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re: Do I Have To Tell My Fiancé If A Former GF Wants To Meet Up With Me?
Posted on 3/26/19 at 6:53 pm to LuckyTiger
Posted on 3/26/19 at 6:53 pm to LuckyTiger
Your loyalty needs to be to the one you’re with. Pretty simple.
In addition, not putting yourself in the wrong situation is the best way to avoid infidelity.
In addition, not putting yourself in the wrong situation is the best way to avoid infidelity.
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Posted on 3/26/19 at 6:54 pm to LuckyTiger
If I were you, I'd just tell the ex you can't make it.
Nothing good can come out of this situation.
Nothing good can come out of this situation.
Posted on 3/26/19 at 6:54 pm to LuckyTiger
I mean if it’s something that you know she feels that strongly about then you shouldn’t.
Posted on 3/26/19 at 6:55 pm to LuckyTiger
if you are in a committed relationship, then how hard is it to tell the ex no thanks or make up an excuse not to meet her?
And you probably should tell your GF that your ex is contacting you before she finds out on her own. You think you were creating drama before? You are gonna be in a shite tornado with no end in sight.
And you probably should tell your GF that your ex is contacting you before she finds out on her own. You think you were creating drama before? You are gonna be in a shite tornado with no end in sight.
Posted on 3/26/19 at 6:55 pm to LuckyTiger
You are not being honest about your motives and expectations if you need to ask “should I?”
Posted on 3/26/19 at 6:56 pm to LuckyTiger
quote:what website do you think youre posting on?
I ask your suggestions o wise ones.
Posted on 3/26/19 at 6:57 pm to 50_Tiger
frick it. I’ll tell her it’s not a good idea.
Then I’ll have to listen to her questions asking me why and accusations that fiancé is insecure, why wouldn’t she trust me, blah blah blah.
I’ll just tell her it’s my decision and that’s the end of it. Then she will accuse me of still wanting her, Of not being able to trust myself around her, etc.
Which is nothing to do with reality. That’s why a part of me wants to meet her. To show her that there is nothing to it.
Then I’ll have to listen to her questions asking me why and accusations that fiancé is insecure, why wouldn’t she trust me, blah blah blah.
I’ll just tell her it’s my decision and that’s the end of it. Then she will accuse me of still wanting her, Of not being able to trust myself around her, etc.
Which is nothing to do with reality. That’s why a part of me wants to meet her. To show her that there is nothing to it.
Posted on 3/26/19 at 6:57 pm to LuckyTiger
Why would mentioning the ex’s request create drama? She’ll either be fine with it or say it’s a boundary for her. If it’s a boundary for her and you proceed, then there’d be reason for drama
And would you rather have problems with your fiancée or an ex you don’t associate with?
And would you rather have problems with your fiancée or an ex you don’t associate with?
Posted on 3/26/19 at 6:57 pm to LuckyTiger
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Ex GF that I maintain sparse communication with is coming to town for a conference and has asked to meet up with me for dinner.
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I have no interest in doing anything sexual with her. Just old friends. Fiancé will be out of town for a week visiting family.
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Telling her about it could just create drama. No drama needs to be created because there is no cause for such. So should I just not say anything and keep it simple and easy?
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Or do I tell her and deal with the possible crap that will follow?
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Or do I tell the ex that I don’t think it’s a good idea then deal with the crap from her asking me to explain why it’s a problem/not a good idea?
Are you fricking retarded? Would you not have a problem with her meeting up with her old ex? What good is going to come out of it? I guess maybe getting your dick wet in an old pussy, but that will rip you apart. You are an idiot and I think you plan on cheating more than you’re willing to admit.
This post was edited on 3/26/19 at 7:03 pm
Posted on 3/26/19 at 6:57 pm to Stud Bud
I can vouch for that. An ex that was already married (or engaged at that point I don’t remember) texted me happy birthday and my now recent ex fiancé saw it without me saying anything (I honestly just didn’t think it was that big of a deal and don’t think I even replied but I don’t remember). All hell broke loose that night over nothing.
Posted on 3/26/19 at 6:57 pm to LuckyTiger
This marriage stands no shot of lasting.
Posted on 3/26/19 at 6:58 pm to LuckyTiger
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Which is nothing to do with reality. That’s why a part of me wants to meet her. To show her that there is nothing to it.
Who in the frick are you kidding here?
If you didn't want her you wouldnt be talking to her. IN SECRET.
Posted on 3/26/19 at 6:58 pm to LuckyTiger
I’m serious when I ask this- are you retarded?
Posted on 3/26/19 at 6:58 pm to LuckyTiger
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Then I’ll have to listen to her questions asking me why and accusations that fiancé is insecure, why wouldn’t she trust me, blah blah blah.
You’re about the pussiest puss I’ve ever seen on here and believe me, this place is full of them.
Posted on 3/26/19 at 6:58 pm to LuckyTiger
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My Fiancé
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Ex GF
He mad you might still like women?
Posted on 3/26/19 at 6:58 pm to LuckyTiger
Idiot if you think that’s an option. Tell old gal she’s been put out to pasture.
Posted on 3/26/19 at 6:58 pm to LuckyTiger
You seem to be more worried about what your ex thinks for some reason
Posted on 3/26/19 at 6:58 pm to LuckyTiger
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frick it. I’ll tell her it’s not a good idea. Then I’ll have to listen to her questions asking me why and accusations that fiancé is insecure, why wouldn’t she trust me, blah blah blah. I’ll just tell her it’s my decision and that’s the end of it. Then she will accuse me of still wanting her, Of not being able to trust myself around her, etc. Which is nothing to do with reality. That’s why a part of me wants to meet her. To show her that there is nothing to it.
Dude
You just spelled it out
If all of this is true, you are getting into a situation where SHE wants to have intercourse with you. If you do something to piss her off, what’s going to stop her from being petty and messaging your girl on FB?
Posted on 3/26/19 at 6:59 pm to LuckyTiger
Show her there’s nothing to it by not going and telling her that she’s reaching out to you.
Literally the only completely right answer here and it’s the only one you haven’t mentioned
Literally the only completely right answer here and it’s the only one you haven’t mentioned
Posted on 3/26/19 at 6:59 pm to LuckyTiger
If you tell your fiancée about it, she might be cool with it if you explain. But there’s a 99% chance she won’t be cool with it.
If you don’t tell her and you still have dinner, then WHEN she finds out, there’s a 100% chance you’re in trouble.
The smartest thing to do is just decline the invitation. It’s really not even a question.
Part of being in a committed relationship is making sacrifices. Even if you know nothing will happen, why is it so important to you to go to this dinner? Who cares if your ex gets upset if you tell her you can’t go because you’re engaged? She’s your ex, her opinion doesn’t matter anymore. You’re making this way harder on yourself than you need to.
Just say no and don’t risk your actual current relationship.
If you don’t tell her and you still have dinner, then WHEN she finds out, there’s a 100% chance you’re in trouble.
The smartest thing to do is just decline the invitation. It’s really not even a question.
Part of being in a committed relationship is making sacrifices. Even if you know nothing will happen, why is it so important to you to go to this dinner? Who cares if your ex gets upset if you tell her you can’t go because you’re engaged? She’s your ex, her opinion doesn’t matter anymore. You’re making this way harder on yourself than you need to.
Just say no and don’t risk your actual current relationship.
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