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re: Attractive woman in her mid-30s. Never married.
Posted on 10/14/14 at 2:47 pm to 777Tiger
Posted on 10/14/14 at 2:47 pm to 777Tiger
Maybe if more people waited to get out of their pre-pubescent years to get married, there wouldn't be so many upper 20 year olds going through a divorce. I live in a small town where people get married in their early 20's and being in the bible belt think its either because they are dying to have sex without the sin or because they're bored. Its the "whats next" factor. A woman with the will to not settle until she's figured out what she wants in her mid-30's...good on her!
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Posted on 10/14/14 at 2:47 pm to Salmon
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its not though
I would say half of them are crazy, and the other half value themselves entirely too much so that they turn down opportunities with equal partners in hopes that they will find someone on their perceived level
i dunno about that, I have met many of the guys they date and I can see why they dump them.
I think it really comes down to jobs. they want men with some ambition.
No I would say that is the problem with my single guy friends. They want an OT 11, who likes to party and is fun. And they are short, slightly overweight, and work a dead end job. Its not like they are prize catches.
But her friends for the most part are hot. I would stick my dick into most of them if they (and my wife) would let me.
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And that's why they're single. One day when they're 50 and feeding a cat everyday instead of a man they'll wish they hadn't let their childish feminist views stand in their way.
For the most part, I think they are ok with that. There was a push for "settling" in the mid 30s for a few of her friends so they could pump out babies. The rest of them don't really want kids.
Posted on 10/14/14 at 2:48 pm to PrettyBird
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The whole any single woman in her 30's must be crazy thing, while cliché, is probably around 80% accurate from my first hand experiences.
it's absolutely accurate. it's a self-perception crisis (is my value really that low?) mixed in with evolutionary-based competition (is my value really lower than her?), mixed in with evolutionary-based biological needs (my value is based in having children, and in a few years i won't be able to have any, which makes me worthless)
Posted on 10/14/14 at 2:50 pm to Hawkeye95
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I think it really comes down to jobs. they want men with some ambition.
they want men with ambition (aggressive) who are manly (aggressive) who "know modern gender roles" (non-aggressive)
Posted on 10/14/14 at 2:51 pm to SlowFlowPro
Single women in their 30's are just as crazy as the 23 year olds that are getting married right now. Every woman is an above 3 crazy. Live it, learn it.
Posted on 10/14/14 at 2:52 pm to GeauxxxTigers23
quote:And maybe they're not wanting to be in that 50% that fail. Think about it this way...a woman goes to college and graduates by what...21 or 22 or later.
And that's why they're single. One day when they're 50 and feeding a cat everyday instead of a man they'll wish they hadn't let their childish feminist views stand in their way.
Then, in this romanticized version of marriage you only see in Norman Rockwell paintings, she gives up her profession to care for her children. She basically wasted her college education and money making potential, which is supposed to be for her, before she's 25.
It kind of sucks. I don't blame a woman for doing her in her 20's.
Also, though, I'm not saying that crazy doesn't play a part in a majority of these women. A lot of them just have no clue about who they are or their value. A lot of them are not professionals, they aren't ambitious or hard-working and just are floating through life. But don't let that discount the ones that are not.
Posted on 10/14/14 at 2:53 pm to fr33manator
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But you've eaten plenty of women...
:rimshot:
Posted on 10/14/14 at 2:53 pm to RedRifle
What does she do for a living?
And no big deal as long as you don't seriously want kids. Medically speaking it's tough on the wrong side of 30
And no big deal as long as you don't seriously want kids. Medically speaking it's tough on the wrong side of 30
Posted on 10/14/14 at 2:53 pm to RedRifle
Did she just get a 60% raise and is moving to South Florida?
Posted on 10/14/14 at 2:54 pm to PrettyBird
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, are single for clear reasons,
like what?
Posted on 10/14/14 at 2:55 pm to The Sad Banana
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she gives up her profession to care for her children.
Plenty of women have and raise children while keeping a job.
The notion that this isn't possible is promulgated by feminists who only try to beat women down into weak sad helpless blobs then chastise and patronize them for it
Posted on 10/14/14 at 2:57 pm to SportsGuyNOLA
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Anyone who gets married before 30 is an idiot
That's a bit extreme. I do think that most people that get married before the age of 25 and it works out were the beneficiary of dumb luck.
There are those few couples that really have their lives in order and are prepared for that kind of commitment in their early 20s. There aren't a lot of those couples around though.
This post was edited on 10/14/14 at 3:01 pm
Posted on 10/14/14 at 2:57 pm to Breesus
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What does she do for a living?
And no big deal as long as you don't seriously want kids. Medically speaking it's tough on the wrong side of 30
Meh.....the real fertility issues/Down syndrome risks aren't until you hit 40. If you are healthy and not overweight and don't have underlying female issues.....shouldn't have an issue getting pregnant before 40
Posted on 10/14/14 at 2:57 pm to SlowFlowPro
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they want men with ambition (aggressive) who are manly (aggressive) who "know modern gender roles" (non-aggressive)
I dont know about the manly part, but I think they are just sick of men who are fine working a blue collar job.
The pool is small to pick from. First off, they all want a guy who went to college, since woman go to college more frequently than men this puts them at a disadvantage. They also are almost all liberal, again, more woman are liberal than men. Then suddenly you throw looks in there, and a few other factors the pickings are slim. I guess you coudl say they are too picky since they do almost all of the dumping but again I meet them. I know why.
or my $.02.
Its like my token black friend. He had a PHD (remember token), is atheist and a teetotler. He required all of those in his spouse, do you know how few atheist black teetotaling woman there are? Let alone with an advanced degree. BTW - he did get married to a lovely woman, who meets all of those.
This post was edited on 10/14/14 at 2:58 pm
Posted on 10/14/14 at 2:59 pm to Lester Earl
Some are gay?
Posted on 10/14/14 at 3:00 pm to PrettyBird
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The whole any single woman in her 30's must be crazy thing, while cliché, is probably around 80% accurate from my first hand experiences.
A lot of professional chicks in this category. I respect that they waited to settle down in order to work on their career. The flip side of that is that they don't need a guy like some other women, which often results in bailing on relationships pretty quickly when things get tough. I also think a lot of them have delusions about finding that "tall but modest, handsome but with lovable flaws, rich but humble, understanding yet opinionated, honest yet with a bit of sleaze, upstanding yet having a bit of naughty boy in him, stable yet adventurous..."
Posted on 10/14/14 at 3:03 pm to Bunk Moreland
Those chick's blame it on their professional lives but in reality they are batshit crazy.
Posted on 10/14/14 at 3:03 pm to Lester Earl
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are single for clear reasons, like what?
They be crazy!
But for real, they go after the wrong guys - the ones they know have NO future and are awful. They waste a year or two being on and off with this guy, then move on to the next crummy guy, and next thing you know they have hit 30.
It's the problem of them wasting time on losers. What makes them crazy, is wasting time on losers again and again and again.
Posted on 10/14/14 at 3:03 pm to Bunk Moreland
Does the same go for the unmarried 30-something male?
Posted on 10/14/14 at 3:03 pm to Bunk Moreland
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A lot of professional chicks in this category. I respect that they waited to settle down in order to work on their career.
False... They are not passing up great guys to focus on career. This an excuse. Complete excuse.
This post was edited on 10/14/14 at 3:05 pm
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