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re: For divorced OTers: Do you ever wish you go back and change things?
Posted on 1/6/17 at 1:01 pm to Spaceman Spiff
Posted on 1/6/17 at 1:01 pm to Spaceman Spiff
Nope. Not even a little.
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Posted on 1/6/17 at 1:22 pm to CoachChappy
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Scott Peterson
I hope that bastard has been bitched out.
Posted on 1/6/17 at 1:34 pm to Spaceman Spiff
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At the same time, she never showed remorse for her affair or what she did to two families.
I can understand mistakes, but I've seen this too. I just have to wonder what type of person can destroy two families and not feel...anything.
Posted on 1/6/17 at 1:38 pm to Spaceman Spiff
Yes. For the same reasons. It wasn't/isn't my fault, but it doesn't make it less painful for the kids.
Plus, if I changed a little here and there who knows how things would have gone?
Ephesians 5:25 is what I really reflect on about how I should have been different.
Plus, if I changed a little here and there who knows how things would have gone?
Ephesians 5:25 is what I really reflect on about how I should have been different.
Posted on 1/6/17 at 1:46 pm to Mid Iowa Tiger
Some people pick it up with their ex and try again. That's how life is sometimes.
Posted on 1/6/17 at 2:22 pm to jrodLSUke
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I just have to wonder what type of person can destroy two families and not feel...anything.
Well, according to her nothing was her fault. Nothing. Five months or so after the divorce, she still hasn't said anything.
However, the other guy's wife and I have become friends and she told my ex that she would rip her face off if she ever saw her.
Posted on 1/6/17 at 2:28 pm to Spaceman Spiff
I think you and I married the same woman
Posted on 1/6/17 at 3:23 pm to Spaceman Spiff
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nothing was her fault
It's never the woman's fault.
Watch the movie "The Descendents" With George Clooney.
Posted on 1/6/17 at 3:26 pm to damnedoldtigah
Woulda never married 1 and never admitted shite to 2. 
Posted on 1/6/17 at 3:32 pm to Spaceman Spiff
Most times people are unable to swallow their pride and don't bend over petty shite, thinking the grass is greener elsewhere. But when you find someone that accepts your faults, you can let out a loud burp/fart around, and generally understands the nature of you - those little grievances mean jack shite. A marriage is part companionship, part psychologist, part business partner, part adversary, and part lover. You should always demand respect, but never be domineering or take more than you give when you can help it. At times you have to, but make up for it as soon as you can.
Posted on 1/6/17 at 8:55 pm to Spaceman Spiff
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Just curious to see if ya'll could change things would you?
Nope. For a few years after I got divorced I wondered about it, but finally saw the light after a while. Our relationship was fricked in the root, I was just too young and blind to see it. It would have happened eventually, I'm glad it was after only a few years, and not spending half a lifetime and my productive years to give to her.
Posted on 1/6/17 at 9:54 pm to Spaceman Spiff
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It took me a while to truly be able to see what a POS my ex really is
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I'll be honest and say that I would go back
See me? I'm the type of motherf***er that'll only put his finger in an electrical socket one time...
why do this to yourself??
I mean I understand the situation is messed up for the kids, but damn man, there are ways to make that easier without dragging your emotions and soul through shite water again
Posted on 1/6/17 at 10:06 pm to Spaceman Spiff
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However, the other guy's wife and I have become friends and she told my ex that she would rip her face off if she ever saw her.
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Posted on 1/6/17 at 10:06 pm to CrimsonTideMD
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Posted on 1/6/17 at 10:06 pm to damnedoldtigah
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Watch the movie "The Descendents" With George Clooney.
Or As Good As It Gets:
Receptionist: How do you write women so well?
Melvin Udall: I think of a man, and I take away reason and accountability.
Posted on 1/6/17 at 10:06 pm to CrimsonTideMD
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Posted on 1/6/17 at 10:06 pm to CrimsonTideMD
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Posted on 1/6/17 at 10:07 pm to CrimsonTideMD
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Posted on 1/6/17 at 10:44 pm to TygerTyger
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I think of a man, and I take away reason and accountability.
Remember the line fondly. A lot of truth to it.
Posted on 1/6/17 at 11:52 pm to Spaceman Spiff
As in, never get married in the first place? Yep.
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