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re: Dating Widowed women
Posted on 12/15/22 at 9:26 pm to KAHog
Posted on 12/15/22 at 9:26 pm to KAHog
My wife was a widow when we met. Her husband had been killed in a car accident. She had been widowed for almost 10 years though, it has never been a problem. We have been married now for over 20 years.
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Posted on 12/15/22 at 9:42 pm to KAHog
If you are her husband's murderer, it might be uncomfortable.
Posted on 12/15/22 at 9:49 pm to LSU Coyote
Do you blame any woman for treating you bad?
Look at you
Look at you
Posted on 12/15/22 at 9:49 pm to KAHog
Dated a widow. She was in her early 40s. Didn't bother me a bit.
Posted on 12/15/22 at 9:51 pm to KAHog
Tell me you have a little dick without telling me you have a little dick.
Posted on 12/15/22 at 9:51 pm to SG_Geaux
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She doesn’t have any problems borrowing money from me.
This is why you haven’t gotten anywhere.
Cut that money train off and give her the ol gas, grass, or arse speech.
Posted on 12/15/22 at 10:00 pm to Lowercase G
quote:A voice of reason amongst lots of fail.
My wife ( no pics she's 50 ) is a widow. She never brings him up. Never compares.
As a husband I acknowledge the marriage but I don't give it life. We do things together that we have in common.
She is the most compassionate, kind caring person I have ever met.
Some advice, let her acknowledge his birthday and his day of passing without being insecure.
My wife (53 no pics) took care of her last husband while he died of cancer 15 years ago. Inspired her to change careers and become a nurse. When I first was getting to know her I'd wake up and check her shoulders for wings. She is a great person.
Some talk about women who talk about their ex's. All women are not the same. My wife rarely if ever talks about hers. It just depends on the woman. Choose wisely.
But like any relationship, you can't be insecure. If you are, you need to fix that first.
Posted on 12/15/22 at 10:13 pm to KAHog
My wife was a widow. She had a bad homelife and married young to escape it. I can probably count on two hands the number of times we've talked about her first husband--even less so as the years have gone on. We have an adult son now and I don't think he even knows his mother was married to someone before me. Not that we've tried to keep it from him. It just has never come up and have had no reason to mention it.
Fortunately, I've never felt like I was competing with him because I don't think she actually loved him nor was it a good marriage. I would say a widow generally carries less baggage than a divorcee.
Fortunately, I've never felt like I was competing with him because I don't think she actually loved him nor was it a good marriage. I would say a widow generally carries less baggage than a divorcee.
Posted on 12/15/22 at 10:30 pm to KAHog
I read this as "Dating Wicked Women"
Posted on 12/15/22 at 11:04 pm to KAHog
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Had a question for OT dating ballers. Is it uncomfortable dating a widow. Mainly, if it was a good marriage, would you worried about being compared to someone that you can’t “compete” with?
They kept their end of the bargain: "till death do you part".
They will always love their departed which means they are capable of loving.
Love is a decision. IF they decide you are the one they choose to love, they will likely do a very good job. They have a history that proves it.
She may cry because she misses her loved one, but that is normal. Be there for her during those times and provide her some comfort. If you love her it will bring you two closer together.
Enjoy her company and Have a Merry Christmas.
Posted on 12/16/22 at 12:19 am to Jim Rockford
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I've gotten used to having him around.
Cucked for life.
Posted on 12/16/22 at 12:33 am to KAHog
Perhaps not widowed by definition but dated someone who had a child with her late fiancée. We didn't work out as a couple as schedules never worked out but remained friends and talk every so often.
Nope, never crossed my mind. The man will always have a place in her heart and you will never pry it out. Especially if they had children. So no, shouldn't even be a worry.
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would you worried about being compared to someone
Nope, never crossed my mind. The man will always have a place in her heart and you will never pry it out. Especially if they had children. So no, shouldn't even be a worry.
Posted on 12/16/22 at 6:36 am to CamdenTiger
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I doubt I find anyone to compare to my wife, so probably just hunt and fish and just reminisce my way till my time comes
Your wife knows your username doesn’t she?
Posted on 12/16/22 at 6:44 am to chrome_daddy
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When I first was getting to know her I'd wake up and check her shoulders for wings.
Oh for Christ's sake.
Posted on 12/16/22 at 6:47 am to KAHog
I don’t know about widowed women, but according Hallmark a widower man is the biggest panty dropper on the planet.
Posted on 12/16/22 at 6:55 am to KAHog
The question made me think of her, one of the most naturally beautiful woman ever to grace the big screen. Had a crush on her for a quite a while.
Posted on 12/16/22 at 7:06 am to KAHog
Probably but do you not have anybody that you would compare to her?
Posted on 12/16/22 at 7:06 am to KAHog
quote:Only if I was insecure
would you worried about being compared to someone that you can’t “compete” with?
Posted on 12/22/22 at 7:45 am to KAHog
Every situation between people is different. If it was your wife, what would you want her to do?
Posted on 12/22/22 at 9:50 am to KAHog
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