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re: Does anyone's SO really suck at buying gifts?

Posted on 6/10/14 at 7:09 am to
Posted by fnchdrms87
Fairfax Station, VA
Member since Jun 2010
893 posts
Posted on 6/10/14 at 7:09 am to
Beta
Posted by TigerHam85
59-024 Kamehameha Highway
Member since Nov 2009
31493 posts
Posted on 6/10/14 at 7:15 am to
Damn that sucks. No lie, there is not a person I've ever give/exchanged gifts with that puts more thought into it than my SO. She put price limits on mutual gifts, and she comes out of left field with the best thing I've ever had. Examples; keep it under $30 she said - 1 year subscription to beer advocate magazine ($29.99). Keep it under $50 she said - tickets to a private tour, tasting and foodie event for us at defiant brewery ($50). There was another foodie thing that I brought my buddy to that she thought of.

She's fricking great and hot.
Posted by dnm3305
Member since Feb 2009
13578 posts
Posted on 6/10/14 at 7:21 am to
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Our house is just the opposite. Wife always gives amazing gifts. I want to reciprocate but she is IMPOSSIBLE to buy for. In many years of marriage, even when enlisting help from female relatives, our grown children and others, she never likes what I buy.

She's a DIY type who frankly loves power tools, and home depot stuff. I buy that, but it never feels like a gift you give your life mate.


I think the art of gift-giving is lost. Why dont you build a big picture frame from scratch and fill it with chronological pictures of your kids (without her knowing). You could recreate the meal of your first date and serve it for dinner on your anniversary. Get her a massage. Better yet, give her a massage. A gift doesnt have to be a designer handbag. That makes you look cheap and like you dont care anymore.
This post was edited on 6/10/14 at 7:22 am
Posted by TheUnderDog
My Boat
Member since Feb 2011
942 posts
Posted on 6/10/14 at 7:24 am to
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Beta


I was gonna say 3 pages and no beta but u beat me to it. BTW I wish it would go away
Posted by BoogaBear
Member since Jul 2013
5568 posts
Posted on 6/10/14 at 7:27 am to
It's not rocket surgery, my wife keeps a list on her phone and tablet of all the shite I always say I want. When it comes time to buy a gift she picks one in the price range and boom a gift I wanted.

Usually it was something I said I wanted long ago so it's a nice surprise.
Posted by Motorboat
At the camp
Member since Oct 2007
22685 posts
Posted on 6/10/14 at 7:28 am to
same problem here. For her, I'm planning trips to the pacific northwest to see concerts and I get a fricking pair of shorts. WTF.
Posted by Salmon
On the trails
Member since Feb 2008
83583 posts
Posted on 6/10/14 at 7:34 am to
kinda...but its mostly my fault because I hate people buying me gifts so I always tell her not to get me anything

so she will usually get me something small like a cookbook or something

which is cool and all, but I bought her a fricking iPad this year
Posted by Sir Drinksalot
Member since Aug 2005
16745 posts
Posted on 6/10/14 at 7:35 am to
You sound Whiney and kind of ghey. Maybe your wife notices that too.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129003 posts
Posted on 6/10/14 at 7:39 am to
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When it comes time for gift giving she is always surprised and just dumbfounded that I found some Herni Bendel beach bag that was on some celebrities arm at their latest beach vacation.



Maybe she was dumbfounded that he knows that much about handbags.

Posted by Bama and Beer
Baldwin Co, AL
Member since Oct 2010
80897 posts
Posted on 6/10/14 at 7:39 am to
quote:

same problem here. For her, I'm planning trips to the pacific northwest to see concerts and I get a fricking pair of shorts. WTF
damn
Posted by BayouBrawl
Junk Yard
Member since Aug 2012
1151 posts
Posted on 6/10/14 at 7:45 am to
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You're a grown arse man. Why does it bother you that much that she doesn't buy you good gifts?

Posted by laangler21
On the lake.
Member since May 2012
3034 posts
Posted on 6/10/14 at 7:48 am to
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i'd rather get what i want than have her try to guess what i would like


Exactly this.
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
97643 posts
Posted on 6/10/14 at 7:48 am to
Everyone in my life has finally figured out that I'm impossible to buy for so I don't get gifts
Posted by Larry
Collierville, TN
Member since Jul 2004
5454 posts
Posted on 6/10/14 at 7:51 am to
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I love my wife, she's almost perfect in every way.

One thing bugs the crap out of me...she gives literally no thought to any gifts she buys me.

For things like Mother's Day, Birthday, etc. I am combing through women's magazines looking for the hot handbag style, searching out top lists for the trends of the summer, etc and try to get her stuff that she would never find around Baton Rouge.

I travel a lot for my job so I get to shop NY boutiques, etc.

When it comes time for gift giving she is always surprised and just dumbfounded that I found some Herni Bendel beach bag that was on some celebrities arm at their latest beach vacation.

When it comes to Father's Day, I literally have to spell out (brand, style, etc) what I want. She refuses to put in any effort into it and it bugs me.

I just noticed my Father's Day gift came in a package. It is literally the exact thing I showed her when she asked if there was "anything" I wanted. I figured I give her an idea of what I wanted.

Nope, totally literal. No work, just feels lazy.

Is this selfish to be constantly disappointed that she puts no thought into these holidays?



When did you marry my wife?
Posted by LSUGUMBO
Shreveport, LA
Member since Sep 2005
8524 posts
Posted on 6/10/14 at 7:59 am to
We started an ongoing 'wishlist' that each of us add to as we things we would like to have- the problem is right now, everything on my wife's wish list has 4 digits next to it.
Posted by offshoretrash
Farmerville, La
Member since Aug 2008
10177 posts
Posted on 6/10/14 at 8:05 am to
Mine is terrible too. I don't even care anymore I just go buy what I want and say happy what ever day to me. Most of the time she will get me some bullshite clothes that I won't wear.
Posted by Motorboat
At the camp
Member since Oct 2007
22685 posts
Posted on 6/10/14 at 8:14 am to
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Most of the time she will get me some bullshite clothes that I won't wear.


If I left mine to buy me clothes, I'd look like a 36 year old frat star sporting vineyard vines and preppy easter colored shite.
Posted by WG_Dawg
Hoover
Member since Jun 2004
86494 posts
Posted on 6/10/14 at 8:15 am to
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I just noticed my Father's Day gift came in a package. It is literally the exact thing I showed her when she asked if there was "anything" I wanted


So you got exactly what you wanted?

How bout you STFU and quit being a whiny little bitch.
Posted by elprez00
Hammond, LA
Member since Sep 2011
29389 posts
Posted on 6/15/14 at 5:48 pm to
I hate to bump this thread, but I feel your pain, OP.
This post was edited on 6/15/14 at 7:19 pm
Posted by Mrtommorrow1987
Twilight Zone
Member since Feb 2008
13127 posts
Posted on 6/15/14 at 7:16 pm to
You sound like a women. You should prob check and make sure you have a penis.
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