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re: dating as a mid 40 year old male

Posted on 8/9/22 at 5:50 pm to
Posted by USMCguy121
Northshore
Member since Aug 2021
6332 posts
Posted on 8/9/22 at 5:50 pm to
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accept your reapoanibkeiry


frick you joe.
Posted by ItNeverRains
37069
Member since Oct 2007
25445 posts
Posted on 8/9/22 at 5:50 pm to
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Starting all over in my mid 40's would be one of my worst fears.


Nightmare. I’m incompatible with todays social media addicted attention seeking female. Outside TD and a family Facebook account with no post history at all we have zero social media. I’ve had a few clients get divorced and the drama is off the charts.

To OP, most of my clients are high net worth mid to upper 6 figure guys and have no trouble hooking up, but holy shite the texts these guys show me from these women they go out with. are insane. I don’t think I could do it.
Posted by midlothianlsu
Midlothian, Texas
Member since Oct 2009
1413 posts
Posted on 8/9/22 at 5:53 pm to
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elementary teachers

You will do everything in single file
Posted by Warfarer
Dothan, AL
Member since May 2010
12126 posts
Posted on 8/9/22 at 5:59 pm to
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Nightmare. I’m incompatible with todays social media addicted attention seeking female.


This is what happened to my marriage. My wife kept getting farther and farther into social media. I told her a year and half ago that I felt alone most of the time because she was so obsessed with her phone and getting adoration from strangers that nothing I said or did was appreciated.

I told her I wanted a divorce and she said that it seemed very abrupt. fricking dummy.
Posted by BK Lounge
Member since Nov 2021
3441 posts
Posted on 8/9/22 at 6:02 pm to
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120k 6 figure or 750k 6 figure? This will greatly determine the age and available group of women to you. 120k gets you a 40 year old Bawette twice divorced trying to cling to her youth and raise 3 travel ball kids. 750k gets you 26 year old, attractive, no kids no ex husband.





Most accurate post ive ever seen in my short time on TD .


$120k (heck even $150k) in ur 40s wont get you very far in the dating dept, even in the South, with desirable women.. i know from experience.. however, i do know a guy (ugly) in his early 50s making $900k a yr who just got married to very hot woman in her early 20s, 30 year age gap… BUT there is an easy solution- just move to SE Asia; women there are absolutely crazy about American guys , no matter how old.. Find remote work, get on the dating apps, then PROFIT….
Posted by sawtooth
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2017
3588 posts
Posted on 8/9/22 at 6:05 pm to
Never ever ever date a teacher. That make shite for money and you will have to constantly hear about how hard their jobs are. (Nurses are the same but at least they make more)

Posted by Lou the Jew from LSU
Member since Oct 2006
4703 posts
Posted on 8/9/22 at 6:07 pm to
I was in the same boat. Went a little middle age crazy.
Stayed active in my congregation and met someone. Now been married 22 yrs.
Posted by ThatMakesSense
Fort Lauderdale
Member since Aug 2015
14792 posts
Posted on 8/9/22 at 6:07 pm to
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Tell me the pros and cons of teachers.


I don’t have pros, only cons.
Posted by redstick13
Lower Saxony
Member since Feb 2007
38504 posts
Posted on 8/9/22 at 6:09 pm to
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When i am ready to date again, where is the best place to look for a new lady friend?


Asia
Posted by tigergirl10
Member since Jul 2019
10310 posts
Posted on 8/9/22 at 6:09 pm to
I was expecting to be offended or outraged by the advice in this thread, but actually a lot of great advice.
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
48519 posts
Posted on 8/9/22 at 6:11 pm to
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Starting all over in my mid 40's would be one of my worst fears.

I don't think I'd try at all and if it happened so be it.
Posted by Oates Mustache
Member since Oct 2011
22060 posts
Posted on 8/9/22 at 6:11 pm to
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I was expecting to be offended or outraged by the advice in this thread, but actually a lot of great advice.


You gonna use it to further your fake chick catfish, Walt?
Posted by Limitlesstigers
Lafayette
Member since Nov 2019
2826 posts
Posted on 8/9/22 at 6:13 pm to
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Accept your reapoanibkeiry for your failed marriage before even thinking about another relationship.
Entitled woman detected.
Posted by lsucoonass
shreveport and east texas
Member since Nov 2003
68460 posts
Posted on 8/9/22 at 6:13 pm to
Yeah she may have a mental illness
Posted by Bulletproof Lover
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2008
1900 posts
Posted on 8/9/22 at 6:18 pm to
Go as far as engagement, then do not cross the line in the sand.
Posted by Popths
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2016
3965 posts
Posted on 8/9/22 at 6:21 pm to
6 figure guy? Not only should you not say that here but surely never mention it to any woman. You never divulge that info especially on dating site profiles. You never want a woman to view you as a meal ticket. People with money, never discuss money.
Posted by Big Gorilla
Bossier City
Member since Oct 2020
5454 posts
Posted on 8/9/22 at 6:26 pm to
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You never want a woman to view you as a meal ticket. People with money, never discuss money.


Sounds like OP wants to bang a few 20 somethings for a bit. No judgement. I probably would start in that range. But eventually will have to settle into someone closer to his age.
Posted by FahQGump
Auburn, Al
Member since Dec 2021
829 posts
Posted on 8/9/22 at 6:30 pm to
Welcome to hell! I’m mid 30s never married but have been engaged 3 times and 4 long term relationships. I’m more than average looking. Gym 5 days a week and make enough money. You’re gonna get stood up by girls that are well within your league. Don’t sweat it. It’s just how it is. I just relocated so that didn’t make it easier but finding someone with a similar outlook towards relationships are much tougher than you remember it being before your last marriage.
Posted by redstick13
Lower Saxony
Member since Feb 2007
38504 posts
Posted on 8/9/22 at 6:32 pm to
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just move to SE Asia;
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BK Lounge
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We're all anxiously awaiting your move to Thailand.
Posted by Barneyrb
NELA
Member since May 2016
5100 posts
Posted on 8/9/22 at 6:39 pm to
Far better to rent one by the hour
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