Posted on 8/26/25 at 3:36 pm to
Have grace.

Let it go.

If it becomes a more common occurrence, judging from the length of your marriage, you may ask her to get her hormones checked- she might be having issues.
Posted by TDsngumbo
Member since Oct 2011
48271 posts
Posted on 8/26/25 at 3:37 pm to
Hallway sex is sometimes the only sex I get. We pass each other in the hall and we both tell the other “frick you”.
Posted by Funky Tide 8
Bayou Chico
Member since Feb 2009
55739 posts
Posted on 8/26/25 at 3:37 pm to
Did she apologize? If she apologized, its not that big of a deal. But if she hasn't acknowledged what she said then you should probably talk to her about it. It can hurt when an S.O. says something like that to you, but shite happens in the heat of the moment, and if she acknowledges what she said and apologizes then move on and forget about it.


but yeah, what were y'all fighting about?
Posted by FizzyPop
350 posts
Member since Jun 2024
781 posts
Posted on 8/26/25 at 3:38 pm to
This is what we call in the biz, The Rabbit Engulfs the Gun. Essentially her vag in the last 21 years has outgrown the feeling of your little pistol, and she is now subconsciously craving a 12 gauge. Sorry man, it's not your fault just genetics.
Posted by GeauxOCDP
Member since Jul 2015
1040 posts
Posted on 8/26/25 at 3:39 pm to
Rookie numbers
Posted by lowhound
Effie
Member since Aug 2014
9482 posts
Posted on 8/26/25 at 3:40 pm to
quote:

you're assuming she's still putting out - I know of some who stopped after kids (not mine, wouldn't be around long if she had)


My first wife, which is why she's my ex. Undiagnosed or treated post-pardum messes their brains up
Posted by FlowMaster
Member since Jan 2009
337 posts
Posted on 8/26/25 at 3:40 pm to
She apologized; I accepted
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