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re: Brother going through a divorce...
Posted on 7/13/19 at 8:41 am to 187undercover
Posted on 7/13/19 at 8:41 am to 187undercover
I remember going through my red pill rage after my divorce.
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Posted on 7/13/19 at 8:41 am to Evil Little Thing
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Quit enabling us!
Agree 100%. You don't blame a small child if he does something stupid because of ignorance or lack of supervision. Why blame a woman?
There is a growing male consciousness of these things. It's being stereotyped as an "incel movement" by the same crypto-traitors who've given us centuries of "Romcoms" dating back to Shakespeare (not an Englishman, BTW).
This post was edited on 7/13/19 at 8:42 am
Posted on 7/13/19 at 8:43 am to Commandeaux
I'll be nice
This post was edited on 7/13/19 at 8:44 am
Posted on 7/13/19 at 8:44 am to 187undercover
Also, as much as you don't want to, you must remember you are getting solely his version of the story. Was he never around? An absent father? An alienated or estranged husband who showed little to no interest in his wife or children and their activities?
Posted on 7/13/19 at 8:47 am to Evil Little Thing
quote:oh I agree
Quit enabling us!
Posted on 7/13/19 at 8:54 am to BobABooey
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This is true but, at least in my case, 50/50 was used as a bargaining chip to get a bigger chunk of assets.
Your kids will realize this one day and have more respect for you.
I hope I never go through it, but if I do, she can have the money. I can never get my kids childhood back.
In almost every case, within 5 years, the woman will have huge regrets if she initiated the divorce.
Posted on 7/13/19 at 8:54 am to 187undercover
Speaking broadly ( no pun intended) Women, as they age want CONTROL. They want to control their world and make it as small as possible so they they don’t lose control. They want control of the kids, control of the home, control of the finances, etc . And many women tend to view their husband as a possession, a beast of burden, a mule etc. So yeah, if her ego needs gratification, and he can’t give her what she wants, she’ll kick him to the curb and seek a better deal that rewards her as she feels she’s entitled . The nature of women is control based. So if you are actually married to a really good well- adjusted woman without one of the many personality disorders that tend to inflict them, you should hold onto her.
Posted on 7/13/19 at 8:56 am to LSUbase13
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Also, as much as you don't want to, you must remember you are getting solely his version of the story. Was he never around? An absent father? An alienated or estranged husband who showed little to no interest in his wife or children and their activities?
Bingo. A lot of ignorant, borderline misogynist, views in this thread.
We had a rash of divorces in our circle of friends in recent years, and my wife somehow became the therapist for a lot of the wives. I heard their sides of the story, and not a single one mentioned material things not provided to them, not did any of them have another man lined up. They all talked about how their efforts as a mother and home manager were unappreciated and how they felt taken for granted.
Marriage is a two way street, and you get out of it what you out into it. There are shitty people out there that will bail on a marriage for trivial shite, but in my experience they are the exception and not the rule.
Posted on 7/13/19 at 8:57 am to hottub
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In almost every case, within 5 years, the woman will have huge regrets if she initiated the divorce.
Women divorce to trade up. Then they find not only can it be difficult to trade up, but they have to likely compete with many other women looking to do the same.
Posted on 7/13/19 at 9:04 am to 187undercover
While that sucks, that's a cheap arse excuse for divorce. Your brother married a weak woman who should be in therapy, not in a divorce lawyer's office.
Posted on 7/13/19 at 9:08 am to tiggerthetooth
Also lost in the conversation, is the amount of women who have PROFOUND mental/ psychological issues and disorders. For their husbands it’s a life of walking on eggshells and living in fear of the next episode and managing their wives just to get through the day. I think there are far more of these women out there than we acknowledge. I also think that stuff can get worse as women age or as they have setbacks in life. I mean, what do you tell somebody who is married to a screamer or somebody who enjoys humiliating them or hurting them or destroying their reputation? Other than get out quick.
Posted on 7/13/19 at 9:12 am to 187undercover
Never get married, lesson learned
Posted on 7/13/19 at 9:13 am to USMEagles
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Women also have a very Darwinian mating instinct that leads them to pursue sex with any lantern-jawed protagonist type they meet, unless they've been harshly disciplined.
Good lord. You people are either very stupid or know a lot of trashy people if you really believe this.
Posted on 7/13/19 at 9:16 am to 187undercover
Women are generally irrational beings that focus on current emotions and wants.
Posted on 7/13/19 at 9:17 am to 187undercover
quote:When they grew up and understood that winks and muscles were superficial and any half-arse could have them. Wanting a good provider is not hedonistic, it's anxiety calming.
When did you change from the girl you were and the young man, who he was, when you were both young, is what made you crush.
quote:Immature men stay the same. Looks are all well and good, but personality is a huge, if not the greatest factor one should consider.
Men stay the same (desire beauty)
You only know his side of the story. Maybe he's an arse to his wife.
Your brother's marriage might be dead but that doesn't mean "marriages are dead."
Posted on 7/13/19 at 9:18 am to 187undercover
Branson is a terrible place to make a living. 90% of the jobs are service industry and the town is shut down 1/3 of the year.
All of the people with $$ (entertainers and business owners) dont live there, and just come in for the busy season.
My grandpa retired, moved up there and bought a hotel. It was a terrible financial decision.
All of the people with $$ (entertainers and business owners) dont live there, and just come in for the busy season.
My grandpa retired, moved up there and bought a hotel. It was a terrible financial decision.
Posted on 7/13/19 at 9:18 am to Lsupimp
quote:Men are equally disordered.
Also lost in the conversation, is the amount of women who have PROFOUND mental/ psychological issues and disorders.
quote:Men are no different. Haven't you met possessive men by the dozens.
Speaking broadly ( no pun intended) Women, as they age want CONTROL.
This post was edited on 7/13/19 at 9:27 am
Posted on 7/13/19 at 9:20 am to CockyTime
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Truth is women crave attention
Everyone craves attention.
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The second they feel unwanted or unpretty they'll do whatever it takes to make them feel that way and that includes fricking some random dude that makes her feel wanted
I'm sorry you've been cheated on, but this is just wrong.
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think for most guys, the game ends when you put a ring on it. We're rational and putting a ring on it is such a big deal to us and decision to make, we feel the hard part is over and you'll love her for who she is and she'll do the same.
Nope. I know plenty of trash heaps who treat their marriage like toilet paper.
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The game never ends for her as I truly believe for a lot of them, they still need the constant attention while you no longer needed the same after the ring.
This is just a complete lie. Everyone needs attention. It may vary in amount or intensity, but every married man's eye has wandered, particularly during those times in marriage when sex is an afterthought and the everyday mundanity of life takes hold.
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Sparks to her is simply a dude eying her up and making her feel sexy... she'll forget all the things you've sacrificed in your life to be her husband. If you're lucky, you'll be able to find your old self after she leaves you, but sadly, they have already robbed you of that. This is how women take the souls of men
This is pathological. You need help if you actually feel this way.
The fact that this post hasn't been downvoted to hell is a sad indictment on our society. A sickness has crept into the minds of weak men. Marriage is not easy. It is work. It is conscious effort. Happiness isn't a state in which one lives. It is a moment one earns. It is called the pursuit of happiness for a reason. We have all been deluded by this fallacy. And the men on this Board have been deluded by it to an extent of self-infantalization.
Grow the frick up.
Posted on 7/13/19 at 9:30 am to LoveThatMoney
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Grow the frick up.
Preach, brotha, preach.
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