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Posted on 10/8/25 at 8:29 am to stout
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Its more head-scratching curiosity than getting mad at this point.
the only thing odd or new is the need to give everything cute little nicknames
this is just adult kids living at home, not wanting responsibility and their parents enabling it
this isn't anything new
Posted on 10/8/25 at 8:30 am to stout
No. My son will be 24 in December. He’s gainfully employed, engaged to marry in the coming Spring, and looking to buy a house for himself an his new bride. What’s even better is my soon to be DIL, who may be the most level headed young 20s girl I’ve ever met, has already made it clear she wants to stay home to raise their children when the time comes.
Needless to say, I’m quite proud and happy how my son has started out in life.
Needless to say, I’m quite proud and happy how my son has started out in life.
Posted on 10/8/25 at 8:30 am to Salmon
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this isn't anything new
I think the mass adoption of it is pretty new
This was not nearly as socially acceptable just a few decades or so ago.
Posted on 10/8/25 at 8:31 am to Salmon
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the only thing odd or new is the need to give everything cute little nicknames
this is just adult kids living at home, not wanting responsibility and their parents enabling it
this isn't anything new
I’m also not buying he ditched a $170k job to do it unless he knew he was getting ready to be let go or the Mom had a terminal illness.
Posted on 10/8/25 at 8:32 am to stout
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I think the mass adoption of it is pretty new
This was not nearly as socially acceptable just a few decades or so ago.
I doubt the 1 in 3 number are unemployed, they are just living at home because real estate is insane
that is out of necessity, not because they want to
Posted on 10/8/25 at 8:35 am to stout
I’ve got a friend/client I do some work for on occasion. She has two boys mid to upper 20s that spend most of their lives in their rooms playing video games. She tiptoes around the house and don’t want me doing any work until after 10am since they stay up late playing video games and sleep in.
Their dad died last year and spent a decade bed ridden with a stroke and fighting cancer in the home. So the boys were always felt sorry for and not forced to nut up and go out and build a life.
The entire house is a big ball of depression just pulling in the driveway.
I’ve pulled up to drop something off and I can see the little shits playing video games through the window but they can’t take the time to stop and answer the damn door. Sad
Their dad died last year and spent a decade bed ridden with a stroke and fighting cancer in the home. So the boys were always felt sorry for and not forced to nut up and go out and build a life.
The entire house is a big ball of depression just pulling in the driveway.
I’ve pulled up to drop something off and I can see the little shits playing video games through the window but they can’t take the time to stop and answer the damn door. Sad
Posted on 10/8/25 at 8:37 am to Revelator
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Hey whatever works. Every family situation is different, and if all are consenting adults and fine with the arrangement, who am I to judge? In some cultures, its normal for kids and parents to all live under one roof.
My MIL is widowed and getting older, she’s 76 as of a couple weeks ago. She lives about 15 min away and has her 84 sister (also widowed) as a roommate. We’ve made arrangements that when her sister passes, my wife and I will sell our house and move in with her to take care of her until she passes. I love my MIL like she my own mother. So, as long as I have any say about it, she’ll live her final days comfortably in her own home and never see the inside of a nursing home.
Posted on 10/8/25 at 8:37 am to Darth_Vader
quote:pics of the slam piece?
What’s even better is my soon to be DIL, who may be the most level headed young 20s girl I’ve ever met,
Posted on 10/8/25 at 8:38 am to stout
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I think the mass adoption of it is pretty new
Posted on 10/8/25 at 8:40 am to Salmon
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I doubt the 1 in 3 number are unemployed,
There is a pretty large anti-40-hour work week movement in certain age groups right now. They all see that as a wasted life that stands in the way of their instant gratification of things as simple as sleeping in to traveling all over. A lot of that has to do with the brainwashing of social media, making people think that is an obtainable lifestyle for everyone. I think you are underestimating just how much some people do not want to work and will resort to proudly staying at home to avoid it. Its a cultural shift that has picked up steam.
