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re: Dudes dropping out of dating game.

Posted on 1/7/24 at 5:47 pm to
Posted by LSU Grad Alabama Fan
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Posted on 1/7/24 at 5:47 pm to
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I just got liked by this “girl” on Bumble. Yeah, I know it’s a scammer but I’m bored and will play along at least until the offer to invest in cryptocurrency comes along.


I've been at that pool before. It's the Marina Bay Sands in Singapore. She's legit, but the person running the account isn't.
This post was edited on 1/7/24 at 5:48 pm
Posted by PsychTiger
Member since Jul 2004
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Posted on 1/7/24 at 5:52 pm to
Obviously, but I may still get some additional titty pics sent my way.
Posted by TheMT83
Member since Oct 2023
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Posted on 1/7/24 at 5:54 pm to
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Obviously, but I may still get some additional titty pics sent my way.


I got to the same point in online dating. I would have the same scenario where it was always the fake Asian girl profiles that would "like" me. At first I instanced just blocked them but then I decided to play along until they asked for money or for me to invest in something. Like you said in the very least you get some additional nice pics.

I honestly feel bad for Asian women here in the U.S. It's gotten to the point where if an Asian woman liked me I automatically assume it's a fake profile. The woman would have to do a lot to convince me she isn't some bot.

That's the other thing about online dating. We think fake profiles are bad now. Wait until AI gets even more sophisticated. These dating sites will use AI to make it look like there are more women on there than there really is. Plus you'll still have the scammers. The amount of fake profiles is going to skyrocket and it's going to get more difficult to identify the fake profiles until you start chatting with the woman.
This post was edited on 1/7/24 at 5:58 pm
Posted by TheMT83
Member since Oct 2023
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Posted on 1/7/24 at 5:59 pm to
In a way maybe AI could actually help with dating. I think AI is going to make the dating sites and dating apps all but unusable, even for the top 10% of men and women. The amount of scammers and/or fake profiles in online dating is going to be insane.

It might actually be the one thing that could end up making a lot of people dump the dating sites and dating apps and go back to more traditional ways of meeting the other sex.
Posted by PsychTiger
Member since Jul 2004
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Posted on 1/7/24 at 6:06 pm to
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I honestly feel bad for Asian women here in the U.S. It's gotten to the point where if an Asian woman liked me I automatically assume it's a fake profile. The woman would have to do a lot to convince me she isn't some bot.


On a few occasions they are real, but they still want to use you for something. I had this one girl originally from Vietnam who I smashed a few times before she made it clear she wanted me to support her entire family, including her non-English speaking mother. There’s no way I’m going to be Walton Goggins’ character from Vice Principals.
Posted by JackieTreehorn
Member since Sep 2013
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Posted on 1/7/24 at 6:08 pm to
Lunch dates during the work week are best. Hard stop so even if you hate her you can bail in less than an hour.
Posted by scottydoesntknow
Member since Nov 2023
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Posted on 1/7/24 at 6:10 pm to
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I honestly feel bad for Asian women here in the U.S. It's gotten to the point where if an Asian woman liked me I automatically assume it's a fake profile. The woman would have to do a lot to convince me she isn't some bot.


I dont...there is something about Asian girls growing up in western culture that turns them nasty and mean. Almost every every one ive met has been almost militantly political
Posted by tiggerthetooth
Big Momma's House
Member since Oct 2010
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Posted on 1/7/24 at 6:12 pm to
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In a way maybe AI could actually help with dating. I think AI is going to make the dating sites and dating apps all but unusable, even for the top 10% of men and women. The amount of scammers and/or fake profiles in online dating is going to be insane.

It might actually be the one thing that could end up making a lot of people dump the dating sites and dating apps and go back to more traditional ways of meeting the other sex.


The problem is all the real-world institutions that people typically would meet someone are pretty much gone or people of dating age are non-participants.


Churches are especially pretty hostile/indifferent to single males. This doesn't include the fact that churches are gynocentric places to begin with.
Posted by OKBoomerSooner
Member since Dec 2019
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Posted on 1/7/24 at 6:17 pm to
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It might actually be the one thing that could end up making a lot of people dump the dating sites and dating apps and go back to more traditional ways of meeting the other sex.

With the rapid collapse of said traditional ways of meeting the other sex, I think it's more likely to make even more people check out altogether.
Posted by LSU Grad Alabama Fan
369 Cardboard Box Lane
Member since Nov 2019
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Posted on 1/7/24 at 10:06 pm to
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Churches are especially pretty hostile/indifferent to single males.


