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re: Confession Time (Advice Welcomed) **Updated, pg 15**

Posted on 10/31/18 at 11:57 am to
Posted by kywildcatfanone
Wildcat Country!
Member since Oct 2012
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Posted on 10/31/18 at 11:57 am to
You have been dating her long enough to get serious and they haven't met? Seems odd to me.
Posted by Ted2010
Member since Oct 2010
38958 posts
Posted on 10/31/18 at 11:59 am to
quote:

"You’re dating a black girl? Interracial relationships are not good” 

“frick you know about a good relationship?”


That was fricking awesome!
Posted by LSUWoodworker
St George "God's Country "
Member since Dec 2007
18728 posts
Posted on 10/31/18 at 11:59 am to
May I suggest we have Kige do a yewtube video on the matter...
Posted by Masterag
'Round Dallas
Member since Sep 2014
19951 posts
Posted on 10/31/18 at 12:00 pm to
quote:


Are you trying to take T-bird’s crown?


No one will dethrone our Nubian prince




nah, t's much better at being a public figure than i would be
Posted by Thib-a-doe Tiger
Member since Nov 2012
36538 posts
Posted on 10/31/18 at 12:00 pm to
Dude keeps the royal penis clean
Posted by Chad504boy
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Member since Feb 2005
175874 posts
Posted on 10/31/18 at 12:03 pm to
my family ate mexican.

Mixed family sat next to us. White dad and white son, black woman with black son. They looked happy, he looked in love (or at least pretended to be).

They were sitting next to us. I tried to not look at them at all bc if i looked at them, then i'm looking because they are mixed races.

But had anyone else normal been sitting next to us, i would be casually looking at them.

It was so confusing if i should have been looking or not.
This post was edited on 10/31/18 at 12:04 pm
Posted by AllemanWC
Bayou Corne
Member since Jan 2015
997 posts
Posted on 10/31/18 at 12:07 pm to
Take a picture with your kids and your GF. Send it to mom and pops saying “Hey look at the cool landmark we saw”.

Their reply will probably be “hey why is there a AA in your pic?” “Oh that’s my GF so-and-so.”

You won’t be putting them or your GF on the spot. Their reaction will let you know if you will be attending any holiday events with them ahead of time.
Posted by LSUWoodworker
St George "God's Country "
Member since Dec 2007
18728 posts
Posted on 10/31/18 at 12:09 pm to
quote:

my family ate mexican.


OK, nice to know I guess.....

quote:

Mixed family sat next to us. White dad and white son, black woman with black son. They looked happy, he looked in love (or at least pretended to be).

They were sitting next to us. I tried to not look at them at all bc if i looked at them, then i'm looking because they are mixed races.

But had anyone else normal been sitting next to us, i would be casually looking at them.

It was so confusing if i should have been looking or not.




Posted by Ponchy Tiger
Ponchatoula
Member since Aug 2004
48773 posts
Posted on 10/31/18 at 12:12 pm to
No easy answer here. Just always keep in mind when you get married you don’t just marry the other person you marry the family as well. People will attack me for saying this but is 100% true. Good luck, man.
Posted by deltaland
Member since Mar 2011
100249 posts
Posted on 10/31/18 at 12:13 pm to
Your parents aren’t the ones to worry about. It’s her parents that will hate you no matter what
Posted by Chad504boy
4 posts
Member since Feb 2005
175874 posts
Posted on 10/31/18 at 12:14 pm to
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It’s her parents that will hate you no matter what



Corn Pop Ted
Posted by Bestbank Tiger
Premium Member
Member since Jan 2005
79000 posts
Posted on 10/31/18 at 12:16 pm to
Make sure to prepare her for their reaction. Make it clear that she is your first priority, and if your relationship causes a rift, it's on them.

The Bible says a man leaves his parents and joins his wife, and they become one soul and one body. That's in red letters.
This post was edited on 10/31/18 at 7:05 pm
Posted by Bestbank Tiger
Premium Member
Member since Jan 2005
79000 posts
Posted on 10/31/18 at 12:17 pm to
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Your parents aren’t the ones to worry about. It’s her parents that will hate you no matter what


Not necessarily.

But there will likely be at least one person in the family who disapproves.
Posted by ZappBrannigan
Member since Jun 2015
7692 posts
Posted on 10/31/18 at 12:20 pm to
Start BLEACHED.com.

But seriously they haven't met her?
Posted by go_tigres
Member since Sep 2013
5431 posts
Posted on 10/31/18 at 12:20 pm to
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Personally, I would say do what makes you happy.


This is the wrong advice. Hell, prisons are full of folks that did what made them happy.

Do what makes you happy within reason, maybe.

I’m a tolerant dude, but my kids show up with a black chick, a trailer park white chick, meth head, etc. we’re going to have to talk. It’s not racism, it’s cultural differences.

Let the down votes begin!
Posted by Brazos
Member since Oct 2013
20557 posts
Posted on 10/31/18 at 12:24 pm to
If she’s light skinned then there probably won’t be much of a fuss. I know that sounds terrible but it’s the truth.
Posted by Cold Drink
Member since Mar 2016
3482 posts
Posted on 10/31/18 at 12:25 pm to
OP you’ve received a lot of good advice here and I don’t think it’s too much to ask to post a picture of that behind of hers in return.
Posted by maxxrajun70
baton rouge
Member since Oct 2011
3726 posts
Posted on 10/31/18 at 12:28 pm to
hell no..im staying away from this one
Posted by oleheat
Sportsman's Paradise
Member since Mar 2007
14524 posts
Posted on 10/31/18 at 12:28 pm to
Why do I get the feeling this is the perfect Twilight Zone-style setup?

This will end being 15 pages long- and at the end the OP reveals to us he is actually of Mandarin Chinese heritage.
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
120008 posts
Posted on 10/31/18 at 12:29 pm to
Tell your parents that she makes you happy and that you hope they support your decision. I would think any reasonable thinking parents would care more about their child's happiness than anything. If they give you some push back tell them that they are going to make you decide between them and her and if they do that, they might not like the outcome.
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