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re: Co- worker has been paying child support for five years,just found out the baby isn’t his

Posted on 1/25/19 at 11:28 am to
Posted by oogabooga68
Member since Nov 2018
27194 posts
Posted on 1/25/19 at 11:28 am to
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These types of situations - fathers losing their children to terribly difficult mothers or in this case, by a mother lying for years - is why from time to time we see murder suicide stories on TV.


Terrible, but true.

Sometimes when someone is pushed too far by an unjust system, they snap.

It's evil and wrong to hurt someone like that, but it's not hard to see that bad actions end in bad results sometimes.
Posted by Salviati
Member since Apr 2006
7049 posts
Posted on 1/25/19 at 11:29 am to
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Doesn't matter, no attorney can help at this point, the court will determine what's in the best interest of the child. Unless the biological father agrees to step in, he's stuck like Chuck.
Are you daft?!?!

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B.(1) If the notarial act of acknowledgment has not been revoked within sixty days in accordance with the provisions of Subsection A of this Section, a person who executed an authentic act of acknowledgment may petition the court to annul the acknowledgment only upon proof, by clear and convincing evidence, that such act was induced by fraud, duress, material mistake of fact or error, or that the person is not the biological parent of the child.



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Posted by HeadSlash
TEAM LIVE BADASS - St. GEORGE
Member since Aug 2006
54747 posts
Posted on 1/25/19 at 11:31 am to
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Pics of wife?

I’ve seen her and you wouldn’t want too.


Yet another reason NOT to frick ugly chicks
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
48994 posts
Posted on 1/25/19 at 11:32 am to
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These types of situations - fathers losing their children to terribly difficult mothers or in this case, by a mother lying for years - is why from time to time we see murder suicide stories on TV. In those cases, we almost always jump on the man for not having more guts. But if a man loves his child and feels he is having that love stripped away by a court or by a lie, well... Sometimes I get it. I wouldn't want to see it happen to a family, but honestly, I get it. Men snap when their minds feel there's nothung left to lose.



I said this in one sentence above.
Posted by Picayuner
Member since Dec 2016
3791 posts
Posted on 1/25/19 at 11:41 am to
Seems like he can get out of it because it was a fruadelent claim by the woman. If he still loves and wants to provide for the kid then fine, DO NOT send the money to the ex wife. The kid needs clothes ? Bring clothes. The kid needs food ? Good, bring the kid food. REVOKE the order and don't give money to the woman. PERIOD.
Posted by cyarrr
Prairieville
Member since Jun 2017
3951 posts
Posted on 1/25/19 at 11:43 am to
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Are you daft?!?!



Show me a case where support has been paid for five years and the court allowed this to happen. You can't, because there are none. Thank God you added that disclaimer because to even suggest this would be misleading advice. La. C.C. art. 198, an action to establish paternity of a child presumed to be the child of another man shall be instituted within one year from the date of birth of the child.
This post was edited on 1/25/19 at 11:54 am
Posted by Sao
East Texas Piney Woods
Member since Jun 2009
68469 posts
Posted on 1/25/19 at 11:46 am to

The most provocative and sad documentary I've seen in the last 5 years was Divorce Corp. Married fathers should watch it and that is a pretty sad thing to suggest in and of itself.
Posted by Robin Masters
Birmingham
Member since Jul 2010
34849 posts
Posted on 1/25/19 at 11:53 am to
Happend to my step brother. Court let him out of it.
Posted by Bestbank Tiger
Premium Member
Member since Jan 2005
78952 posts
Posted on 1/25/19 at 11:57 am to
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A guy I know had two boys 2 and 8, he was getting a divorce and had his concerns due to his wife being a whore.

He had the young one tested and was not the father, he got so pissed they tested the 8 yr old and he wasn't his father either

He still acts like their father to this day but went through with the divorce


He should get the kids and she should pay child support.
Posted by Peazey
Metry
Member since Apr 2012
25424 posts
Posted on 1/25/19 at 12:01 pm to
Wouldn't you lose rights of visitation though if you also revoke standing as the legal father? Don't know. But it seems like a possible outcome.
Posted by CelticDog
Member since Apr 2015
42867 posts
Posted on 1/25/19 at 12:03 pm to
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 is the kind of anti-man thing that needs to be fought up to the SC


gofundme will Grow to millions.
Two other guys will have jobs sorting out the victims and paying legal fees.

