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Posted on 10/16/25 at 7:35 am to
Posted by Mo Jeaux
Member since Aug 2008
62374 posts
Posted on 10/16/25 at 7:35 am to
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It's okay if you don't know what you're talking about. Jos A. Bank needs customers too.


I would say the same thing to you. You don’t know anything about tailoring at all. It’s also clear that you don’t know about about different styles of suits (e.g.m English tailoring vs Italian (I won’t even go down the Milan, vs, Naples, vs. Rome as you’re clearly not ready for that)).
Posted by vl100butch
Ridgeland, MS
Member since Sep 2005
36667 posts
Posted on 10/16/25 at 7:37 am to
I guess it’s my age but on the rare occurrences I have to wear a suit, I wear a shirt with a buttton down collar.
Posted by HubbaBubba
North of DFW, TX
Member since Oct 2010
50789 posts
Posted on 10/16/25 at 7:41 am to
I say you should go for the 'Guido' look.

Posted by Jetstream 2000
Member since Jan 2021
268 posts
Posted on 10/16/25 at 7:41 am to
What’s wrong with Joseph A Banks? It’s like garanimals for middle aged men. It’s all I wear.
Posted by Longhorn Actual
Member since Dec 2023
2873 posts
Posted on 10/16/25 at 7:43 am to
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I would say the same thing to you. You don’t know anything about tailoring at all. It’s also clear that you don’t know about about different styles of suits (e.g.m English tailoring vs Italian (I won’t even go down the Milan, vs, Naples, vs. Rome as you’re clearly not ready for that)).


Oh, you must be talking about the difference between say, a Brioni shoulder vs. an Isaia/Kiton shoulder. You're right, I don't know anything about either of them. They definitely don't have my pattern on file, created when I visited their production facilities.

Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
148171 posts
Posted on 10/16/25 at 7:50 am to
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They definitely don't have my pattern on file, created when I visited their production facilities.


No they your pattern on file. It’s apparently a hot seller

Posted by coolpapaboze
Parts Unknown
Member since Dec 2006
20642 posts
Posted on 10/16/25 at 7:56 am to
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None of this is true.
Thank you.
Posted by Nephropidae
Brentwood
Member since Nov 2018
2735 posts
Posted on 10/16/25 at 8:02 am to
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Oh, you must be talking about the difference between say, a Brioni shoulder vs. an Isaia/Kiton shoulder. You're right, I don't know anything about either of them. They definitely don't have my pattern on file, created when I visited their production facilities.
I am happy that I don’t know and have no have a reason to know what any of this means.

Was hoping to learn about some good collar stays opening this thread
Posted by Lonnie Utah
Utah!
Member since Jul 2012
32262 posts
Posted on 10/16/25 at 8:05 am to
If you know, you know...

Posted by coolpapaboze
Parts Unknown
Member since Dec 2006
20642 posts
Posted on 10/16/25 at 8:10 am to
Here’s what you need to know about collar stays: keep the ones that come with your shirt and use them with that shirt. Stays come in different lengths, widths, and stiffnesses (if that’s a word), because shirt collars come in different lengths, shapes and stiffnesses. Not all stays will fit your shirt. Generally the ones that come with the shirt are the best for that shirt because they will be the right length and stiffness for that collar. If you have a soft collar, one that’s flexible and doesn’t have a stiff lining (or any lining), using a rigid collar stay will look odd and unnatural. You can buy metal stays but they will look odd on a softer collar. Some shirt makers will make stiff collars that don’t need stays but I haven’t seen that very often and most high end shirt makers, including bespoke shirt makers, will use collar stays.

That’s it.
This post was edited on 10/16/25 at 8:15 am
Posted by billjamin
Houston
Member since Jun 2019
16588 posts
Posted on 10/16/25 at 8:12 am to
I ordered a variety pack of metal ones years ago and still haven’t run out.
Posted by LemmyLives
Texas
Member since Mar 2019
13279 posts
Posted on 10/16/25 at 8:14 am to
Just take them out when you take the shirt off, not hard.

Plastic collar stays are bullshite, but less trashy than the losers that don't realize they need them. And permanent collar stays... arent.
Posted by T1gerNate
Member since Feb 2020
2196 posts
Posted on 10/16/25 at 8:15 am to
Weird thing to hate, but OK.
Posted by Pepperoni
Mar-a-Lago
Member since Aug 2013
4135 posts
Posted on 10/16/25 at 8:20 am to
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Not so subtle “I wear a collar” brag


Not so subtle “I own a shirt with a collar” brag
Posted by LSUFreek
Greater New Orleans
Member since Jan 2007
15860 posts
Posted on 10/16/25 at 8:29 am to
The history of Fashion can be fascinating at times.

I once went down the rabbit hole on the history of ties. They were initially used to close the collar simply because buttons weren't in use then. The ties were short strings for practical purposes. They eventually became more elaborate & frilly over time, whether they were accordian-like neck-fans, or flowing ribbons, or scarf-like knots/ascots, to cowboy/Col. Sanders-like bolos, to bow-ties, etc...and unnecessarily remained in use, even after buttons became a shirt staple.

The traditional men's neck-tie evolved from the bow-tie and kept getting longer & longer as men kept trying to out-do each other & peacock for the ladies. Now, whenever I see a business man or politician in a suit & neck-tie, I'm reminded they unknowingly chose a fashion style that evolved from a freudian dick-measuring contest.
This post was edited on 10/16/25 at 9:49 am
Posted by McLemore
Member since Dec 2003
34733 posts
Posted on 10/16/25 at 8:33 am to
Back when I had to wear a suit and tie 4 days a week, I would lose every collar stay. They’d go to wherever the mismatched socks were hiding out.

Lots of paperclips in shirts.

I don’t miss playing dress-up for coworkers.
Posted by bbarras85
Member since Jul 2021
2318 posts
Posted on 10/16/25 at 8:33 am to
I am 40 years old and this is the first time in my life I have ever heard of a collar stay. Is this what this board is coming to?

Bunch of metros in here.
Posted by Mo Jeaux
Member since Aug 2008
62374 posts
Posted on 10/16/25 at 8:39 am to
Collar stays are somehow “metro” in your eyes?
This post was edited on 10/16/25 at 8:44 am
Posted by RolltidePA
North Carolina
Member since Dec 2010
5080 posts
Posted on 10/16/25 at 8:52 am to
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I ordered a variety pack of metal ones years ago and still haven’t run out.



The metal ones are the way to go... Until one accidentally finds its way into the dryer.
Posted by MorbidTheClown
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2015
73541 posts
Posted on 10/16/25 at 8:53 am to
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Collar Stays


What I told my high school gf.
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