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re: dating as a mid 40 year old male
Posted on 8/9/22 at 9:49 pm to justaniceguy
Posted on 8/9/22 at 9:49 pm to justaniceguy
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Latin Americans are closer to us racially and culturally.
Racially? Weird to worry about but probably the opposite of true based on migration and DNA.
Culturally I would be curious what you mean. There are a lot of different cultures in both groups
Posted on 8/9/22 at 9:51 pm to Warfarer
If you’re just wanting pussy sign up on all the apps…be sure and put your salary out there because women are whores…since the beginning of time.
If you want to find a decent woman…good luck. If you’re over 6’ women will have death cage matches for your dick…who knows why they’re so obsessed about height. Maybe longer strides to run from dinosaurs.
If you want to find a decent woman…good luck. If you’re over 6’ women will have death cage matches for your dick…who knows why they’re so obsessed about height. Maybe longer strides to run from dinosaurs.
Posted on 8/9/22 at 9:51 pm to deltaland
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120k 6 figure or 750k 6 figure? This will greatly determine the age and available group of women to you. 120k gets you a 40 year old Bawette twice divorced trying to cling to her youth and raise 3 travel ball kids.
120k as a divorced man probably also gets you eligible for some low income housing tax credits
Posted on 8/9/22 at 9:54 pm to ned nederlander
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120k as a divorced man probably also gets you eligible for some low income housing tax credits
Not if the bitch you left made 130k and you had no kids.
Posted on 8/9/22 at 9:57 pm to molsusports
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Racially? Weird to worry about but probably the opposite of true based on migration and DNA.
They are anywhere from 50-95% European depending on the country.
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Culturally I would be curious what you mean. There are a lot of different cultures in both groups
Their culture is basically Spanish with some native Americans/Indian roots. Which, being American, our culture in some sense is the same way, especially in the rural parts. Not really Spanish, but British, which isn't that different.
Call me a racist if you want but I would prefer my kids to look like me all things considered. Not gonna happen with an Asian chick. Pretty good chance it will happen with a latin American chick, depending on the country she is from.
Hell, some countries in latin America are literally whiter than America.
I am just assuming the op is white here. If he is black, there are countries in Africa he could find a good girl. Same with Asia if he is Asian.
Posted on 8/9/22 at 9:58 pm to ManWithNoNsme
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If you want to find a decent woman…good luck. If you’re over 6’ women will have death cage matches for your dick…who knows why they’re so obsessed about height. Maybe longer strides to run from dinosaurs
What's the meme about short women wanting tall men?
"What do you want to do for him? Suck his knees?"
Posted on 8/9/22 at 10:09 pm to molsusports
Obviously this is a very broad stereotype depending exactly which Asian country the person is from.. But a lot of Asian cultures believe in the parents leaving the workforce and moving in with their adult children when they still have 20-30 years of life left. At the very least, their adult children mostly supporting them financially.
Asian dynamics, depending on the country, also usually mean parents have a lot more influence in their adult children's lives. So you'd basically be having a relationship with her + her parents, and possibly other family members. For a lot of Westerners, this is really hard to accept because it is so foreign compared to how we are raised.
Some Latin American cultures do this too, to be fair.
Asian dynamics, depending on the country, also usually mean parents have a lot more influence in their adult children's lives. So you'd basically be having a relationship with her + her parents, and possibly other family members. For a lot of Westerners, this is really hard to accept because it is so foreign compared to how we are raised.
Some Latin American cultures do this too, to be fair.
Posted on 8/9/22 at 10:17 pm to justaniceguy
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Hell, some countries in latin America are literally whiter than America.
Depending on your definition of “white” they possibly all are.
Posted on 8/9/22 at 10:19 pm to FahQGump
sorry bro, but look in the mirror.
Posted on 8/9/22 at 10:26 pm to justaniceguy
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They are anywhere from 50-95% European depending on the country
Fair point in a couple countries I guess
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Call me a racist if you want but I would prefer my kids to look like me all things considered. Not gonna happen with an Asian chick. Pretty good chance it will happen with a latin American chick, depending on the country she is from
I'm not sure wanting your kids to look like you is racist. Part of the sense of life being passed on when we die is the idea that our flesh and bone live on in our children.
It would be nice if people weren't wired to visually respond and categorize others but very few people can divorce themselves from the desire to dabble with identity beliefs.
In a strict and traditional sense that probably is tribal or racist but I suspect the judgment on that varies more by individual than the inherent virtue of the behavior
I guess it could be a genetic feature rather than a bug. If we discriminate on the basis of genetic relationships then more of our relatives are likely to benefit. Not a moral thing FWIW just a function of human competition
Posted on 8/9/22 at 10:36 pm to BeachDude022
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except the dumb arse got remarried.
This is true
I dated for almost 8 years, and after the last one I was really tired of the whole ordeal. A woman that I had been friends with for years was suddenly single, she checked all my boxes, and I knew there would not be another like her. That was 18 years ago, I only wish I could have married her earlier in life. Got to know when to hold, and when to fold.
Posted on 8/9/22 at 10:53 pm to Warfarer
I can't remember the last time I wore a condom, but the feel & smell always grossed me out. Can't imagine having to use one now. Stories like your wife & her phone make me more grateful for mine.
