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re: Do you think it is okay to require your kid to play a sport?

Posted on 5/7/16 at 12:55 am to
Posted by gar90
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Posted on 5/7/16 at 12:55 am to
I don't have kids yet, but when I do they won't be required to do sports. However they will be required to find something that interests them and pursue it. Whether that be sports, theater, music, a school club, etc. Its important for them to be part of a team of some sort, even if it isn't an athletic team.
Posted by chinese58
NELA. after 30 years in Dallas.
Member since Jun 2004
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Posted on 5/7/16 at 12:57 am to
My parents didn't require my two brothers and I to play sports. All of us did, but we lived in small towns that, in the 60's & 70's, didn't have baseball until Little League and didn't have football and basketball teams until junior high.

Back then we played sandlot baseball and football nearly every day. We rode our bikes all over town. We played army and cowboys in the woods. We were very active and it was always much more fun than playing on a real team. Our games were very competitive. We would have fights occasionally. We would go across town and play against the kids from that side of town. You better believe we wanted to kick their butts.

Doesn't seem like kids get to play on their own now. They just practice and play real games. That would get old fast, especially if someone was making you do it.

I'm glad I grew up when I did. There were only three channels on our one TV and my mom was watching soap operas. The only days we weren't outside all day were rainy ones. We knew when we had to come home and tried our best to make it back by then. We built forts, bridges, ramps for our bikes in the woods around our neighborhood. I think compared to today's kids, we were little Huck Finns.
Posted by glassman
Next to the beer taps at Finn's
Member since Oct 2008
116094 posts
Posted on 5/7/16 at 1:05 am to
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That's why the only thing I was good at was marching band.



Better than being good at nothing...
Posted by rebeloke
Member since Nov 2012
16070 posts
Posted on 5/7/16 at 2:59 am to
Did it kill you? Then what are you complaining about?
Posted by RandySavage
Member since May 2012
30826 posts
Posted on 5/7/16 at 6:47 am to
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there is no need for competition to live a healthy active lifestyle


Disagree.
Posted by RBWilliams8
Member since Oct 2009
53417 posts
Posted on 5/7/16 at 9:30 am to
I think you should make them do some sort of extraciricular activity and make them finish whatever it is thy choose.

Posted by JayDeerTay84
Texas
Member since May 2013
9847 posts
Posted on 5/7/16 at 9:37 am to
Yes, some mandatory physical activity should be required. It goes beyond having them be good or great at a sport, but teaches them valuable concepts and promotes an overall active and healthy lifestyle.

There are literally zero cons to putting your child in some type of physical activity.

Now, this does not mean they cannot be more academically focused or focus on music, drawing etc, but I believe it is highly beneficial for kids to be active at a young age. Regardless if they will become a pro at any sport.
This post was edited on 5/7/16 at 9:39 am
Posted by nc14
La Jolla
Member since Jan 2012
28193 posts
Posted on 5/7/16 at 12:01 pm to
Is this question about sport or soccer? Let's not confuse the two.
Posted by stlslick
St.Louis,Mo
Member since Nov 2012
14054 posts
Posted on 5/7/16 at 12:11 pm to
yes

they can learn a lot of life lessons by playing sports. even if they suck, they are young enough that it doesnt matter as much and they can go their own way in a year or so, into what they like.

they can also gain some friends for life.
Posted by Gulf Coast Tiger
Ms Gulf Coast
Member since Jan 2004
18660 posts
Posted on 5/7/16 at 2:10 pm to
He listed cross country

Soccer is very much a contact sport also
This post was edited on 5/7/16 at 2:11 pm
Posted by AlienCrusader
Member since Feb 2016
141 posts
Posted on 5/7/16 at 3:23 pm to
kids should be exposed to reading, sports, music, hobby( wood, RC toys, gardening, outdoors, wargaming), culture and all that stuff
Posted by RedlandsTiger
Greenwell Springs, LA
Member since Jan 2008
2938 posts
Posted on 5/7/16 at 3:24 pm to
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Let them try sports and if they like it, great. If not, don't force it.


This and this;

quote:

Being a "nerd" or being a "jock" is not an excuse for not being a balanced human being, sound in mind and body.


And spirit.
This post was edited on 5/7/16 at 3:27 pm
Posted by LSUfan20005
Member since Sep 2012
8807 posts
Posted on 5/7/16 at 4:35 pm to
Yes, at least to try.

And try every thing!

There is great value in doing something that you suck at, even if just for a season. Teaches a lot.
Posted by AlienCrusader
Member since Feb 2016
141 posts
Posted on 5/7/16 at 4:45 pm to
sports help make friends , a team
Posted by Fat Man
Gotta Luv Cov ... ington
Member since Jan 2006
7057 posts
Posted on 5/7/16 at 5:24 pm to
One sport and one art .. Till the age of 12.

Ok if they don't like the sport, just find another.

Emphasize your (and your child s) strengths. Strengthen your weaknesses.

A well rounded child is a good goal.
Posted by Monday
Prairieville
Member since Mar 2013
5001 posts
Posted on 5/7/16 at 5:28 pm to
Although I don't think sports should be required, I do feel like kids should have some sort of team building or socialization activities besides school in their lives.

Sports teaches valuable lessons in life that most kids do not get at home.
Posted by Warfarer
Dothan, AL
Member since May 2010
12124 posts
Posted on 5/7/16 at 5:40 pm to
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Do you think it is okay to require your kid to play a sport?



A generation ago I would say that to a point I think it is okay to make them play a sport. Now, I'm not sure if sports at a young age have the same benefits as a generation ago.

- People have taken away scores to games that teach kids to win the right way and lose the right way by declaring that it sniffles their emotions or some other bullshite.

- Team sports teach a sense of teamwork which is important in literally aspect of life and you don't get that off a computer screen or tv.

- Sports also allow kids to get outside and play for health benefits and teaches them to get outside.
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