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Talking with some of the coworkers today and begin talking about women and how they act when a truly handsome alpha male is around. While I’m almost 60 now and those days are mostly gone, I’ve seen the side of women that avg and below guys never see. Especially from some of the women they put on a pedestal.

Avg looking men genuinely don’t understand how different women can act around a very handsome man, because they never get to see that side of them. They picture women as far more reserved, loyal than reality sometimes is. Not because women are evil, but because attraction changes behavior. A woman who seems wholesome, shy, loyal, or completely uninterested in attention can become extremely forward when she encounters a man she’s intensely attracted to.

I’ve had women slip me notes, message me, flirt openly in front of their boyfriends/husbands and even married women test boundaries they probably never imagined crossing. And these weren’t the stereotypical “wild” girls. Some were the exact women most men would describe as sweet, innocent, faithful, or respectable.

Most men never experience that level of attraction from women, so they assume it rarely exists.

I would like to get the thoughts of the truly handsome and the below avg looking guys of the OT.

What I really want to know is how those women reacted when you finally told them you were gay.

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Posted by Hot Carl

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Posted on 5/16/26 at 1:04 am to HogBalls

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Not because women are evil, but because attraction changes behavior

I agree with a lot of your OP, though how you’ve couched it as a not-so-very-subtle-at-all brag, is pathetic and exposes you a huge, gigantic fricking douche.

But putting your douchebaggery aside, I want to push back a little on the sentence I quoted. Yes, women in general aren’t evil. Neither are men. We’re all just humans. But there are women who do evil things, just like there are men who do evil things. And I won’t even get into judging humans like that.

But you’re missing the boat a little bit by saying simply that “attraction changes behavior.” That implies that people—women in your example—aren’t responsible for their behavior. Which is bullshite. I don’t know if you are intentionally invoking Evolutionary Psychology principles or if your real life experiences just validate its premises. Regardless, you’ve made a leap in logic that takes away the agency of women. Something which they’ve fought furiously for for the last 70+ years. Yes, women can’t help who they’re attracted to just like men can’t. That’s baked into our DNA. We had to evolve like this in order to ensure the survival of our offspring so that we could pass down our genes. Which is a subconscious human drive. A subconscious animal drive.

But we are all responsible for how we respond to those attractions. We can’t help our attractions or our drives, but that doesn’t give us a free pass to justify our behaviors. People with strong attractions and genetic drives to explain them, are still morally responsible for how we respond to them with our behaviors. It explains, it doesn’t excuse. Some of us may have stronger drives and more opportunities to act on them, but we’re still responsible for those actions and the consequences that come with committing them.

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Posted by FLObserver

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Posted on 5/16/26 at 3:50 am to HogBalls

A whole thread to state that hot guys/gals have it pretty easy in life. SHOCKER!

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Posted by rexorotten

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Posted on 5/16/26 at 4:20 am to HogBalls

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I've had women flirt openly in front of their boyfriends/husbands

OP was just trying to walk by in peace, but this woman was so smitten by his beauty she told him she wanted to frick him right in front of her boyfriend.

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