Many teachers seem like they'd be hard to tolerate not worth any considerable effort. Ones I know are bossy & think they know it all.
And I know this is terrible, & only my opinion, but Asian women look like frogs in the face.
Many teachers seem like they'd be hard to tolerate not worth any considerable effort. Ones I know are bossy & think they know it all.
And I know this is terrible, & only my opinion, but Asian women look like frogs in the face.
Posted on 8/9/22 at 10:55 pm to Warfarer
You should date an attractive woman 10 years older than you.
Posted on 8/9/22 at 10:58 pm to Warfarer
Bleak. Its fricking bleak. I'm early 40s and its a wasteland.
I've noticed two options - the woman is verified headcase and is on medication
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she has multiple children from multiple fathers
Good luck finding a diamond in the rough that doesn't fit in those categories. I'm single now and got roughed up by cancer on several fronts so I'm not expecting to land a date any time soon. My expectations are zero.
I've noticed two options - the woman is verified headcase and is on medication
-or-
she has multiple children from multiple fathers
Good luck finding a diamond in the rough that doesn't fit in those categories. I'm single now and got roughed up by cancer on several fronts so I'm not expecting to land a date any time soon. My expectations are zero.
Posted on 8/9/22 at 11:21 pm to Warfarer
I’m 41 years old. Never been married and no kids. My last relationship was when I was 37 and the lady was 39. I don’t get drunk. I don’t smoke dope. When I hooked up with this girl, I’d thought at that age you’d put the bullshite and partying behind you. I shoulda known the first date when she wanted to frick before we went to dinner, this wasn’t gonna be a good relationship.
She drank way too much. Wanted to find weed to smoke. The sex was great, but that was the high point. It lasted 2.5 months.
The best advice I ever got was to not worry about finding someone. Take care of your responsibilities and do what makes you happy. Someone will come along when you at least expect it. Don’t worry about shite you can’t control.
If nothing I said matters, there’s plenty of single moms looking for their next husband. Get some pussy and get out
She drank way too much. Wanted to find weed to smoke. The sex was great, but that was the high point. It lasted 2.5 months.
The best advice I ever got was to not worry about finding someone. Take care of your responsibilities and do what makes you happy. Someone will come along when you at least expect it. Don’t worry about shite you can’t control.
If nothing I said matters, there’s plenty of single moms looking for their next husband. Get some pussy and get out
Posted on 8/9/22 at 11:25 pm to Warfarer
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When i am ready to date again, where is the best place to look for a new lady friend?
Fake answer : Tinder
Real answer: Bumble
My advice: Seeking Arrangement
Posted on 8/9/22 at 11:26 pm to TheOcean
Latinas are the way to go. There is nothing like being called PAPI
- Take pride in taking care of their man, if you have true love with a Latina, they cater to you hand over foot.
- they take care of the house and love cooking
- passionate in love & sex life
Usually very energetic, love to dance and express themselves physically
- Usually self-driven & not all Americanized, self-entitled and pretentious.
- family oriented & mostly Christian beliefs, They are generally old fashioned in principle.
- and to me. they are Gods gift to Man.
*** take a trip To Colombia, or will help you get back in the game!!!
Downside:
1. If You Piss them off, hide the matches and fuel tank, knives, guns and anything they can shank you with or light the house on fire. It’s a real threat, ?? ????
2. they are extremely jealous, my theory is that Latino men are dogs, they’ll have 2-3 families down in S. America, and they tend to be very chauvinistic or so I’ve heard, so Chicas in say Colombia, they LOVE Gringos from “Norte’ Americano”
(this is speaking of authentic Latin guys in other countries- not American guys). But I’ve learned those guys are whores apparently and have all the womenz on edge & it’s in their DNA
** BUT other than that, they treat you like a King, highly recommend!
- Take pride in taking care of their man, if you have true love with a Latina, they cater to you hand over foot.
- they take care of the house and love cooking
- passionate in love & sex life
Usually very energetic, love to dance and express themselves physically
- Usually self-driven & not all Americanized, self-entitled and pretentious.
- family oriented & mostly Christian beliefs, They are generally old fashioned in principle.
- and to me. they are Gods gift to Man.
*** take a trip To Colombia, or will help you get back in the game!!!
Downside:
1. If You Piss them off, hide the matches and fuel tank, knives, guns and anything they can shank you with or light the house on fire. It’s a real threat, ?? ????
2. they are extremely jealous, my theory is that Latino men are dogs, they’ll have 2-3 families down in S. America, and they tend to be very chauvinistic or so I’ve heard, so Chicas in say Colombia, they LOVE Gringos from “Norte’ Americano”
(this is speaking of authentic Latin guys in other countries- not American guys). But I’ve learned those guys are whores apparently and have all the womenz on edge & it’s in their DNA
** BUT other than that, they treat you like a King, highly recommend!
Posted on 8/9/22 at 11:39 pm to Westbank111
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Posted on 8/9/22 at 11:42 pm to mikelbr
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frick all that. Find a tan twink on Grindr, buy him Rosetta Stone, food, booze and drugs. Then put a wig on him.
Much less trouble and same result.
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