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re: Can a guy and a girl to be "just friends" and "best friends" and not gay?

Posted on 5/1/14 at 9:33 am to
Posted by Wooly
Member since Feb 2012
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Posted on 5/1/14 at 9:33 am to
two of my closest friends are girls.

Not weird. I don't have the gay either..... I hope
Posted by LNCHBOX
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Posted on 5/1/14 at 9:34 am to
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two of my closest friends are girls.

Not weird. I don't have the gay either..... I hope



Are you married or in a serious relationship?
Posted by rebeloke
Member since Nov 2012
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Posted on 5/1/14 at 9:34 am to


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ladder theory
Theory of adult male/female interaction, detailed at intellectualwhores.com. States that men and women can never be friends unless the man is gay, is sober and finds the woman repulsive, or has another woman much higher on his ladder.
Trying to ladder-jump is extremely risky and should not be attempted by the faint of heart.

Ladder Theory defines the Kiss of Death: "I just want to be friends."
Posted by Wooly
Member since Feb 2012
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Posted on 5/1/14 at 9:35 am to
In a relationship.

I have been good friends with them since high school.
Posted by TheDragonKing
Member since Apr 2014
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Posted on 5/1/14 at 9:36 am to
Yes. I have many hilarious black woman friends at school. Theyre some of the realest people you will ever meet. I laugh more with them then with my guy friends.
Posted by LNCHBOX
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Posted on 5/1/14 at 9:37 am to
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In a relationship.


So how close are you with these two girls that aren't your SO?

Would your SO be cool with you going to dinner alone with one of these girls? How about out for drinks?
Posted by brgfather129
Los Angeles, CA
Member since Jul 2009
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Posted on 5/1/14 at 9:38 am to
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i have some very attractive women friends that i am not sexually attracted to


Sounds gay.
Posted by Topwater Trout
Red Stick
Member since Oct 2010
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Posted on 5/1/14 at 9:38 am to
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Can you really say someone is attractive but you aren't attracted to them?


yep. just b/c i think a woman is attractive/good looking doesn't mean i find them sexually attractive. Certain things can turn me off about a woman. Not having sexy eyes is a turn off and talking about crapping is a major turn off.

This does not mean I wouldn't bang them...i just don't have the urge or desire to
Posted by Wooly
Member since Feb 2012
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Posted on 5/1/14 at 9:39 am to
Yea. She would be cool. And yes we go to dinner alone. They are like my sisters
Posted by SouthOfSouth
Baton Rouge
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Posted on 5/1/14 at 9:39 am to
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But what if you are not attracted to the girl in the slightest? Would it still be considered friend zone? Or would one not even be friends with a girl they weren't attracted to?


Personally, being friends with the opposite sex will just bring problems, even if both of you can do it... Any girls who you are interested in will never understand. No dudes she is interested in will understand... Makes very little sense to me.
Posted by LNCHBOX
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Posted on 5/1/14 at 9:39 am to
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Yea. She would be cool. And yes we go to dinner alone. They are like my sisters


How long have you been in this relationship?
Posted by GeauxWarTigers
Auburn
Member since Oct 2010
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Posted on 5/1/14 at 9:41 am to
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Can a guy and a girl to be "just friends" and "best friends" and not gay?


I did it temporarily, but I had interest in the girl prior and got friendzoned.

I just happened to get another GF and continued being pretty good friends with this girl for a while.

I'd say it is possible, but the dude still wanted to bang her at some point. Also don't know how long it can last.
Posted by YumYum Sauce
Arkansas
Member since Nov 2010
9583 posts
Posted on 5/1/14 at 9:42 am to
girl im pretty serious with has several guy friends. she swears they are all her best friends.

I have to remind her occasionally that they'd date and/or frick her given the first opportunity. she still denies it
Posted by Wooly
Member since Feb 2012
13851 posts
Posted on 5/1/14 at 9:42 am to
Almost a year.

And she has guy friends that she hangs out with... doesn't bother me.

Posted by BurtReynoldsMustache
Member since Sep 2010
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Posted on 5/1/14 at 9:42 am to
No
Posted by LNCHBOX
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Member since Jun 2009
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Posted on 5/1/14 at 9:43 am to
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Almost a year.

And she has guy friends that she hangs out with... doesn't bother me.



How old are you?
Posted by LNCHBOX
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Posted on 5/1/14 at 9:44 am to
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girl im pretty serious with has several guy friends. she swears they are all her best friends.

I have to remind her occasionally that they'd date and/or frick her given the first opportunity. she still denies it



She's probably fricked half of them. Not even saying that as an insult.
Posted by Wooly
Member since Feb 2012
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Posted on 5/1/14 at 9:44 am to
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Posted by Celery
Nuevo York
Member since Nov 2010
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Posted on 5/1/14 at 9:44 am to
A guy and a girl can't be freinds without doing it. It's just not possible.
Posted by LaBR4
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2005
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Posted on 5/1/14 at 9:45 am to
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She's fricked all of them. Not even saying that as an insult.
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