The legacy of TD.
Posted by TDFreak
Coast to Coast - L.A. to Chicago
Member since Dec 2009
8879 posts
Posted on 1/25/19 at 12:05 pm to
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I mean the point isn't abandoning, rather it's about not paying some whore a monthly sum to distribute at her discretion, right?

The baby momma doesn’t need as much money as the court formulas say they do. It’s just spent on their own creature comforts and doesn’t go to the kid.

Hope the fco-worker fights it and wins.....but still loves his non-biological child.
Posted by Jp1LSU
Fiji
Member since Oct 2005
2542 posts
Posted on 1/25/19 at 12:07 pm to
Tell him I said thank you and to please keep paying.
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
88149 posts
Posted on 1/25/19 at 12:08 pm to
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Tell him I said thank you and to please keep paying.

you would find humor in this, Jody!
Posted by SCLibertarian
Conway, South Carolina
Member since Aug 2013
40871 posts
Posted on 1/25/19 at 12:08 pm to
How paternity fraud isn't an independent civil cause of action in every state is beyond me. Having seen these types of issues in family court all the time, let me tell you these hoes are evil. No conscience whatsoever.
Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
112622 posts
Posted on 1/25/19 at 12:18 pm to
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If you are presented with an “admission of paternity”, assume you are not the father.


Not sure if it's different in other states, but if an unmarried woman has a baby in Texas, the father will be presented with one of these in each instance.
Posted by Salviati
Member since Apr 2006
7049 posts
Posted on 1/25/19 at 12:19 pm to
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Show me a case where support has been paid for five years and the court allowed this to happen. You can't, because there are none. Thank God you added that disclaimer because to even suggest this would be misleading advice. La. C.C. art. 198, an action to establish paternity of a child presumed to be the child of another man shall be instituted within one year from the date of birth of the child.
Pompous bitch.

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James P. Bruce and Antoinette St. Pierre Bruce were married on February 15, 2003. No children were born during this marriage. However, on November 12, 2004, James signed an authentic act before a notary public and two witnesses declaring that he was the biological father of S.J.B.,2 the minor child born to Antoinette on September 6, 2001.

Thereafter, on March 29, 2012, James filed a petition for divorce, in which he further sought to nullify or revoke the act of acknowledgment of paternity he had signed with regard to S.J.B.
Bruce v. Bruce, 2012-1748 (La. App. 1 Cir. 8/9/13), 136 So. 3d 796, 797.

The 17th Judicial District Court, Lafourche Parish, No. 119,932, Jerome J. Barbera, III, J., entered judgment granting nullification of act of paternity. Id. at 796.

The wife appealed. Id. at 798. The First Circuit affirmed the judgment of the trial court. Id. at 801.



Now go frick yourself.
Posted by andwesway
Zachary, LA
Member since Jun 2016
2721 posts
Posted on 1/25/19 at 12:31 pm to
You or your friend should post this to the Fathers' Rights Movement page on Facebook. Someone on there has bound to have gone through this and can offer advice on what to do and expect, besides getting a lawyer.
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
88149 posts
Posted on 1/25/19 at 12:32 pm to
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Fathers' Rights

oxymoron, my friend
Posted by Salviati
Member since Apr 2006
7049 posts
Posted on 1/25/19 at 12:55 pm to
I'm not his attorney, but if he were my co-worker, I would tell him to do at least three things, and do them quickly because time is of the essence:

First, he should talk to an attorney ASAP.

Second, he should read RS 9:406

Third, he should strongly consider filing a petition to annul the acknowledgment and institute annulment proceeding by ordinary process in a court of competent jurisdiction upon notice to the other party who executed the notarial act of acknowledgment and other necessary parties including the office of children and family services, child support enforcement section of the Department of Children and Family Services.

DISCLAIMER: The materials in this post are for informational purposes only and are not legal advice. Use of this post does not create an attorney-client relationship between you and this poster. You should not act upon the information in this post without seeking advice from a lawyer licensed in your own state or country. Please note that you should not send any confidential information pertaining to potential legal services to this poster until you have received written agreement from this poster to perform the legal services you requested. Unless you have received such written confirmation, this poster will not consider any correspondence you send to this poster as confidential.
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