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re: Do you send a rejection message when someone messages you on a dating app?

Posted on 10/27/18 at 8:55 pm to
Posted by PearlJam
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Posted on 10/27/18 at 8:55 pm to
Very subtle
Posted by DavidTheGnome
Monroe
Member since Apr 2015
31592 posts
Posted on 10/27/18 at 9:03 pm to
I don’t, just ignore them. Unless you’ve been chatting for a while which doesn’t seem like the case. And it depends on what type of app. Tinder is there for sex primarily, no formal response needed. Match or something maybe.
Posted by Robin Masters
Birmingham
Member since Jul 2010
36821 posts
Posted on 10/27/18 at 9:50 pm to
Get her to frick some dudes and then give you the money. If she’s not cool with it then she leaves, no hard feelings. If she is then you have some extra cash. Either way she thinks you’re a total pimp.
Posted by Pectus
Internet
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Posted on 10/27/18 at 9:56 pm to
Makes sense!
Posted by kciDAtaE
Member since Apr 2017
17789 posts
Posted on 10/27/18 at 10:59 pm to
If you have time to decline a date request with online dating, no one wants to date you other than fat chicks.
Posted by BluegrassBelle
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Posted on 10/28/18 at 8:04 am to
quote:

Match or something maybe.


And on Match, random folks you didn’t match with can message you. So it’s perfectly fine to ignore them, especially when you get some weird shite.

I did at least try to give a quick thanks but no thanks to guys that made an effort. Mostly because while he may have not been my type, he’ll be someone’s and the effort should be appreciated.
Posted by AUjim
America
Member since Dec 2012
3835 posts
Posted on 10/28/18 at 8:10 am to
So....i got out of the dating game before all this stuff was a thing.....but if i’m reading this correctly, it sounds like they’re just called ‘dating’ apps because if you called them what they really are, ‘fu**ing’ apps, then girls wouldnt use them as much. And evidently, it is so incredibly easy to get laid that you can pass up an opportunity because they live 15 minutes away......what a world.
Posted by ImAComanche
Member since Sep 2017
1209 posts
Posted on 10/28/18 at 8:51 am to
I think you did the right thing by politely declining. If someone makes the effort to send me a message, I reply. There usually aren’t any ill feelings.
This post was edited on 10/28/18 at 8:53 am
Posted by CelticDog
Member since Apr 2015
42867 posts
Posted on 10/28/18 at 9:50 am to

I try to be gentle.

Anything from no thanks to too far.


Posted by LSUGrad9295
Baton Rouge
Member since May 2007
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Posted on 10/28/18 at 11:46 am to
quote:

I did at least try to give a quick thanks but no thanks to guys that made an effort. Mostly because while he may have not been my type, he’ll be someone’s and the effort should be appreciated.


Can you kindly tell all the other females this??
Posted by Peazey
Metry
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Posted on 10/28/18 at 11:58 am to
Hold on a sec. Let me get my glasses.
Posted by Kujo
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Posted on 10/28/18 at 12:00 pm to
I can understand ignoring a "hi, what's up?". But if someone reads your profile and their message includes details you posted about your self, then they took a time to read your profile and time to craft a message....but "you" dont have time for a quick, even canned reply?

“Thank you for your interest but I don’t see us as a match. Wishing you all the best in your search.”

“I don’t see this becoming a serious relationship and that’s what I’m looking for right now.”

“You’re wonderful, but I’m just not feeling the chemistry between us.”

“I like and respect you and want to be straightforward to be fair…I just don’t think I’m the right fit.”

“I feel like the connection between us is more platonic.”
Posted by supadave3
Houston, TX
Member since Dec 2005
32406 posts
Posted on 10/28/18 at 12:08 pm to
I have had no luck with Tinder or Bumble. I was late to the party with both of them, but only actually met up with 2 people.

I knocked it out the park with Eharmony back in the day but I’m not paying for that these days.
Posted by Kujo
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Posted on 10/28/18 at 12:17 pm to
You have to pay for something I think, otherwise you are inundated with fake accounts and upcharge service requests. If you have to pay for the account you assume that at least the profile is active and the person is still available. When I logged on to Plenty o Fish, I would read profiles that were at least 2 years old, but POF keeps tge profile there to make it look like they have more people than theh do. I guess the others could be the same, but I use tye "crossed paths" and last logged in to filter which girl is near me and looking.
Posted by foshizzle
Washington DC metro
Member since Mar 2008
40599 posts
Posted on 10/28/18 at 3:11 pm to
quote:

too far away, 15 miles from where I live, I can find closer.


Good call. Go to pornhub, they're always telling me that someone lives 1.4 miles away who is DTF.
Posted by LSUGrad9295
Baton Rouge
Member since May 2007
38314 posts
Posted on 10/28/18 at 4:47 pm to
quote:

When I logged on to Plenty o Fish, I would read profiles that were at least 2 years old, but POF keeps tge profile there to make it look like they have more people than theh do


I have found Match to be like this also.

And it seemed like the POF crowd was trashy as a whole...moreso than the other sites.
Posted by TigerBait2008
Boulder,CO
Member since Jun 2008
40491 posts
Posted on 10/28/18 at 4:50 pm to
On a dating app, says enough about you..
Posted by NOLAManBlog
The Big Nasty
Member since Dec 2012
1225 posts
Posted on 10/28/18 at 6:16 pm to
The rejection message to her is: "You are no longer allowed to send this user messages."
Posted by Slevin7
Member since Sep 2015
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Posted on 10/28/18 at 7:55 pm to
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This post was edited on 6/20/19 at 1:11 am
Posted by Posty
Member since May 2018
119 posts
Posted on 10/28/18 at 8:06 pm to
At least get nudes before you block/reject her, come on man
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