re: Average & ugly men don’t know what women are really like around attractive men

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Not because women are evil, but because attraction changes behavior

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I agree with a lot of your OP, though how you’ve couched it as a not-so-very-subtle-at-all brag, is pathetic and exposes you a huge, gigantic fricking douche.

But putting your douchebaggery aside, I want to push back a little on the sentence I quoted. Yes, women in general aren’t evil. Neither are men. We’re all just humans. But there are women who do evil things, just like there are men who do evil things. And I won’t even get into judging humans like that.

But you’re missing the boat a little bit by saying simply that “attraction changes behavior.” That implies that people—women in your example—aren’t responsible for their behavior. Which is bullshite. I don’t know if you are intentionally invoking Evolutionary Psychology principles or if your real life experiences just validate its premises. Regardless, you’ve made a leap in logic that takes away the agency of women. Something which they’ve fought furiously for for the last 70+ years. Yes, women can’t help who they’re attracted to just like men can’t. That’s baked into our DNA. We had to evolve like this in order to ensure the survival of our offspring so that we could pass down our genes. Which is a subconscious human drive. A subconscious animal drive.

But we are all responsible for how we respond to those attractions. We can’t help our attractions or our drives, but that doesn’t give us a free pass to justify our behaviors. People with strong attractions and genetic drives to explain them, are still morally responsible for how we respond to them with our behaviors. It explains, it doesn’t excuse. Some of us may have stronger drives and more opportunities to act on them, but we’re still responsible for those actions and the consequences that come with committing them.

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I've had women flirt openly in front of their boyfriends/husbands

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OP was just trying to walk by in peace, but this woman was so smitten by his beauty she told him she wanted to frick him right in front of her boyfriend.

Is this a midlife crisis post? Why's this old guy bragging about almost fricking someone's wife?

I can almost smell your cheap cologne through your post. I also have a strong suspicion you're the guy who gets flirted with by waitresses or the cart girls looking for extra tips and thinks he's attractive.

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Of course you will say I’m full of shite on this also but I’ve bedded a minimum 250 different women.

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Ewww…..

edit to delete accidental double post

My cousin is an actor, he has a few friends who are or were A-listers in the 2005 time frame. Around that time I went on a trip out to LA with my girlfriend at the time and met him and one of his friends for lunch. His friend that came along was one of the said A listers.

Two things happened. 1, I saw a side of my girlfriend that had never been shown before. 2, we had a time in bed later that night where I know she certainly wasn't thinking about me.

Unassociated to this we didn't date much longer, but a few months after we broke up she did ask for my cousin and his friends phone number. She was going back out to LA for a trip and wanted to see if they could meet up again. You can imagine the hilarity that ensued.

Dear Harlequin…