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re: Do I Have To Tell My Fiancé If A Former GF Wants To Meet Up With Me?
Posted on 3/27/19 at 7:39 am to LuckyTiger
Posted on 3/27/19 at 7:39 am to LuckyTiger
There’s a pretty simple rule for either a guy or girl in a committed relationship to follow when it comes to these types of proposed meet ups:
Have you ever seen or felt the genitalia of the person wanting to meet up? If yes, it’s a terrible fricking idea that is going to piss off your SO and with good reason.
Have you ever seen or felt the genitalia of the person wanting to meet up? If yes, it’s a terrible fricking idea that is going to piss off your SO and with good reason.
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Posted on 3/27/19 at 7:40 am to Dawgholio
quote::kige:
If nothing is going to happen, why in the world would you have dinner?
Posted on 3/27/19 at 7:46 am to LuckyTiger
I suggest you do it. I see nothing that could possibly go wrong.
Posted on 3/27/19 at 7:46 am to LuckyTiger
I'd tell her after the fact and make it sound like you just bumped into her and decided to grab dinner. But take the ex to Chili's or something similar, DO NOT TAKE HER ANYWHERE TOO NICE.
Posted on 3/27/19 at 7:48 am to LuckyTiger
Only if you want to call your Fiance' "Former"
Honesty is the worse policy in these cases.
Honesty is the worse policy in these cases.
Posted on 3/27/19 at 7:51 am to LuckyTiger
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Or do I tell the ex that I don’t think it’s a good idea then deal with the crap from her asking me to explain why it’s a problem/not a good idea?
Why would you feel the need to deal with crap from her or explain yourself?
Posted on 3/27/19 at 7:51 am to LuckyTiger
my advice go tell your fiance she might be pissed but it will be ok she knows your not cheating on her(im assuming)
Posted on 3/27/19 at 7:56 am to tiganation337
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my advice go tell your fiance she might be pissed but it will be ok she knows your not cheating on her(im assuming)
OP is either trolling or looking for preemptive absolution from the OT, only reason to meet up with the ex is seeing if there's one more chance to tap dat arse
Posted on 3/27/19 at 8:05 am to LuckyTiger
You're not ready to be married if you can't figure this out on your own
Posted on 3/27/19 at 8:19 am to LuckyTiger
I make lots of bad decisions so I am an expert at what they look like.
Meeting your Ex with your fiance out of town, lying to your fiance about meeting her, and thinking you are in control of the situation and that the night cant get away from you is a triple layered cake in which every layer is bad decisions
Meeting your Ex with your fiance out of town, lying to your fiance about meeting her, and thinking you are in control of the situation and that the night cant get away from you is a triple layered cake in which every layer is bad decisions
Posted on 3/27/19 at 8:22 am to SnoopALoop
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Ah, the joy of having a fiance at 20 years old. At least you sound like you're in your early 20's with this childish immature thread.
Wait he's 20?
I'm not one of these "you young kids" people but anyone seeking serious relationship/marriage guidance at 20 should just be ignored
Posted on 3/27/19 at 8:24 am to LuckyTiger
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Or do I tell the ex that I don’t think it’s a good idea then deal with the crap from her asking me to explain why it’s a problem/not a good idea?
I don’t think it’s that fricking hard.
Posted on 3/27/19 at 8:25 am to LuckyTiger
Thread is TLDR (I read the OP, just not going to read the pages of responses), but here is my $0.02.
Option 1: Tell your GF and meet up with the ex
Option 2: Don't tell your GF and don't meet up with the ex.
Those are the only two smart options, but you will likely choose option 3 (don't tell GF and still meet up with the ex)
Option 1: Tell your GF and meet up with the ex
Option 2: Don't tell your GF and don't meet up with the ex.
Those are the only two smart options, but you will likely choose option 3 (don't tell GF and still meet up with the ex)
This post was edited on 3/27/19 at 8:25 am
Posted on 3/27/19 at 8:29 am to LuckyTiger
Why would you ask someone to marry you, that you’re unsure you can commit to forever?
Posted on 3/27/19 at 8:34 am to Martini
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You aren’t mature enough to get married.
If op's thread is serious, this is the right answer.
I don't even talk about exes to my fiancee unless she asks. Why create a problem?
There are plenty of things I'm willing to fight with her over. Somebody else I used to have sex with isn't one.
Posted on 3/27/19 at 8:35 am to GOON
That's how you know this is a troll
Any dude who really wants to meet up with the ex wants to see if he can have sex with the ex. That dude will not tell his gf under any scenario.
Any dude who really wants to meet up with the ex wants to see if he can have sex with the ex. That dude will not tell his gf under any scenario.
Posted on 3/27/19 at 8:36 am to LuckyTiger
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Message Do I Have To Tell My Fiancé If A Former GF Wants To Meet Up With Me?
I don’t know but, don’t tell her you tried to brag about it on tigerdroppings
Posted on 3/27/19 at 8:39 am to wadewilson
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I don't even talk about exes to my fiancee unless she asks. Why create a problem?
If the ex is out of your life, I agree. There's no point to bring it up. But in this case, the ex is contacting him and he's continuing a conversation with her. The only way, the ONLY way, for the current relationship to survive is complete transparency and honesty.
If this scenario was happening to me, I would tell my wife about it immediately. She wouldn't make the decision for me, I decide what I do with my life, but she would be aware.
Honesty and communication are the keys to a long term good relationship.
Posted on 3/27/19 at 8:40 am to LuckyTiger
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Ex GF that I maintain sparse communication with is coming to town for a conference and has asked to meet up with me for dinner.
I have no interest in doing anything sexual with her. Just old friends. Fiancé will be out of town for a week visiting family.
Telling her about it could just create drama. No drama needs to be created because there is no cause for such. So should I just not say anything and keep it simple and easy? Or do I tell her and deal with the possible crap that will follow? Or do I tell the ex that I don’t think it’s a good idea then deal with the crap from her asking me to explain why it’s a problem/not a good idea?
I ask your suggestions o wise ones
Nice job of trolling these folks though.
This post was edited on 3/27/19 at 8:42 am
Posted on 3/27/19 at 8:41 am to LuckyTiger
If nothing was going to happen and you are happy with fiance there is no reason at all to meet up with your ex.
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