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that is out of necessity, not because they want to
Yes some of it is that simple but again I think you are downplaying it some
This post was edited on 10/8/25 at 8:41 am
Posted on 10/8/25 at 8:41 am to stout
When I was 26 or 27 my mom had cancer and since I was single and my lease was running out my parents asked me to move back home in case my dad needed help. Best 2 years of my adult life
. Rent was $300/month, dinner was ready every day when I got home from work, my dad would feed and take my dogs to run in the woods, and my clothes would magically get washed and folded while I was gone. I took the opportunity to cut work down to part time and I finished up school while I lived there. Outside of work/school I had zero responsibilities. Felt kind of like a 2 year vacation from the real world. My sister's fam lives on the same property so when I'd get home from work I'd build dirt bike ramps and blow shite up with tannerite with my nephews.
My mom's cancer was caught really early and never really progressed. She's been in remission for 7 or 8 years now.
My mom's cancer was caught really early and never really progressed. She's been in remission for 7 or 8 years now.
Posted on 10/8/25 at 8:41 am to stout
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cushy gig
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housewives
bullshite.
Posted on 10/8/25 at 8:42 am to stout
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Yes some of it is that simple but again I think you are downplaying it some
Maybe. Maybe I just live in a bubble, because I don't really see this IRL.
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A lot of that has to do with the brainwashing of social media,
Am I downplaying it? Or is social media amplifying it?
Posted on 10/8/25 at 8:45 am to stout
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There is a pretty large anti-40-hour work week movement in certain age groups right now. They all see that as a wasted life that stands in the way of their instant gratification of things as simple as sleeping in to traveling all over. A lot of that has to do with the brainwashing of social media, making people think that is an obtainable lifestyle for everyone. I think you are underestimating just how much some people do not want to work and will resort to proudly staying at home to avoid it. Its a cultural shift that has picked up steam.
I think you’re greatly overestimating this group. I haven’t seen this working in a front facing position.
What I have seen is younger people struggling with whether to go to college because of lack of affordability, not wanting to take on student loans. But also struggling to find a job with a livable wage without a degree, job experience, or training/certs. So they’re still living at home because they can’t afford housing and rent continues to go up.
I do think there’s a certain group of people who don’t want to work tons of OT at jobs and lose work/life balance. But most just want to afford to live like an adult.
Posted on 10/8/25 at 8:45 am to Salmon
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Maybe. Maybe I just live in a bubble, because I don't really see this IRL.
It’s horseshite. Some doofus at the New York Post found 2 people (one of which from a wealthy family where this happens more frequently) so it’s a systematic problem that the OT is educated about
This post was edited on 10/8/25 at 8:45 am
Posted on 10/8/25 at 8:45 am to Salmon
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Maybe. Maybe I just live in a bubble, because I don't really see this IRL.
I can think of two cases I personally know of and mentioned one already. I can't think of it ever happening with anyone I went to school with. Again, I think the acceptance of it is more prevalent now.
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Am I downplaying it? Or is social media amplifying it?
Probably both. Social media, and articles like in the OP, make it more socially acceptable, which leads to more people adopting the lifestyle because the shame of it is removed.
The same with chicks thinking a "body count" of 100 is cool and OK
This post was edited on 10/8/25 at 8:46 am
Posted on 10/8/25 at 8:46 am to Mingo Was His NameO
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It’s horseshite. Some doofus at the New York Post found 2 people (one of which from a wealthy family where this happens more frequently) so it’s a systematic problem that the OT is educated about
Bingo, Mingo.
Posted on 10/8/25 at 8:48 am to stout
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The same with chicks thinking a "body count" of 100 is cool and OK
Normal people don’t think that
Next week you’ll post an article about how young people don’t date and don’t have sex. You just want to find whatever headline pisses you off and present it as fact at that time. Snowflake shite
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