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re: "Children Are A Blessing" -Yet Parents Have No Time, Money, and Stop Excercising

Posted on 7/21/15 at 10:20 pm to
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
49110 posts
Posted on 7/21/15 at 10:20 pm to
quote:

Im.here to answer your cry for help baw. Talk to me


Rarely do I Condone someone opening up to you.


Do it, op!
Posted by NIH
Member since Aug 2008
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Posted on 7/21/15 at 10:20 pm to
Edgy stuff bro
Posted by rocket31
Member since Jan 2008
41888 posts
Posted on 7/21/15 at 10:21 pm to
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Ahh...the weekly Rocket31 "I really have low self-esteem so let me knock others down to feel better about myself" thread.


i actually have very high self esteem - my hubris gets me into trouble moreso than not

this phenomenon is just interesting to me, and a study was released today that made me wonder.

also i rarely make threads on the OT - like 2-3x per year
Posted by BRgetthenet
Member since Oct 2011
118276 posts
Posted on 7/21/15 at 10:23 pm to
If you have kids, what are ya gonna do differently?
Posted by SabiDojo
Open to any suggestions.
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Posted on 7/21/15 at 10:24 pm to
8==========0
Posted by rocket31
Member since Jan 2008
41888 posts
Posted on 7/21/15 at 10:26 pm to
quote:

know we've done our part in this world


what does that even mean?
Posted by Ash Williams
South of i-10
Member since May 2009
18564 posts
Posted on 7/21/15 at 10:28 pm to
My two boys are exhausting, require a lot of time, patience, and money.

They require firm discipline but also a gentle disposition

They can annoy the crap out of me and make me want to wear noise canceling headphones

Their diapers are so awful that our house will likely have to be registered by the EPA as a superfund site after we move

But they are the light of my world and everything I listed above is totally worth it to have them in my life.

The joy of watching them learn new things and laugh and play with each other is greater than any joy I've experienced by myself in my 30 years.

If you've never been a parent you'll never understand, but the moment you become a parent you'll immediately get it
Posted by donRANDOMnumbers
Hub City
Member since Nov 2006
17537 posts
Posted on 7/21/15 at 10:31 pm to
I can see your point. I've been in shite the past 5 months. It's a lot of work, especially when your wife is rediculoualy busy and can't help as much.

But god damn do I love that little girl. Seeing her makes it worth it. Couldn't have explained it until she came.
Posted by Cap Crunch
Fire Alleva
Member since Dec 2010
54189 posts
Posted on 7/21/15 at 10:34 pm to
Because parents aren't selfish pieces of shite like you
Posted by rocket31
Member since Jan 2008
41888 posts
Posted on 7/21/15 at 10:34 pm to
you sound like a great parent and all that, but damn

all my friends who are parents go on these 10 minute rants describing the noises, the smells, sleep deprivation, and the awful things they must do to clean up after their children

then they make horrible jokes about all the immoral things they would do in exchange for just one hour nap and slience,

and when they have released this horror story onto me, it always ends with the same exact phrase- "it's all worth it"

i guess it just seems like one is validating their life choices? (coping) which is fine, i guess, just doesnt seem exactly honest


maybe i just dont "get it"
This post was edited on 7/21/15 at 10:36 pm
Posted by sjmabry
Texas
Member since Aug 2013
19090 posts
Posted on 7/21/15 at 10:35 pm to
Kids are a handful, but I love my 3, even though my 2 girls are bossy and needy, just like their mother I guess.
Posted by SabiDojo
Open to any suggestions.
Member since Nov 2010
84835 posts
Posted on 7/21/15 at 10:35 pm to
I do see your point, though. Kids are expensive, and your time doesn't even really belong to you.

But, hey, I like my kids. They're okay people.
Posted by rocket31
Member since Jan 2008
41888 posts
Posted on 7/21/15 at 10:37 pm to
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selfish


i am extremely selfish but i dont see why that is such a bad thing.

Posted by Tiger Ryno
#WoF
Member since Feb 2007
108762 posts
Posted on 7/21/15 at 10:38 pm to
Life is not supposed to be 70 years of perpetual adolescence. If you are too scared to grow up just say so and we will move on to some WYHI threads.
Posted by BRgetthenet
Member since Oct 2011
118276 posts
Posted on 7/21/15 at 10:39 pm to
Some people don't know baw
Posted by SabiDojo
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Member since Nov 2010
84835 posts
Posted on 7/21/15 at 10:39 pm to
I guess that's what drives me to stay in shape. I may not be able to get laid from countless women, I may have less money, and I may not be able to take all the trips I want, ALL BECAUSE OF KIDS, but I'll be damn if I'm going to be ugly.
Posted by Tiger Ryno
#WoF
Member since Feb 2007
108762 posts
Posted on 7/21/15 at 10:40 pm to
Let us be the judge..pics?
Posted by Ash Williams
South of i-10
Member since May 2009
18564 posts
Posted on 7/21/15 at 10:40 pm to
People tend to make jokes about what they know and what their experiences are

Parenting takes up a lot of time and is very difficult, so naturally you have to have a sense of humor about it

Since you're not a parent you can't relate but if you ever become one you will

When people ask me how many kids we want I always say "probably just one" (we have two) bc it throws them off and I follow with "the older one isn't as cute anymore so we'll probably give him away"

It's a joke, I'm not actually going to give him away

But again, we make jokes about what we know and what we're doing on a regular basis

If I'm playing golf a lot I'll make jokes about how much golf sucks and I'm awful (I actually am), but in reality I love golf (even though I'm awful)


Look, not everyone is meant to be a parent. Lord knows there are plenty of awful parents out there from every demographic. But if you choose to be a parent and you recognize that sacrifices will have to be made and accept that fact, then being a parent is quite literally the coolest job in the world.
Posted by HeadCoach
Shady's Parking Lot
Member since Mar 2009
5659 posts
Posted on 7/21/15 at 10:41 pm to
Complain board
Posted by Ash Williams
South of i-10
Member since May 2009
18564 posts
Posted on 7/21/15 at 10:43 pm to
Huh?
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