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re: Did this girl just fall into my lap? (no pics)
Posted on 7/15/14 at 8:36 am to Col reb 2011
Posted on 7/15/14 at 8:36 am to Col reb 2011
Also, another important factor to consider is how fast she puts you in her kid's life...
Posted on 7/15/14 at 8:37 am to Paige
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I wouldn't want to have to deal with someone else's kid. Have you been around many toddlers? If you think you can handle it then go for it. She may not want a stand in dad Does she have a decent job where she supports herself? Her own home and car? Does she party a lot? Is she a responsible parent? These are the important things to consider. Not just what was probably a mistake at 20
Shes a dental hygienist had a house with the guy just moved back in with her mom.. She goes out but doesn't drink to much.. Last time we went out she was the DD.. I'm pretty sure she's a good parent from what I've seen
As for me.. My brother has a kid that just started to roll over.. All I ever seem to do is make it cry.. But I'm better with them once they start crawling and walking
Posted on 7/15/14 at 8:38 am to Col reb 2011
You are 27 years old. Learn the English language and how to use punctuation before moving on to dating and sex. Your future employers and OT readers will thank you.
Posted on 7/15/14 at 8:38 am to Col reb 2011
There are ways to eliminate the child...
Posted on 7/15/14 at 8:39 am to Walt OReilly
Really?
quote:he has made it sound like she was an otherwise great girl. Yet he wants to get drunk and break her heart and throw a mistake she made before they were dating in his face. Something she couldn't change. And I'm sure he knew about the kid early on
get drunk and break her heart and tell her that things would have been great if she would have made him wear a condom.
Posted on 7/15/14 at 8:39 am to Col reb 2011
You being 27 are probably looking at settling down for good. This chick is very young at 22 with a kid already. Chances are she doesn't want to have kids any time soon, and if that is something that you want in the future, you may need to look elsewhere. She may feel that her one kid is enough, and that could be a relationship killer for you.
Posted on 7/15/14 at 8:40 am to Paige
Plenty of girls have broke my heart so anytime you can break a girls heart I say go for it
Posted on 7/15/14 at 8:40 am to Walt OReilly
She just wants sex.
No relationship. There's already a baby daddy in the picture and she doesn't want to deal with that situation again. This isn't a girl who is going to be a cock tease. She's ready for it...NOW!
Here's the deal: She's a cute 22 year old single mother. That is a rather depressing situation for cute girl who could've accomplished anything in life before the pregnancy. She just wants somebody to make her feel desired, and the only way she'll feel satisfied enough to drown her depression is if she believes a guy thinks she's hot enough to have sex with.
Unfortunately for her, but fortunately for you, sex is how she values herself now.
Hit it...several times
Quit it.
She'll respect you for it and move on to another guy.
Good luck, sir, you just hit the poon lottery.
No relationship. There's already a baby daddy in the picture and she doesn't want to deal with that situation again. This isn't a girl who is going to be a cock tease. She's ready for it...NOW!
Here's the deal: She's a cute 22 year old single mother. That is a rather depressing situation for cute girl who could've accomplished anything in life before the pregnancy. She just wants somebody to make her feel desired, and the only way she'll feel satisfied enough to drown her depression is if she believes a guy thinks she's hot enough to have sex with.
Unfortunately for her, but fortunately for you, sex is how she values herself now.
Hit it...several times
Quit it.
She'll respect you for it and move on to another guy.
Good luck, sir, you just hit the poon lottery.
This post was edited on 7/15/14 at 8:42 am
Posted on 7/15/14 at 8:40 am to Col reb 2011
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just moved back in with her mom
Good luck with that. Mom, girl, kid, under one roof...my best advice, having dated a girl with kids ONCE, is to run. The baby daddy always come back into play.
Posted on 7/15/14 at 8:40 am to yellowfin
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Teenage pregnancy is way down from 20 years ago
Did I say anything about teen pregnancy?. I said single moms.
Posted on 7/15/14 at 8:41 am to Walt OReilly

Posted on 7/15/14 at 8:41 am to jampat
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She already has a sex trophy. Hit it and quit it.
I have two kids and am now single again. Does that mean chicks are gonna hit it and quit it with me, or does that apply to guys only? I guess I'll find out.

Posted on 7/15/14 at 8:42 am to kingbob
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this girl has already made some really poor decisions in her life, hopefully she learned from them.
She had sex and got pregant. I would not call that a bad decision.
Posted on 7/15/14 at 8:42 am to Darth_Vader
That's way down too
along with divorce rate
along with divorce rate
This post was edited on 7/15/14 at 8:42 am
Posted on 7/15/14 at 8:42 am to Col reb 2011
Im not saying to hit it and quit it...............................but........................
Posted on 7/15/14 at 8:44 am to Darth_Vader
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Did I say anything about teen pregnancy?. I said single moms.
usually goes hand in hand
Posted on 7/15/14 at 8:47 am to mizzoukills
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Good luck, sir, you just hit the poon lottery.
Hate to say this, but am going to have to agree with kills...
Posted on 7/15/14 at 8:48 am to Paige
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I wouldn't want to have to deal with someone else's kid. Have you been around many toddlers? If you think you can handle it then go for it. She may not want a stand in dad Does she have a decent job where she supports herself? Her own home and car? Does she party a lot? Is she a responsible parent? These are the important things to consider. Not just what was probably a mistake at 20
All this black and white advice to hit/quit or run is fricking absurd.
I dated a chick in that situation when I was 22 and she 20. She was perfectly normal. Didn't want a stand-in dad, support, etc. She wanted to have a semblance of normal dating life. She lived with her mother and we would go on dates without the kid. Or I would come over and watch movies and shite when kid was asleep. Then I broke up for my future ex wife and she married the next guy she dated and is still with him and has another child. That baby daughter is adult now and is frickin Hot(I had to stick some mikel in there).
TLDR - Y'all actin frickin retarded for telling him not to date a gal b/c of a kid.

Posted on 7/15/14 at 8:50 am to mikelbr
I feel like you had the exception not the rule Mikel...
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