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Posted by tiger91
In my own little world
Member since Nov 2005
39236 posts
Posted on 12/16/20 at 9:40 am to
Dude, I doubt Sonya knows about trusts. The brother and Aunt might but I'm sure no one is thinking super clearly at this moment.
Posted by TheFonz
Somewhere in Louisiana
Member since Jul 2016
21922 posts
Posted on 12/16/20 at 9:41 am to
There was/is a whole lot going on here. I just hope that everyone involved gets the help they need and find the peace that they want. The children and grandchild should always be the priority first and foremost. I hope the money left over from the Go Fund Me is being handled by a sober family member solely for the benefit of the children to help meet their needs. All may not have been as it seemed, but in the end, it looks like it will be used for a good purpose.
This post was edited on 12/16/20 at 9:42 am
Posted by Box Geauxrilla
Member since Jun 2013
19169 posts
Posted on 12/16/20 at 9:41 am to
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the Aunt put it on her credit card.

Then why did we create a GFM? People put funerals on credit cards everyday and pay them off over time. That’s what credit cards are for.
Posted by VABuckeye
NOVA
Member since Dec 2007
37478 posts
Posted on 12/16/20 at 9:41 am to
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Did she send words of support for all of the oppressed skeptics? I feel like we've been underserved.


If you donated out of the goodness of your heart she doesn't owe you shite.
Posted by tiger91
In my own little world
Member since Nov 2005
39236 posts
Posted on 12/16/20 at 9:42 am to
quote:

I hope the money left over from the Go Fund Me is being handled by a family member solely for the benefit of the children to help meet their needs.


I hope so as well and for my measly $20, I feel that it will be for the needs of the girls.
Posted by Champagne
Sabine Free State.
Member since Oct 2007
51341 posts
Posted on 12/16/20 at 9:42 am to
How much would I have to pay for the movie rights to this story?
Posted by tiger91
In my own little world
Member since Nov 2005
39236 posts
Posted on 12/16/20 at 9:42 am to
Box CD started that before the Aunt got involved.
Posted by VABuckeye
NOVA
Member since Dec 2007
37478 posts
Posted on 12/16/20 at 9:43 am to
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any word on the results of the autopsy?


Yes. It's none of our business.
Posted by stout
Porte du Lafitte
Member since Sep 2006
175464 posts
Posted on 12/16/20 at 9:43 am to
quote:

Then why did we create a GFM? People put funerals on credit cards everyday and pay them off over time. That’s what credit cards are for.



He started it before the aunt got involved.
Posted by Hawgnsincebirth55
Gods country
Member since Sep 2016
17158 posts
Posted on 12/16/20 at 9:43 am to
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No child should outlive their parent.
agreed frick them kids
Posted by Box Geauxrilla
Member since Jun 2013
19169 posts
Posted on 12/16/20 at 9:46 am to
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He started it before the aunt got involved.

Oh yeah I forgot that he went to the internet and begged strangers for money before talking to his family about his wife’s death.
Posted by Sneaky__Sally
Member since Jul 2015
12364 posts
Posted on 12/16/20 at 9:47 am to
quote:

quote:
Did she send words of support for all of the oppressed skeptics? I feel like we've been underserved.


If you donated out of the goodness of your heart she doesn't owe you shite.



donations don't come with strings attached - the money seems as if it will be used for the stated purpose, nothing else is required.
This post was edited on 12/16/20 at 9:48 am
Posted by stout
Porte du Lafitte
Member since Sep 2006
175464 posts
Posted on 12/16/20 at 9:48 am to
quote:

Oh yeah I forgot that he went to the internet and begged strangers for money before talking to his family about his wife’s death.



In fairness, he didn't even know her aunt apparently, and no way he was thinking rationally after losing his wife.
This post was edited on 12/16/20 at 9:52 am
Posted by Box Geauxrilla
Member since Jun 2013
19169 posts
Posted on 12/16/20 at 9:48 am to
quote:

any word on the results of the autopsy?

Yes. It's none of our business.

I thought there was a GFM to pay for the autopsy. Doesn’t that make it the stakeholders business?
Posted by Mo Jeaux
Member since Aug 2008
59752 posts
Posted on 12/16/20 at 9:49 am to
quote:

I thought there was a GFM to pay for the autopsy.


Not to my knowledge.

quote:

Doesn’t that make it the stakeholders business?


No.
Posted by notiger1997
Metairie
Member since May 2009
60601 posts
Posted on 12/16/20 at 9:49 am to
You are very kind to reach out to the family.
And despite a few a-hole responses, thanks for posting an update.
Posted by tiger91
In my own little world
Member since Nov 2005
39236 posts
Posted on 12/16/20 at 9:50 am to
quote:

In fairness, he didn't even know here aunt apparently, and no way he was thinking rationally after losing his wife.


Definitely YES to the second part and yes to the first as well ... the Aunt lives in day driving distance but they really don't visit/do holidays/etc.

Posted by SouthEndzoneTiger
Louisiana
Member since Mar 2008
11023 posts
Posted on 12/16/20 at 9:50 am to
quote:

You can put it in a trust that they can't touch until an age you establish.


I'm thinking the kids need the money now, for clothes, food, rent, etc. And whoever is going to provide this for them now should control the money. But I agree with you, that money should be all directly spent on the kids by the provider.
Posted by tiger91
In my own little world
Member since Nov 2005
39236 posts
Posted on 12/16/20 at 9:51 am to
quote:

I thought there was a GFM to pay for the autopsy. Doesn’t that make it the stakeholders business?


I'm 99.9% positive that the sister Sonya started and then cancelled that .. I want to say a call was made and it's "covered" due to the nature of the death? I can't remember.
Posted by stout
Porte du Lafitte
Member since Sep 2006
175464 posts
Posted on 12/16/20 at 9:51 am to
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But I agree with you, that money should be all directly spent on the kids by the provider.


I was talking about CDs life insurance beneficiaries in the future if something happens to him. Not the GFM now.
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