What do mean by this? Just curious to what you've seen or heard.
Posted by Tear It Up
The Deadening
Member since May 2005
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Posted on 1/7/24 at 10:17 pm to
So people use Tinder to try to find marriage material? I thought it was just for casual sex.
Posted by VADawg
Wherever
Member since Nov 2011
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Posted on 1/7/24 at 10:52 pm to
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It used to be if a man approached a woman at a bar and the woman wasn't interested the man would just get a "No", at worse a giggle or a laugh. Now if the man approaches a woman at a bar and the woman isn't interested a "No" or a laugh is the best case scenario. The woman can easily claim harassment and get you kicked out or even banned from that establishment. A woman could humiliate you by getting her phone out and immediately live streaming (or one of her friends doing it) her rejecting you to the internet. A woman can truly destroy a man nowadays or at least make his life miserable for a good bit.


This is a huge, huge, huge part of it that older generations don't understand because it isn't something they dealt with when they were navigating the dating world.
Posted by TheMT83
Member since Oct 2023
246 posts
Posted on 1/8/24 at 12:11 am to
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This is a huge, huge, huge part of it that older generations don't understand because it isn't something they dealt with when they were navigating the dating world.


Absolutely. I know a previous poster mentioned the DUI factor as a downfall to the club/bar scene but that's not really it. It's this. Older generations had more respect and it would typically just be a respectful no. At worse it might be a giggle with the woman kind of thinking it's funny that specific guy had a chance with her.

Now though the risk is just a lot worse. Getting rejected and laughed at is the least of a guy's concern. So many women take it beyond rejection. Some actually seem to enjoy humiliating or destroying the man.
This post was edited on 1/8/24 at 12:16 am
Posted by johnnyrocket
Ghetto once known as Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2013
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Posted on 1/8/24 at 5:50 am to
While tinder is exploding and guys getting booty without being married.
Posted by N2cars
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Posted on 1/8/24 at 6:02 am to
Man, what church do you attend?

I'd find another...
Posted by Tarps99
Lafourche Parish
Member since Apr 2017
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Posted on 1/8/24 at 6:07 am to
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Man, what church do you attend? I'd find another...


If it is Catholic Church, they don’t have a leg to stand on talking about single men since they are run by a group of single men.
Posted by dgnx6
Member since Feb 2006
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Posted on 1/8/24 at 6:12 am to
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I honestly feel bad for Asian women here in the U.S. It's gotten to the point where if an Asian woman liked me I automatically assume it's a fake profile. The woman would have to do a lot to convince me she isn't some bot.


I’ve gone out with some Asians and I’ve matched with some that were into crypto.

Sometimes you just have to play the game to find out.

Posted by Solo Cam
Member since Sep 2015
34716 posts
Posted on 1/8/24 at 6:18 am to
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Sex robots are 3 years away then women will lose a lot of power.
This is going to be way more of a thing then I originally thought.

If I was a young man and I had to deal with some of these entitled fricking moron girls who bring tape measures to bars and want to see your bank account- man I think I'd rather a nice warm piece of silicone that would just suck my dick while I watch football and relax instead of spending $140 at the bar to bring home some ran through, half drunk whore who isn't going to give you head.


I think with the advancements in AI, those things are gonna be real asf by 2027-2028.
Posted by scottydoesntknow
Member since Nov 2023
10085 posts
Posted on 1/8/24 at 7:42 am to
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What do mean by this? Just curious to what you've seen or heard.


I wouldnt say churches are anti-men but they are definitely gynocentric(obviously with exceptions). Ill use Church of the Highlands for an example. Almost everything appeals to middle age women. The music, messages, fancy starbucks coffeeshops in the entrance. Pastors would constantly praise their wives to an obnoxious degree. There is this feeling that a man is incomplete if he doesnt have a wife. Zero talk of submission, zero pushback against feminism, a lot of Paul's letters conveniently and consistently ignored.

Last straw for me was that they had this awful female "teacher" preach like every 4th Sunday which is clearly prohibited by scripture. I left a comment saying this was wrong, cited scripture and left my phone number. A secondary "pastor" called me and told me I was wrong and that despite the woman preaching, she was under the "authority" of the main male pastor which made it ok. I asked him to cite scripture which allowed this and he got very pissy and inferred that I should find a new church(which I agreed).
This post was edited on 1/8/24 at 7:43 am
Posted by lsu777
Lake Charles
Member since Jan 2004
36769 posts
Posted on 1/8/24 at 7:51 am to
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I’m glad my wife is cool and I don’t have to deal with this shite.



me too, really glad my wife is awesome because no way could i handle some of the shite some of the females say. Like anything under 6'is unacceptable all while weighing 200+

frick that.
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