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re: Don't talk to women. Don't look at women. Got it.

Posted on 11/18/19 at 10:02 am to
Posted by Fewer Kilometers
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2007
38685 posts
Posted on 11/18/19 at 10:02 am to
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As a male why do you feel the need to touch a female at all?

We all feel the need, most of us just don't do it. Hugging and touching women at work is a power move. At a minimum it's a mental notch in your scorecard that you put your hand on her arm while you were talking or got a side-hug and she didn't object. Not saying that some women don't flirt and like attention from an attractive guy or a boss with power. But even then the guy is going home to his wife thinking, "Man, that chick let me rub her shoulders. I could tag that if I wanted to."

If you've ever worked with a guy or male boss who likes to give guys shoulder rubs and side hugs you know how creepy that can be for you. We had to talk to one guy who was giving men arse slaps like they were coming off of the football field. That shite made you want to punch someone.
Posted by LSURussian
Member since Feb 2005
135363 posts
Posted on 11/18/19 at 10:10 am to
Posted by ragincajun77
Member since Jul 2019
911 posts
Posted on 11/18/19 at 10:14 am to
Dude lol wtf? He ran his hand up her thigh? I mean how hard of a concept is it to keep your hands off someone else
Posted by dallastigers
Member since Dec 2003
10989 posts
Posted on 11/18/19 at 10:15 am to
Do you fall a little within the spectrum?

You say no hugs but throwing in the obvious issues in hugs with a groin thrust against you and also groping in previous post. Also Knowing some women pretty sure you have had some bi or lesbian breasts rubbed against as well for their pleasure during hugs. Even by accident you may have rubbed your breasts on guys & girls before in a hug.

If you really don’t want any hugs regardless of intent or of thrusting of groins and breasts from men or women why don’t you stop them from happening? Are you afraid of how you will come across when everyone else has hugged each other and you don’t?
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
Member since May 2012
61568 posts
Posted on 11/18/19 at 10:19 am to
Don’t hug people you work with. It’s not that hard.
Posted by Jimbeaux
Member since Sep 2003
21956 posts
Posted on 11/18/19 at 10:22 am to
How did we get to this place? Women are to be treated in such infantile ways and babied?

We just take women’s words as truth, and ignore what evil, lying demons many of them can be?

I thought women wanted to be treated as equals to men. If I get a bro hug at work and I don’t like it, I speak up and say “get off me, dufus!”

My god, women are so weak.
Posted by TexasTiger90
Rocky Mountain High
Member since Jul 2014
3576 posts
Posted on 11/18/19 at 10:22 am to
Odd hill to die on, but OK
Posted by LSURussian
Member since Feb 2005
135363 posts
Posted on 11/18/19 at 10:24 am to
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Don’t hug people you work with. It’s not that hard.
Of course it's not hard if there's no hugging going on....
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
151559 posts
Posted on 11/18/19 at 10:24 am to
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Don’t hug people you work with


quote:

It’s not that hard.


TNWSS
Posted by USMEagles
Member since Jan 2018
11811 posts
Posted on 11/18/19 at 10:26 am to
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I need to see what her legs look like before I can form an opinion.


They look really awesome. She's a frickin' honey. I'd compliment her all the time, and hopefully I don't look like Rosanne's retarded in-laws.
Posted by 32 29 36
Baton Rouge
Member since May 2018
1305 posts
Posted on 11/18/19 at 10:58 am to
It has more to do with the fact that I shouldn’t have to continually tell men I don’t want you to hug me...or to have to push them away.

But I do....I push them off or tell them to stop. Unfortunately that then makes me the “fing b****” and that becomes how people see me. Not the woman who has 4 degrees and has worked her a** off to get where she is. Just the stupid b**** who won’t have any fun.

It shouldn’t be one or the other.
Posted by 32 29 36
Baton Rouge
Member since May 2018
1305 posts
Posted on 11/18/19 at 11:09 am to
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My god, women are so weak.


Again, same thing I just posted. Has nothing to do with being weak. It’s either you submit to the unwanted contact or you become known as a b****.

I’ve learned in my older years it’s just better to be known as the b****.....but it’s still a decision I never should have had to make.
This post was edited on 11/18/19 at 11:10 am
Posted by Saint Alfonzo
Member since Jan 2019
30982 posts
Posted on 11/18/19 at 11:23 am to
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I’ve learned in my older years it’s just better to be known as the b****.....but it’s still a decision I never should have had to make.


Maybe you are a bitch. Enjoy your four degrees and five cats.
Posted by SSpaniel
Germantown
Member since Feb 2013
29658 posts
Posted on 11/18/19 at 11:27 am to
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It’s not just her complaining to complain.




More likely, it's her getting offended at something that wasn't offensive, misconstruing a situation and embellishing the incident.
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
Member since May 2012
61568 posts
Posted on 11/18/19 at 11:35 am to
Sorry the ladies at your office won’t let you hug them, creep
Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
112944 posts
Posted on 11/18/19 at 11:38 am to
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Don't talk to women. Don't look at women. Got it.
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Not a side hug and a pants compliment?! Lock him up! Throw away the key! He grazed her thigh. Oh, the humanity.
OP sounds like he likes to partake in a little sexual harrassment and groping during his down time at work.
Posted by Saint Alfonzo
Member since Jan 2019
30982 posts
Posted on 11/18/19 at 11:38 am to
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Sorry the ladies at your office won’t let you hug them, creep


OT White Knight here to save the day, I see. Put your cape on, Captain.
Posted by 32 29 36
Baton Rouge
Member since May 2018
1305 posts
Posted on 11/18/19 at 11:43 am to
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Maybe you are a bitch. Enjoy your four degrees and five cats.


And it’s that mentality that’s the issue. Something has to be wrong with me because I don’t want unsolicited attention or touching. Now I’m the old b**** cat lady. Never been called that one before.
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
Member since May 2012
61568 posts
Posted on 11/18/19 at 11:45 am to
No. You just sound like a creep with no social awareness.
Posted by Saint Alfonzo
Member since Jan 2019
30982 posts
Posted on 11/18/19 at 11:48 am to
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And it’s that mentality that’s the issue. Something has to be wrong with me because I don’t want unsolicited attention or touching. Now I’m the old b**** cat lady. Never been called that one before.


Your forum handle is 32 29 36. And you claim you don't want attention? Lies.
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